Mavuto mkati mwake, koma inu mukuvutika nawo chifukwa cha inu? Inde. Koma musataye mtima - pali njira yotulukira! Chinthu chachikulu sikutembenukira ku izi. Inu nokha mungathe kuthandiza mwamuna wanu kuthana ndi mantha ake. Choncho, funso lofunika kwambiri kuti lifike lero: Maofesi a amuna khumi ndi momwe angagwirire ndi amayi omwe ali nawo. Kambiranani?
ZINTHU ZONSE 1. NDINE ETER SECOND.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Amakuwonani inu madzulo onse, osabisa kudzikuza kwake, koma akuwopa kuti atenge gawo loyamba. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe iwe umawonekera movutikira, ndi kosavuta kuti asadziŵane nawe, koma ndi yemwe mawu akuti "imvi" imayandikira nthawi zambiri.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amafotokoza kuti mwamuna atangoona mkazi wokongola kutsogolo kwa iye, amaganiza kuti: "Kukongola koteroko sikungakhale wosungulumwa." Kukulitsa izo mwa iyemwini, amadzitsimikizira kuti mkaziyu ali ndi mnzake. Ndipo ngakhale atatha kumudziwa ndi kupanga chiyanjano chilichonse, m'tsogolomu nthawi zonse ayenera kumenyana naye, chifukwa kuzungulira kwake padzakhala anthu ambiri a "kuchkavatsya" ... Musalole kuti malingaliro ake apite kutali, atengepo kanthu. "Adzayamikira kuti mumadzikondera nokha ndipo adzatha kumvetsa kuti ndiwe munthu amene mungathe kulankhulana mosavuta", akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza.
ZINTHU ZONSE 2. Ndine BAD LOVER.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Ali pabedi amayamba kupepesa chifukwa cha zomwe sanachite kale, ndipo masekondi 30 akufunsapo ngati akuchita zonse bwino - iye amakuwonetserani chisamaliro chokwanira, kapena akukumana ndi zovuta za wokonda zoipa. Kufotokozera mavuto mwa kudzidalira kungakhalenso kufuna kwawo kukangana ndi munthu nthawi zonse. Kodi mnzanu akuyembekezera kuyerekezera ndi inu? Afuna kudziwa kuti ndi angati a inu omwe munali ndi okondedwa pamaso pake, ndani mwa iwo amene angakhale wabwino komanso chifukwa chiyani? "Musadabwe ngati, pambuyo pa nkhani yanu yoyankhulidwa, amanena kuti ambiri okondedwa anu (ngakhale mutatchula awiri okha) awonongeke kwambiri. Kuti tsopano sangathe kukukhulupirirani ndi mtima wonse, choncho, khalani omasuka kwambiri ndi anzanu, "akuchenjeza za kugonana.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Zonse zomwe mukusowa ndi kusankha mawu olondola. Yesetsani kumuuza kuti iye ndi mmodzi yekha, kuti mumasiya anu apitalo chifukwa iwo "sadayimilire" mwa iye. Yesetsani kumuthandiza kuti akhale mfulu, koma musatengeke. Pambuyo pake, kunena kuti chirichonse chinali chodabwitsa, ndipo kunama si chinthu chimodzimodzi.
