Pali anthu omwe sali chidwi ndi moyo wa ena. Koma, ochepa chabe. Kwa mbali zambiri ife timayesetsa kudziwa zomwe zili zatsopano, zomwe zinachitika kwa omwe, amene adasweka, omwe anakwatirana ndi zina zotero. Chidwi choterocho chingakhale chokhazikika ndipo chinasandulika kukhala chinthu chokwanira. Ndipo ngati mumvetsetsa kuti mukufuna kudziwa zonse komanso za aliyense, ndiye kuti muyenera kumvetsa chomwe chimayambitsa chidwi. Mwina simungakonde mayankhowo, koma ngati mukufuna kudzimvetsa nokha, ndiye kuti mwakonzeka choonadi, ngakhale chowawa.
Kumenyana
Mwina mukufuna kudziwa zonse ndi aliyense kuti mutha kukhala ndi mwayi wokambirana za moyo wa anthu ena. Chikhumbo cha kuthetsa miseche ndicho chizindikiro cha zovuta zamkati ndi kaduka. Ngati nthawi zonse mumathamangira kuuza munthu aliyense zachitika zomwe zachitika mmoyo wa munthu wina, mwinamwake mukufuna kumutsutsa ndi gulu la anthu kapena kudziwonetsera nokha ndi kuti pamoyo wanu zonse sizili zoipa. Ganizirani chifukwa chake mukufuna kutiuza kuti amayi a Tresstalas ndi mnyamatayu, ndipo Bambo P amusiya mtsikanayo chifukwa cha zifukwa zosadziwika? Ngati muwauza anthu ngati amenewo, pokhala achifundo, izi sizikutanthauza kuti mukufunadi kuthandizira ndikudandaula. Munthu akhoza kugawana nzeru ndi wina kuti alandire uphungu, osati kulankhula za chirichonse kwa aliyense yemwe amakumana naye. Potero, kudzizindikira nokha chilakolako chokhala ndi nthawi zonse ndikuuza aliyense kuti akutsatireni nkhani kuchokera ku moyo wa anzanu ndi mabwenzi anu, ganizirani zomwe mukudya nokha. Nchifukwa chiyani mukufuna kuti wina aphunzire za zovuta za ena? Ngati muyankha funsoli, mukhoza kumvetsetsa, chifukwa cha zovuta zomwe mukufuna kudziwa zonse komanso za aliyense.
Aliyense amene amasokoneza miseche, nthawi zambiri palibe chimene chimanena za iwo okha. Ndipo mu izi pali kufotokoza za khalidwe lawo. Munthu wotero nthawi zambiri sakhala ndi nthawi zabwino kapena moyo wake umakhala wosasangalatsa komanso wosasangalala. Koma sakufuna kugwa ndi ubwino wa "nkhope yakuda", ndiye chifukwa chake amapeza mfundo zatsopano kuti anthu, akamvetsetse, alibe nthawi yokhala ndi chidwi ndi moyo wake. Choncho, ngati zonse zomwe takambiranazi zikukufotokozerani, yesetsani kuti musamamvetsere zomwe anthu akunena ndi kuchita ndikuyang'ana pa mavuto awo. Choncho, mumangodzikakamiza kuti musamazindikire. Ndipo khalidwe ili ndi lolakwika kwambiri ndipo iwe umachulukitsa moyo wako. Choncho, mukafunanso kuuza munthu wina momwe amachitira pa ntchito kapena kukangana ndi wokondedwa wanu, ganizirani ngati malo anu ogwira ntchito akukwanira nokha komanso ngati mukuganiza kuti mulibe mtima wokambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Pambuyo pofufuza bwinobwino za mavuto anu, muyenera kutsimikiza mtima. Ndikhulupirire, ngati mukufuna kukhazikitsa moyo wanu, ndiye kuti simudzakhala ndi nthawi yokhala ndi chidziwitso cha ena ndikugawira ena.
Kupanda moyo waumwini
Chifukwa china chomwe anthu nthawi zonse amachitira chidwi ndi moyo wa ena ndi kusowa kwawo. Munthu ndi wosavuta kwambiri kufika poti amayamba kuyesa kukhala moyo wa okondedwa, anzake a achibale. Chochitika chilichonse m'miyoyo yawo, amadziona ngati ake. Mwachibadwa, nthawi zonse amafuna kudziwa zonse komanso za aliyense. Apo ayi, munthu wotero sadzangokhala ndi kanthu koti azigwira. Muzochitika zoterezi, anthu samathetsa miseche, chifukwa akukamba za iwoeni. Komabe, munthu wotereyo akhoza kugawana uthenga wina molimba mtima, osamufunsa kuti ndani ameneyu kapena chifukwa chake, chifukwa amadziwa kuti izi zikuchitika, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti tikhoza kunena zomwe zinachitika kwa Stemi, amene amawona kuti ndi kofunikira kuti mudziwe zambiri. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti mukufuna kudziwa zonse mwachindunji pazifukwazi, ndiye kuti muyenera kufufuza moyo wanu ndi khalidwe lanu. Simungalole kuti izi zikhale zosangalatsa kwambiri kuti pali chikhumbo chokhala ndi moyo wa anthu ena.
Aliyense ali ndi chidwi ndi maluso ena. Koma sikuti aliyense amaganiza za iwo. Choncho, muyenera kuyesa kuwonjezera bwalo la anzanu ndi zokonda. Chidwi mu moyo wa okondedwa ndikumverera mwachibadwa, chifukwa tikufuna kuti chirichonse chikhale chabwino ndi omwe timawakonda. Koma pamene chidwi ichi chimakhala chopweteketsa pali chikhumbo osati kungodziwa, koma kusintha chinachake mu miyoyo ya anthu ena, chifukwa zikuwoneka ngati zingakhale zabwino - ndi nthawi yolirira alamu. Musasangalale ndi kumverera kuti ndinu mmodzi ndi wina. Si zachilendo. Anthu amatha kuthandizana ndi anzawo, kumvetsetsa, ngakhale kulingalira, koma aliyense ayenera kukhala yekha ndipo ali ndi ufulu wosankha yekha. Moyo uliwonse ndi wa mbuye wake yekha, yemwe anapatsidwa pa kubadwa kwake. Choncho, wina sayenera kuyesa kukhala ndi wina, kudzipereka yekha. Kudziwa zonse komanso za munthu aliyense kumatanthauza kukhala m'dziko laling'onong'ono, ngati chipinda chapansi popanda mipando, kumene kuli kozizira komanso kosasangalatsa kuti nthawi zonse mumatha kuthawa. Kotero, mmalo moyenda mumsewu ndikuyang'ana mawindo a anthu ena, yesetsani kukonzekera moyo wanu kuti mumve bwino, mutakhala omasuka komanso omasuka ngati mungathe kuchita, ndiye kuti simukufuna kudziwa zonse za aliyense.
Zamantha
Chifukwa china chimene ife tikufunira kudziwa chirichonse, ndi mantha oletsedwa. