Tsopano zinthu zambiri zasintha, koma mwambo wopereka ana okalamba m'mabanja ambiri wapulumuka, komanso chifukwa cha kukhumudwa. Pomwe boma likulipira amayi, n'zotheka kugula makapu, koma momwe angakhalire ngati mkaziyo ali ndi ntchito yochepa? Chifukwa cha malipiro amodzi sitingathe kudyetsa osachepera anthu atatu, ndipo pambuyo pake, wina ali ndi ana awiri ndi atatu, ngati palibe. Izi zidzasokoneza mwanayo kumunda kapena agogo ake apuma pantchito.
Koma izi sizimakhala mwa aliyense, pali mabanja omwe mwamuna angathe kupereka banja lonse panthawi yochoka. Koma ndithudi, anthu ena amasiya ngakhale ziwalo za kulera mwana m'manja mwa agogo awo, chifukwa chosafuna kukhala azimayi a Dunka Kulakov-mayi wa ana asanu ndi awiri. Ndipo palinso gulu lachitatu - amalera ana awo okha, osaloleza agogo kuti asokoneze ntchitoyi. Ndi njira iti yomwe imakhala yabwino kwambiri kwa mwana wanu, mayi aliyense amatha kudzizindikira yekha, kuyang'ana mwanayo mwiniwake. Kotero, tiyeni tione zonse zomwe zimapindulitsa ndi zoyipa pazochitika zonse zitatu.
Posakhalitsa ndikupanga, ndikuyandikira kwambiri pamene makolo akulera ana awo, koma palinso zosiyana. Kodi mukuganiza kuti chinthu chofunika kwambiri kuti chitukuko cha mwana chikhale chiti? N'zoona kuti maganizo ake amakhala otetezeka komanso otetezeka. Osati ntchito zatsopano zowonjezera, zomwe ziri mkati mwa dziko la munthu wamng'ono. Mavuto athu onse ndi maganizo athu amachokera muubwana, ndizo maziko, momwe timakhalira moyenera komanso moyenera, zimadalira moyo wa mwana wathu. Mayi wachikondi ndipo ndi yekhayo amene amatha kumupatsa mwana wachikondi ndi chikondi chomwe amachifuna m'zaka zino. Koma palinso mabanja osagwira ntchito omwe amamwa amayi ndi madera ena omwe samasamala za dziko la pansi ndi chitukuko cha mwana wawo, ndiye kuti ngati agogo aakazi amakhala ochepa kwambiri, mwanayo adzakhala bwino komanso wodala ndi wamkulu m'badwo, kuposa makolo omwe analephera.
Banja likakhala lopanda ndalama zokwanira, lingakhale bwino kuyembekezera kuti mwanayo azikhala wodziimira yekha (akhoza kuyenda pamphika, adye yekha, akhoza kunena zomwe akufuna), kenako ndi chikumbumtima chopatsa mwanayo. Inde, ana onse amakula mosiyana, wina amakhala ndi nthawi imeneyi kale, wina pambuyo pake, chiwerengero chapafupi chiri kwinakwake zaka 1.5-2.
Malinga ndi lingaliro lovomerezeka kawirikawiri kuti mkazi wazimayi amadwala ndi nthawi ndipo samakhala wosangalatsa kwa mwamuna wake, ndiye izi ndi zamkhutu. Okondedwa akazi, mvetserani, chirichonse chimadalira pa inu. Ngati simunali kuwala ndi luntha musanakwatirane, yambani kulima tsopano, palibe njira zowonjezera, chabwino, ngati mutakhala ndi deta zonse za chilengedwe ndi zokondweretsa, khulupirirani, iwo sangachoke kwa inu kulikonse.
Agogo aakazi, agogo awo aamuna, alidi abwino, komabe awa ndi ana athu ndipo salipira ntchito zawo kwa iwo. Iwo awalera kale ana awo, nawonso, atapuma pantchito, akufuna kuti atenge mpweya wawo pang'ono kuchokera ku zamoyo zamoyo, kuti akhale ndi zaka zosachepera kwa iwo okha komanso chifukwa cha zokondweretsa zawo. Komanso, madokotala atsimikizira kale kuti ana omwe amakhala ndi achikulire amakhala odwala kwambiri. Ndili ndi msinkhu, makhalidwe oterewa amakhala oda nkhawa, kusokonezeka, kusowa kudzikonda - kutsekedwa, ndi zina zotero. Ichi ndi chifukwa chowonjezerapo chidwi, kukumbutsa zofuna, chifukwa cha zomwe mwanayo amayamba pang'onopang'ono ndikuzindikira zinthu zina zofunika. Kupuntha kosatha, kotero kunali kutenthetsa, motero mwanayo akuwombera ndi kutuluka, samapita kumeneko, samachita, osadya, ndi zina zotero. mpaka zopanda malire.
Agogo ndi agogo ndi anzeru kwambiri kuposa ife, ndipo ali ndi zowonjezereka pamoyo wawo, kotero amaganiza kuti ndi okhawo amene amadziwa bwino kuphunzitsa achinyamata, nthawi zina akuiwala kuti nthawi sizinali zofanana. Inde, sitingathe kuchita popanda uphungu wawo, koma, monga akunena, supuni yabwino ndi yabwino kudya.
Choncho, ngati mwana wanu amathera nthawi yambiri ndi agogo ake, yesetsani kupeza chiyanjano mu ubale wanu kuti musayambe kutsutsana pamaso pa mwanayo, amene akuleredwa ndi wofunika kwambiri.