Nsanje amawononga maubwenzi m'banja. Kodi nsanje ndi chiyani? Kumverera uku ndilo pangano lachilakolako kapena mosiyana, chizindikiro chachikulu cha kusakhulupirira kwa mnzanuyo? Nsanje ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndipo imakhudza anthu m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungagwirire ndi malingalirowa molondola ndi molondola.
Nsanje kwa mnyamata wanu
Pomaliza Sveta anakhala mkazi wokwatira. Pambuyo pa ukwatiwo, anasamukira kukakhala ndi mwamuna wake watsopano ndipo anayamba kukonzekera nyumbayo ndi chisa cha banja, nyumba, chifukwa chipinda cha bachelor chinalibe kusowa ndi kutonthoza. Sveta atagula nyumba, anapeza phukusi lalikulu la zithunzi, zomwe mwachibadwa ankayang'ana. Pambuyo pake, iye anapita ku chipinda china ndipo adatsanulira njoka yamphesa, yomwe amamwa ndi volley. Ndipo onse chifukwa choti adakwatirana kumene pa zithunzi zonse adajambula ndi msungwana wina, mu cafe, pamphepete mwa nyanja, pa paki ... Sveta adadziwa nthawi yomwe mtsikana uyu wochokera ku chithunzicho, mkazi wake wakale, koma wodabwitsa, sanapeze bwino kuchokera apa. Sveta atsimikiza kale kuti pamene mwamuna wake abwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito, ndiye m'malo mokhala chakudya amamupweteketsa. Mawu omwe ndi opusa kwambiri kuti azichitira nsanje munthu pazochitika zake sizinagwire ntchito mu Kuunika.
Nchifukwa chiyani izi zimachitika?
Zochitika zoterezi zinachitikadi kwa aliyense wa ife. Ndipotu, tonse timamvetsetsa bwino kuti atsikana omwe apita kale, izi ndizopita, zomwe siziyenera kukumbukiridwa. Koma bwanji simungakhale ndi nsanje pa mnyamata pamene malingaliro athu akuwonekera momveka bwino zomwe zikuchitika tsopano kwa inu - kuti amunong'oneza mawu okoma, kuti am'kumbatira, amatchedwa mawu abwino?
Panthawi imeneyi, mtsikana aliyense amayamba kudziyerekeza ndi chibwenzi chake chamnyamatayo. Sichidzabweretsa kanthu koma kupweteka. Pamene muyimira ubale wakale wa mnzanuyo, inu ndi manja anu mumapweteka mtima wanu. Nsanje iwononga ubale, imathandiza kuchepetsa kudzidalira, ndipo zimakwiyitsa mnyamata wanu. Mukuyamba kukumba m'mbuyo mwake, pamene mungasangalale masiku ano ndikukhala mosangalala.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani?
Kumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse padzakhala munthu yemwe angakhale bwino kuposa iwe. Ili ndilo lamulo la moyo, koma osati zovuta ndi kulitenga monga wapatsidwa. Koma musapachikike pa izi, ndipo mochulukirapo, izi siziyenera kukhudza kudzikuza kwanu, chifukwa tonsefe tili ndi tsogolo lathu, moyo.
Kwa iwe, uyenera kukumbukira: mnyamata wanu wokondedwa ali ndi inu mwa chifuniro chake, chifukwa chake. Pambuyo pake, ngati ali ndi inu, zikutanthauza kuti ali wokhutira ndi zonse zomwe zili mwa inu ndipo amakonda kukhala ndi inu, osati ndi wina wa atsikana ena a m'mbuyomu. Maubale akale akhala ngati chidziwitso kwa chibwenzi chanu, tsopano ali momwemo, kalembedwe zakale zamulola kuti akhale wodziwa zambiri, wanzeru.
Nsanje. Kodi ndi chikondi kapena matenda?
Anansi anga ndi banja labwino kwambiri, Olga ndi Igor. Iwo akhala atakwatirana kwa zaka 4, ndipo nthawi zonse, Olga akuganiza zothetsa mwamuna wake. Chifukwa cha ichi ndi nsanje ya Igor. Mwamuna wake amalamulira magawo ake onse, pa mwayi uliwonse, akungoyendetsa zinthu zopanda pake. Kutaya nthawi kuntchito - chonyansa, kugula zovala zatsopano komanso zomwe zingakhale zochititsa manyazi. Olga nthawi zonse amayenera kudzidziyimira yekha, zifukwa zake zonse ndi zopanda pake, ndipo mawuwo amangopangitsa kuti azitsatira mwamuna wake.
Nchifukwa chiyani izi zimachitika?
Pankhani imeneyi, nsanje yakhala yovuta. Mwamuna wa Olga amangokhalira kuganiza kuti akusinthidwa ndipo mkazi wake sakhala wokhulupirika kwa iye. Vuto lalikulu ndilo kuti nsanje ndi 100% yotsimikiziranso za chiwembu ndipo safuna zifukwa zilizonse ndipo zimakhala zovuta kumutsimikizira munthu woteroyo. Akatswiri amati dziko lino la munthu ndi "delirium of delirium." Pambuyo pake, munthu woteroyo ndi ovuta kwambiri kuchoka mudziko lino ndipo ndi nsanje yomwe imapha ubale.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani?
Ngati zonse zafika patali kwambiri kuti mwataya anzanu onse ndikupita ku salon limodzi ndi mwamuna wanu, ndiye muyenera kulingalira mozama ngati mukufuna chibwenzi choterocho. Ndi moyo wanu ndipo ndikofunikira kuti muzikhala momasuka, kusangalala tsiku ndi tsiku, komanso osadzilungamitsa nokha pazitsulo zomwe mumatenga pamaso pa munthu aliyense. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mukuchita ndi mnzanu ndi ulemu ndikuyesera ndi mphamvu zanu zonse kuti mumutsimikizire za kukhulupirika kwanu, ndiye palibe chomwe chimakulepheretsani kukhala ndi chikumbumtima choyera kuti mutenge nawo. Zidzakhala zolakwika, ngati chifukwa cha wokondedwa iwe udzawononga moyo wako.
Ngati mukuwona kuti n'kovuta kumvetsetsa malingaliro anu, ndiye muyenera kuonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti nsanje imawononga ubale m'banja. Khulupirirani wokondedwa wanu ndipo mutha kukhala mosangalala nthawi zonse.