Anthu omwe amabadwa m'chaka cha nkhumba amawombola. Iwo ali okhwima, othandiza, aulemu, achangu. Nkhumba sizimanyengerera, zikhoza kudalirika. Nkhumba, ngati palibe wina, amadziwa kuyamikira ubwenzi. Iye sadzamupereka konse bwenzi lake, amayesera kumuthandiza iye mu chirichonse. Pamodzi ndi izi, nkhumba mwa chilengedwe ndi munthu wodalirika kwambiri, ndi zophweka kukhumudwitsa, ndi zopanda pake komanso zopanda chitetezo, ngati mwana. Nkhumba ndi yamtendere, kuchokera kumbali zikuwoneka kuti ndi zophweka-mtima ndi ofooka mu khalidwe, koma izi ndi maonekedwe okha. Nkhumba imakhala ndi mphamvu yamphamvu, yokhwima, yokhazikika.
Nkhumba ili ndi abwenzi ochepa okha, kotero amasamala awo omwe amamuthandiza. Ndi abwenzi ake, nkhumba nthawi zambiri imakhala mgwirizano wapamtima pa moyo. Makamaka nkhumba zazimayi: nthawi zonse amakonza zodabwitsa kwa okondedwa awo, amapereka mphatso zochepa, akuitanira ku misonkhano. Iye sakonda kukangana ndi okondedwa ake, kotero iye sangatsutsane ndi kuvomereza mu chirichonse, ngakhale iwo ali olakwika. Nkhumba ya moyo idzapewa mikangano, chifukwa amadziwa kuti sangathe kuyimiritsa. Ngakhale atakhala kuti ali wolondola, sangayime maganizo ake.
Nkhumba ili ndi khalidwe losangalatsa, limasiyana ndi chikumbumtima, changu pa ntchito. Nkhumba imatha kugwira ntchito iliyonse, iye ndi wogwira ntchito yabwino. Amadziwa bwino luso: ndakatulo, mabuku.
Nkhumba imatha kuyenda pamsewu woipa wa moyo - kugwera mumatope, chifukwa ndi nkhumbabe.
Pankhani ya ndalama za moyo wa nkhumba, nkutheka kuti nkhumba ikhoza kulemera kwambiri. Anthu obadwa chaka cha nkhumba, amapeza komwe angapeze ndalama zogula ndi zovala, koma sangathe kukhala ndi ndalama zochulukirapo. Nkhumba ikhoza kupeza ntchito yabwino yopeza malipiro, koma ngati ichita khama ndi khama pokwaniritsa cholinga. Mu moyo wonse, nkhumba ikhoza kugwiritsa ntchito thandizo la wina, koma nthawi zambiri, thandizoli lidzakhala lodzikonda. Monga momwe nzeru ya kummawa imati, nkhumba imatenthedwa kokha kuti ikhale yochuluka kwa tchuthi. Choncho, nkhumba iyenera kuganizira mofatsa musanavomereze thandizo la wina.
Musamakhulupirire kwambiri amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Nthawi zambiri amanyengedwa, ndipo naivety yake ikhoza kuthamangitsidwa kwambiri. Nkhumba kawirikawiri imakondedwa, koma nthawi zambiri izi zidzasekedwa. Nkhumba yazimayi imafunika kuti ipeze banja mwamsanga, chifukwa idzakhala mayi wabwino kwambiri. Mwamuna wabwino kwambiri pa nkhumba yaikazi ndi mphaka, ndipo moyo wake udzakhala wodekha. Nkhumba iyenera kupewa mgwirizano ndi njoka, chifukwa ikhoza kugwera mudalira njoka.
Kutaya mtima mu chikondi nkhumba imapulumuka mosavuta. Nthawi zambiri sawona zolephera za anthu ena, choncho samamuchititsa mantha.
Nkhumba ndi mwayi mu masewerawo, koma alibe mzimu wa mpikisano, kotero sichimagonjetsa kawirikawiri, nkhumba sizifuna kuika moyo wawo pachiswe.
Nkhumba sikunama. Kunama kwa iye ndi zida zodzizitetezera. Iye ali ndi malingaliro osavuta, nthawi zambiri amakhala ovuta polankhulana ndi anthu, zomwe zimamubweretsa mavuto ambiri. Amakhulupirira nthawi zonse zomwe amauzidwa ndikuchita chilichonse chimene akufunsidwa kuchita. Koma pofuna kutsimikizira nkhumba mu chirichonse, muyenera kuchita khama kwambiri, nkhumba imafuna umboni wochuluka.
Nkhumba ndi munthu wabwino ndi wokondwa, simukumuvutitsa. Nthawi zina, nkhumba imayendetsa molakwika. Nkhumba nthawi zambiri imasonyeza kusakhutira kwake ndi anthu, koma ngati ikulongosola, zonsezi sizingatheke, pomwe mkwiyo wake umakhala wamphamvu kwambiri.
Nkhumba imayamba kuphunzira, imakhala nthawi yambiri yophunzira. Amapezeka maphunziro osiyanasiyana, amawerenga zambiri. Iye amawoneka ngati munthu wodziwa bwino pazochitika zonse, koma izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse, chifukwa nkhumba imawerenga ndikuphunzira zonse zomwe zimabwera kwa iye posakonzekera chidziwitso chake. Pambuyo pake, zidziwitso za nkhumba ndizochepa chabe.
Nkhumba ndizochita zachiwerewere komanso zowonongeka, amakonda kumakonda nthawi, amakonda anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo.
Kawirikawiri, pansi pa mawonekedwe autali, umunthu wamphamvu wa nkhumba umabisika. Nkhumba ikhoza ngakhale kulamulira anthu. Mphamvu yake pa nthawi yomweyo ndi yaikulu kwambiri moti munthu wovutika maganizo sangathe kumutsutsa.
Nthawi zina mukhoza kuganiza kuti nkhumba sidziwa zomwe ikufuna. Amazengereza asanasankhe zochita zofunika. Ndipotu, nkhumba imadziwa bwino zomwe ikufuna, koma imakonda kuyeza bwino zomwe zimawathandiza.
Posankha bwenzi lomanga nalo banja, nkhumba iyenera kupewa njoka yomwe ikhoza kuipitsa. Mbuziyo idzasangalala ndi ubwino wa nkhumba ndikukhala pamutu pake.
Ponena za moyo wa nkhumba, ubwana wake udzadutsa mwamtendere ndi mwakachetechete, gawo lachiwiri la moyo likhoza kubweretsa mavuto mu chikondi ndi m'moyo wogonana. Ng'ombe yamanyazi siidapempha thandizo, idzapita pang'onopang'ono, koma idzathetse mavuto ake okha ndikuyang'ana njira yoyenera. Chinthu chachikulu - musadzitseke nokha. Palibe amene angaganizire za nkhumba zomwe zikuchitika, chifukwa zidzabisala mumtima mwake.
Nkhumba idzakhala yosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa tsiku la kubadwa kuchokera ku zikondwerero za Chaka Chatsopano. Nkhumba, yomwe inabadwa madzulo a tchuthi, ingakhale "kudyedwa" ndi mavuto ndi zolephera!