ZOYENERA 3. Ndidzanyenga.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Kodi mumakhala nthawi yambiri pamodzi, ndipo sanakukumbutseni? Mungakonde kuyenda naye mpaka m'mawa, mutagwira manja, koma sakuwonetsa kanthu? Kodi mukufuna kumamatira kumbali yake, koma nthawi yomweyo amachoka? Inde, munthu akhoza kuvomereza kukayikira za kugonana kwake, ngati sakunena mobwerezabwereza za abwenzi ake akale. Kapena, makamaka molondola, momwe onse a iwo anauponyera mopanda chifundo. Akuyesera kudzimangira yekha wamwano, wanzeru ndi chidziwitso, ali wokonzeka kulankhula kwa maola ambiri za chiwonongeko cha maubwenzi onse.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Choyamba, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti amuna oterewa ndi osowa, chifukwa ambiri a iwo ndi osaka mwachibadwa. Akuchita zonse zomwe zingawoneke kuti zovuta zowonjezereka "zamoyo zonyengedwe" zitheke mwa amayi. Chachiwiri, ndi chiopsezo - ndilo dzina lovuta - mukhoza komanso muyenera kulimbana. Apa, kuyembekezera machenjerero akufunikira. Musamafulumire kupanga chiyanjano, chifukwa amantha kwambiri kuti akangodalira, mumagwiritsa ntchito mwachangu. Ngati mutengapo mbali mmanja mwanu, mukufuna kuyamba chibwenzi, ndiye kuti muwachotse, ndiko kuti, kuponyera, sikungakhale kovuta kwa inu. Muloleni amvetse kuti mukuyembekezera gawo loyamba kuchokera kwa iye. Khalani modzipereka komanso moona mtima momwe mungathere. Izi ndizo zomwe samayembekezera kwa inu. Ndondomeko zake zonse zidzatha - ndipo adzasintha bwino.
ZOYENERA KWAMBIRI 4. SINDAKHALIDWE.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Nthawi zonse amabwera kunyumba atatopa, ngakhale ngati ali muofesi tsiku lonse amasamuka kuchoka kumalo kupita kumaloko ndi zolembedwa. Kapena mwakonzekera nthawi ya zana kuti mumvetsere nkhani yanu yokhudza nsapato zomwe mumayesa m'sitolo zotsutsana, koma musalankhulepo za mavuto awo.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti munthu adzipangire yekha kuntchito. Koma ngakhale atachita cholakwika posankha ntchito, izi sizikutanthauza kuti iye adzayenera kuvutika ndi zovuta zonse pa moyo wake wonse. Yesetsani kuyambitsa kukambirana za zomwe amakonda mu ubwana. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri ana amakonda zomwe amachita. Ngati akufuna kupanga mapulaneti, muuzeni ngati mwangozi za gulu lachigawo la ndege. Anapita kulikonse ndi Zenith wakale ndikujambula zonse? Ndiye muyenera kumuitanira ku chithunzi chojambula ndi kupanga mphatso - kamera yatsopano. Ndipo pamene, potsiriza, adzakhala ndi nthawi yochezera, ngakhale osagwirizana ndi ntchito, koma zomwe zidzamubweretsa chimwemwe, bizinesi yake muofesi idzapita bwino.
ZOCHITA 5. "PAPIK".
Mukudziwa bwanji? Kawirikawiri munthu amadzikuzadi kuti mu "arsenal" yake ali ndi mbuye wamng'ono, kapena akuwopa kuti kukongola kwake posachedwapa kudzamupeza wokondedwa wamng'ono. Potsatira njira yachiwiri, angafune kuona kuti ndi anthu ochepa omwe amagwiritsa ntchito ubale wanu momwe zingathere. Makamaka pankhani yowoneka ndi inu - mwadzidzidzi aliyense angaganize kuti ndinu mdzukulu wake?
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Sikofunika kukokera kumalo kumene kuli kotheka kumuwonetsa ngati agogo ake. Yesetsani kumukumbutsa nthawi zambiri kuti palibe anzanu angakupatseni zomwe akupereka. Ndipotu, mumakonda kwambiri naye? Pano pa izi ndipo muyenera kupanga mawu omveka.
ZINTHU ZOFUNIKA KWAMBIRI 6. NDINE WOSANGALALA.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Simukuyenera kumvetsa ngati ali ndi vutoli - alidi zonse, ndipo inu, kuphatikizapo. Muyenera kungosankha momwe mnzanuyo akuvutikira komanso zomwe sizimulola kuti akhale mwamtendere. Chinthu chokha chomwe chiri chizindikiro cha zana lochepa kwambiri ndi nsanje.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ngati nkhani yake si yachilendo, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi kusaganizira zomwe zinapangitsa kuti asakhale wosatetezeka. Mwachitsanzo, ikhoza kukhala kukula kochepa, mimba ya mowa, mutu wa tsitsi, ndi zina. Lankhulani zambiri za zoyenera. Pambuyo pake, ngati muli ndi zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugwirizana kwa miyendo yanu, ndiye ziribe kanthu kuti mumanena kuti ndi okongola bwanji, sangakhale ochepa kwambiri kwa inu. Kotero, ngati iye ali waufupi, chitamandeni malingaliro ake ndi kuseketsa; ngati ali ndi tsitsi - kuthekera kusewera shihmata, etc. Milandu yonyalanyaza kwambiri, munthu yemwe sali woyanjanitsidwa bwino amayesera kubwezera zolephera zake pochititsa manyazi anthu omwe amamuzungulira. Ngati mwadzidzidzi munayamba kumva kuti akuyesera kukuthandizani, muyenera kuganiza: ndiyanjana ndi iye omwe mumagwiritsira ntchito ntchitoyi. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti muthandizidwe kuthetsa vutoli ndizothandiza kutembenukira kwa akatswiri kuti awathandize.
YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA 7. NDINE WOSANGALALA.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Zikuwoneka kuti ngati ali m'zonse ndipo nthawizonse amafuna kuti azikhala bwino, ndizoipa? Zoonadi, izi ndi zabwino, koma m'zonse muyenera kudziwa chiyeso. Iyenera kumvetsera zomwe kwenikweni mtengo umamupatsa utsogoleri wamuyaya wamuyaya. Mwachitsanzo, ngati adalonjeza kuti adzakuchitirani kanthu, koma chifukwa cha zifukwa zosiyanasiyana sakanatha, ndiye kuti angamudye kuchokera mkati mpaka atakwaniritsa lonjezolo. Ngakhale mutadziwa bwino kuti mungachite mosavuta.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ndikofunika kuti munthu amvetse kuti umamukonda. Muzikonda momwe zilili. Ndipo kamodzi kakang'ono ka asterisk kochokera kumwamba kadzakukwanira iwe. Kotero ngati, mwachitsanzo, m'nyengo yachilimwe iye sangakwanitse kupita nawe ku tchuthi kupita ku Hawaiian Islands, yesetsani kupereka: "Wokondedwa, bwanji ngati titagwiritsa ntchito tchuthi ku dacha?" Iye, ndithudi, adzadabwa, koma maganizo anu adzakuuzani "Zikomo kwambiri." Ndipo zochitika zake zina zonse zidzangotchulidwa ndikumverera kokhokoza chifukwa chakuti mumamukonda. Musamangokonda kokha komanso osati zowonjezera mphatso zamtengo wapatali.
ZINTHU ZONSE 8. NDINE NDALAMA.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Iye, ali ndi mutu wake pansi, amatha kudutsa m'malesitanti odyera, amapewa kukambirana nkhani zachuma, amaitana anthu ena ochepa omwe ali ndi zigawenga ndipo amati suti ya madola zikwi imodzi idzagulidwa ndi wamisala basi. Njira ina ingatheke - zosiyana: ndi iye, munthu amachita zomwezo, zomwe zimati ndi zosangalatsa bwanji kukhala pa Rublevka, kukwera njinga, ndi kuvala zovala kuchokera ku Ralph Lauren.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Pazochitika zonsezi, mwamuna wanu ali ndi vuto poika zofunikira. Ntchito yanu yaikulu ndikulankhula mochuluka momwe mungathere pazinthu zopanda zakuthupi, koma zauzimu. Inu, mwachiwonekere, simudzabweretsa zitsanzo imodzi kapena ziwiri kuyesa ndikumupangitsanso kuti ayang'anenso zoyenera zake. Yesetsani kupita naye ku chipinda chosavuta, kumene kuli chete komanso kosavuta komanso mutha kulankhula molimba mtima. Mukhoza kupita ku chiwonetserochi, chomwe chimasonyeza ojambula ojambula bwino omwe salipira msonkho. Kapena ku konsati ya gulu lochititsa chidwi koma lomwe silinalimbikitsidwe lomwe limagwira m'magulu aulere. Mudzawona, adzaleka kugwedeza ndalama, atangodziwa kuti zonse ndiza mtengo wapatali, si zabwino. Kuti mumamukonda, ndipo chikondi chanu sichidalira ndalama zomwe mumalandira kapena mphatso. Ndipo kuti ndinu wofunikira kwambiri kuposa chidwi chake.
