Pezani njira yopambana
N'zovuta kukhulupirira kuti pali maphikidwe okonzeka kuti akhale osangalala. Koma ndikufunadi. Mwinamwake, ndinkakhala ndi chidwi chophunzitsira zabwino m'mudzi wophunzitsa "City Klass". Chilengezo cholengezachi chinalonjeza kuti: "Munthu amene akugwiritsa ntchito njira yothetsera mavuto sangathe kuthetsa mavuto awo okha ndi kupambana m'miyoyo yawo, komanso amafika pamwamba pa bizinesi iliyonse yomwe ikugwira ntchito mwakhama." Amene akufuna kuti "afike pamtima" m'kalasi ikuluikulu adasonkhanitsidwa khumi okha basi atsikana. "Tikudikira kukwatirana," akunena za kusowa kwa mphunzitsi wogonana kwambiri, pulofesa wamfupi ndi kuyang'ana kwa Barrymore. Amuna onse anasiya kudzikonda. " Ndipo, akuusa moyo, akudodometsa mafunso omwe afunsidwa: "Kodi kupambana ndi chiyani? Kodi ndikuganiza chiyani? "" Sindikudziwa kuti kupambana kuli bwanji, koma ndikudziwa zomwe munthu wopambana amawoneka ngati. Uyu ndiye bwanamkubwa wanga, "- akuyankha Natasha, wantchito wa kampani yaikulu ya malamulo. "Inde, sindingakane kuti ndikhale pampando wa bwana wanga," - akuthandizira wolemba mabuku wake Irina. Mmodzi mwa omvera, yemwe ali ndi zaka makumi atatu ndi zisanu, yemwe akuyang'anira Marina salon salon, amachita manyazi kunena kuti ntchito yabwino si yonse. Malingaliro ake, mkazi sangamve bwino ngati moyo wake umasintha. Wophunzitsayo amavomereza, ndipo tikupitiriza kukhala ndi njira yopambana imene idzatiphunzitse kukhala ndi chiyembekezo chabwino pa chilichonse, ngakhale pavuto. Zonse zomwe mukuyenera kuchita ndi kukumbukira ndi kulemba nthawi yomwe chuma chimatipatsa mwayi: kupambana pa Sukulu ya Olympiad, kuteteza diploma mwamphamvu kapena kungodziwa ndi munthu wokondweretsa ndi wofunikira adzachita bwino. "Tsopano tiyeni tikambirane nkhani iliyonse," wamkulu wathu akusonyeza. Pachifukwa ichi, chitsanzo cha kupambana chiyenera kuwonongeka kukhala zigawo zikuluzikulu: zochitika, zochita ndi zochita zowathandiza kuti atenge nsomba ndi mchira. Ndipo, ndithudi, musaiwale kulemba zomwe zimakhazikitsidwa kuti ziwonetsedwe pamenepo. Pambuyo pofufuza milandu isanu kapena sikisi yopambana, zimakhala zomveka kuti zomwe timakonda kuganiza kuti ndizochitika mwachangu ndizo chipatso cha kuyesetsa kwathu, nthawi zambiri osadziŵa.
"Kodi pali misala? Ndiye lembani njira yanu yabwino yomweyo, "adatero pulofesa. Kwa ine panachitika izi: chitsimikizo = kutseguka kwachangu chatsopano +? "Zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazimenezo ndizo ming'oma, zomwe zidzapambane mtsogolo," adatero pulofesa. Malingaliro ake, ndondomekoyi imasunga nthawi yomwe ikugwiritsidwa ntchito pokwaniritsa cholinga, ndipo ikuwonetsa chitukuko cha makhalidwe omwe ayenera kukhala nawo. Kuwonjezera kukakamiza kwa mphunzitsi kumatiuza nkhaniyi kuchokera muzochita zake: "Ndinali ndi kasitomala amene anathera nthawi yambiri akupanga chithunzi cholondola, ndikuiwala kuti skate yake ndi witcha. Nditangomuthandiza kuzindikira izi, ndipo anayamba kukhala ndi luso lolankhulana, zolephera zinatha. "
• Chidule. Maphunziro a maola atatu sizinali zopanda phindu: ulendo wopita ku zinthu zomwe kale zidapindula kale zinawonjezeka kudzidalira. Ophunzira akuyamikira njira zomwe adzalandira kuti apindule nazo. Zoonadi, machitidwewo ndi ofanana kwambiri ndi wina ndi mzake komanso choonadi chochepa: "Kupirira ndikugwira ntchito zonse ..."
