Madalitso a mayiyo ndi amamu amphamvu kwambiri kwa mwanayo. Chitetezo cha mphamvu chopanda mphamvu chikukhala ndi munthu moyo wake wonse. Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi iye, ndipo ngakhale amayi ali kutali kapena sakali moyo. Kupanga mtundu wa capsule woteteza, dalitso la mayi limateteza ku mavuto, kulephera, diso loipa kapena matemberero. Mmenemo, munthu akhoza kupeza mphamvu, kudzoza ndi moyo wabwino. Kwa nthawi yoyamba mayi amapereka madalitso kwa mwana wake ali mwana, ndiyeno patsogolo pa chochitika chilichonse chofunika m'moyo wake. Kodi mungadalitse bwanji ana? Kodi ndi zaka zingati zomwe zingayambe, ndipo ndi mapemphero ati omwe mungapite nawo?
Madalitso a Sakramenti a Mwana
Dalitso loyamba liyenera kuchitika mu nthawi ya chidziwitso cha mwana. Kalekale chilakolako cha Asilavic chinkayikiridwa kuti kuzindikira kumafika zaka 7-8. Munthu wamng'ono amaganizira za cholinga cha moyo, amadzizindikiritsa yekha ndipo amaphunzira kutenga udindo. Pa msinkhu uwu, amayi amapatsa mwana mphamvu zonse za moyo zomwe zasungidwa kwa iye. Pali chikhalidwe cha madalitso. Ndi, monga mgonero woyamba, holide ya banja lonse. Pa tsiku lino, mwanayo amaperekedwa ndi mphatso ndipo tebulo likukondweretsedwa. Koma mayi asanayambe kukonzekera - amagula chithunzi cha Namwaliyo, amaphunzitsa mapemphero, amaganiza za mawu opatukana. Sakramenti la Madalitso ikuchitika opanda mboni. Mayi amatenga chithunzicho m'manja mwake, ndipo amangoima patsogolo pa mwanayo, amamuuza kuti "Pemphero la amayi la mwana wake," kenako amamuuza mwanayo mwachikhumbo, kuchokera pansi pamtima: "Ndikukupatsani mwana wanga wamwamuna (dzina) madalitso anga a amayi kuti ndikhale ndi moyo ndipo ndikukhumba iwe ... ". Nzeru ziyenera kuganiziridwa bwino, kuvomereza zofuna za mwana, kutsogolera njira yabwino ndi chikondi, koma zisamachepetse ufulu wake wosankha. Kumapeto kwa sakramenti, mayi ampsompsona mwanayo ndikumupatsa chithunzi cha Namwaliyo kumupempha kuti amusunge ndi kumupempherera nthawi zovuta. Kuyambira nthawi ino mwanayo amatetezedwa ndi amayi a Mulungu komanso Madalitso a amayi.
Pambuyo pa sakramenti la madalitso, amayi m'mawa ndi madzulo kwa masiku asanu ndi awiri amawerenga pemphero lapadera: "Ambuye Wam'mwambamwamba ndi Amayi a Mulungu! Ndilowereni ine mu chifanizo cha Amayi Akumwamba. Dziwani chikondi chenicheni, Chisomo, kuleza mtima poleredwa ndi ana, omwe ndikuwapereka ku Malo Opatulikitsa ndikupereka kwa wotsogolera. Lolani Madalitso a Amayi Anga pa Moyo, kuchulukana ndi kulemera zikugwirizana ndi zanu. Mayi Wodala wa Mulungu, Mayi wa Kuwala Kwatsopano Kwauzimu, kuchiritsa mabala a ana Anu mwa Chikondi Chanu cha Amayi. Aloleni iwo achiritsidwe ndi kufulumizitsidwa mwa Ambuye. Wopembedza Kwambiri Kumwamba, Amayi a Mulungu, pa guwa la Chikondi Choyera. Ndimupereka mwana wanga wopanda mwana (mwana wanga) (dzina). O, Zonse-Zabwino, thandizani kuona kuwala mukumva, kuyeretsa nsembe ndi kudalitsa Njirayo. Amen. "
Madalitso a mwana pambuyo pa zaka 14 ndi wamkulu
Kufikira zaka khumi ndi zinayi mwanayo amaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ya moyo yosamutsidwa ndi amayi. Pambuyo pa zaka 14, pamakhala mobwerezabwereza, ndipo nthawiyi ndi madalitso olembedwa. Asanalembere kulembedwa, mayiyo akuwerenga "Pemphero la amayi kwa mwana wake". Kalata ikhoza kulembedwa mwa mtundu uliwonse, koma pamapeto pake akuti: "Mu dzina la Atate ndi Mwana ndi Mzimu Woyera. Amen. " Kalata yolembedwa yatenthedwa ndi amayi ndipo patapita masiku asanu ndi awiri amawona zotsatira za mwanayo. Ngati mtima wa mayi sukuona kusintha kwabwino kwa mwanayo, muyenera kulemba kalatayo. Mukhoza kupereka madalitso olembedwa mpaka mutayamba kugwira ntchito. Mwana yemwe alibe mayi komanso wamkulu yemwe sanalandire madalitso a amayi monga mwana kapena sangathe kudalitsidwa mu nthawi yeniyeni angathe kufunsa amayi kuti adalitsenso polemba. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kuchoka pamalo opanda bata, kuunikira kandulo, kuyika chithunzi cha amayi anu (ngati muli nacho) ndi kuwerenga "Kupemphera." Pamene mtendere ukubwera ndipo moyo ukuphatikizana ndi kuzunzidwa kwa pemphero, ndi nthawi yoyamba kulemba kalata. M'kalatayi, mukhoza kufotokoza zochitika zanu zonse kapena zodandaula zokhudzana ndi ubwana, funsani amayi anu kuti akhululukidwe ndikukhululukirani zolakwa zake zonse. Ndizabwino ngati mzimu ukuyeretsa ndi misonzi. Ndikofunika kuti ululu umene umaphatikizidwe uyenera kutuluka. Pamene malingaliro amatha, kalata ikhoza kukwaniritsidwa. Lolani mapeto ake akhale pempho la mayi kuti adalitse. Kuchiza koteroko sikungokhala ndi mphamvu zomwe zimalimbitsa mphamvu za mayi ndi mwana, komanso zimakhala ndi zotsatira zochiritsira. Pamapeto pa kuvomereza, kalatayo yatenthedwa. Patapita masiku asanu ndi awiri, pempho loti adalitsidwe lidzasinthika mmoyo wa munthu, kutanthauza "kubwezeretsa" zomwe zidzachitike.