ZINTHU ZONSE 9. SINDITENDE NDI IZI.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Chitsanzo chotere: mumachokera ku Moscow - ndiwe boma, mumapindula ndalama zambiri - amapulumutsa ndalama iliyonse, mumaphunzira ku Moscow State University ndi diploma yofiira - adathamangitsidwa mu sayansi chaka choyamba. N'zotheka kuti munthu wanu ali ndi kudzidalira kwathunthu. Inde, inde, ndi zofooka zonse zooneka ndi izi - palibe kanthu poyerekeza ndi zoyenera. Chilichonse m'dziko lapansi chimakhala cholingana. Ndipo mukakhala ndi zokwanira payekha, muli ndi chinachake chophunzitsana kuti muzisangalala ndi chiyanjano. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti ndinu ochokera "mabokosi a mchenga" osiyanasiyana - alibe chofunika kwenikweni. Zinthu zimakhala zovuta kwambiri ngati munthu wanu ali ndi thovu pamlomo, amatsimikizira kuti n'zosavuta kuti a Muscovite achibadwa azikhala mosavuta, kuti zonsezi ndi zophweka kwa ana a Papa, kuti mugule diploma ya yunivesite iliyonse, ndipo simungapeze ndalama zambiri mwa njira zowona mtima. Koma ngakhale zonsezi mungathe kupirira.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ndi kulakwitsa kumuuza momveka bwino kuti maganizo ake ndi khalidwe lake zimabweretsa mavuto ake, ngakhale pamene ali. Ngati muli osiyana ndi anthu - yesetsani kuti musamamvetsere zinthu zing'onozing'ono zomwe zikulekanitsani inu. Muyenera kupeza zofanana, mutengedwe ndi chinthu chimodzi, nthawi zambiri mumati "ife". Ndiyeno inu awiri mudzakhala amodzi. Ndipo iye adzaleka kuganiza, potsiriza, kuti siwe bwenzi kwa wina ndi mzake.
ZINTHU ZONSE 10. NDAKHALA NDI CHIZINDIKIRO CHA ZAKA ZAMBIRI.
Mukudziwa bwanji? Mu moyo, mwamtheradi munthu aliyense amakhala ndi mavuto awiri okalamba: woyamba - ali ndi zaka makumi atatu, wachiwiri - pamene ali pafupi makumi anai ndi makumi asanu ndi zisanu. Yoyamba ndi nthawi yoyamba kufotokozera, pamene munthu ayesa zomwe wapindula ndi zomwe ziyenera kuchitika. Chachiwiri chimayambitsidwa ndi chilakolako chogwira ntchito pa zolakwitsa zakale: kusintha ntchito, komanso nthawi zambiri anthu ozungulira.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ndi njira yoyamba yomwe ikuyandikira, kaya kusokonezeka kwa maubwenzi onse, kapena kuperekedwa kukwatirana. Lachitatu lachiwiri - yesetsani kufotokozera malingaliro a utawaleza wa moyo wanu wa banja. Vuto la zaka makumi anai mwamuna amakhalabe wovuta kwambiri. Apa chinthu cholondola ndicho kuleza mtima ndikuyesera kukhala kwa iye choyamba mzanu wabwino.
Kutsiriza matenda.
- Atsikana 75% amavutika ndi maofesi a amuna awo.
- 50% akuyesera kulimbana ndi amuna ovuta.
- 13% amakhulupirira kuti achinyamata awo ali ndi zovuta zambiri zokonda anzawo.
- 28% amakhulupirira kuti munthu akudutsa, akukhulupirira kuti sakugwirizana naye.
- 50% ali otsimikiza kuti palibe amuna opanda ma complexes ndipo, kwenikweni, sangathe. Ndipo kutsutsana ndi chikhalidwe chaumunthu ndikuwononga nthawi ndi mphamvu.
- 27% anayesera kuthana ndi makompyuta a amuna, koma, mwatsoka, zotsatira sizinachitike.
- Atsikana 23% amanena kuti adakali ndi mphamvu zokakamiza amuna awo kuti maofesi awo sali olondola.