• Chidziwitso chanu. Tsiku lotsatira, mutuwo unandiuza ku nkhani yovuta kwambiri, ndipo poyamba ndinakwiya. Koma ndinakumbukira njira yanga yopambana, ndinadziyang'ana ndekha ndikuyang'ana vutoli mwatsopano. Iye adachoka pa chotsutsa kupita ku kasupe: -
Pezani malo atsopano owonetsera
Pambuyo pa tsiku lotangwanika, kodi munayamba mwabwera ndikumverera kuti nonsenu mumayamwa mphamvu zonse? "Woweruzayo adafunsa wophunzirayo kuti ali wokongola kwambiri, wazaka zapakati. Omvera, opangidwa ndi oimira asanu ndi awiri a hafu yokongola yaumunthu, amanyaziza mutu wake mwamanyazi. Ndi wamantha, chifukwa kuchokera kwa ophunzitsa apo amabwera mantha owopsya ndi chidziwitso kuti wina amakhala popanda kugwiritsa ntchito njira zothandiza pamoyo zoperekedwa ndi malo ophunzitsira. Kupuma kwa Perfection. "Kodi mukufuna kukhala ndi mphamvu yamkati ndikuwatsogolera kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zomwe mukufuna? Aliyense amatha kukhazikitsa zikhalidwe zomwe akufuna komanso zoyenera, "katswiri wa zamaganizo akupitiriza kufalitsa ndi kuonetsa kuti omvera amasankha gawo loyamba la moyo wawo. Choyamba, wothandizira akulangiza kuti asiye kuseri kwa nthawi yam'mbuyo, ngakhale atakhala ndi nthawi yabwino. "Koma ndimakumbukira nthawi zonse zomwe ndinapambana kale, ndipo zimandithandiza kuti ndifike kumalo atsopano." Tamara, mayi wina wotchedwa Tamara, yemwe ali ndi zaka zambiri, amameta tsitsi, Tamara ananena kuti posachedwapa anazindikira maloto ake a moyo - adatsegula yekha , ndipo tsopano akufuna kupanga malo ophunzirira ndi breech. "Ndi nthawi yochuluka bwanji yomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu?" Akufunsa mphunzitsi wake. Nsalu za Tamara zimapewa mapewa: "Osachepera zaka ziwiri." Mphunzitsiyo akumwetulira mwachidwi: "Tawonetsedwa kale mphamvu yowonongeka ya chidziwitso chakale. Ndiponsotu, Tamara yophunzitsira angathe kutsegula mwezi. Koma iye adadzikonza yekha kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo onse chifukwa amakumbukira kuchedwa kosayembekezereka ndi zochitika zosayembekezereka, zomwe zinayambanso, kutsegula saloni. Koma ndani adanena kuti adzakhaladi? "Coach akufotokoza kuti miyoyo yathu yonse tikuchita zomwe timapanga, ndikuganizira zomwe zinalipo. L muyenera kuyamba tsiku ndi tsiku ndi slate yoyera. "Kuyambitsa bizinesi iliyonse, dzifunseni nokha: choyamba ndi ine, pa nthawi inoyi pamalo ano," adatero mtsogoleriyo. Malingana ndi iye, njirayi ikugwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika zonse za moyo. Ndipo kwa munthu kuphatikizapo. "Chimwemwe nthawi zina ndi gawo limodzi, osati chikwi chimodzi," mphunzitsi akupitiriza ndipo amapatsa omvera ntchito yoti ayang'anenso zomwe zili mkati mwa mimba yopha munthu popanda kudalira zochitika zakale. Iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yothetsera kukhumudwa komwe kwapezeka m'zaka zapitazi, ndikuyamikira mphamvu yanu.
Phunzirani kulankhulana
Mwachibadwa, anthu omwe amatha kulankhulana bwino kuposa ena nthawi zambiri amakhala opambana, sakudziwa kuti sakudziwa kapena kusungunuka, wophunzitsi akupitiriza. Kulumikizana mogwira mtima ndichinsinsi cha 100% zabwino m'mbali zonse za moyo. "Ingokumbukira kuti pansi pa mawu" kulankhulana "sindimatanthauza" kulankhula ", mphunzitsi amachenjeza. Ena amalankhula bwino, koma amalankhulana zonyansa. Timadziwidwa ndi ziwerengero ndi: kwenikweni mawu, zomwe zilipo ndi 1/6 chabe ya chiwerengero cha kulankhulana. Ndipo kulemera ndi chimene chimatchedwa osalankhula: manja, kumwetulira, mawu a mawu, chizoloŵezi cha mutu, - pafupifupi 5/6. Ndiye ife timasonyezedwa njira zomwe zimalola izi zowona kuti ziziyang'aniridwa ndi kulamulidwa. Ndikofunika kuzindikira zizindikiro zochepa kwambiri za khalidwe la interlocutor: chizoloŵezi cha mutu, kudodometsa kwa maso, kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ena. Ndiye, mochuluka momwe mungathe kulowa m'dziko la munthu wina, khalani ngati iye, alowe mu dziko lake. Pambuyo pake, interlocutor amayamba kukhala ndi chikhulupiliro chapamwamba kwambiri kwa inu, kuyankhulana kwanu kumakhala kocheperako kwambiri, - wophunzitsa akuti. Kotero, iwe ukutembenuzira ngakhale mdani mkati mwa bwenzi. Kodi ichi si chifukwa chokhalira ndi moyo wabwino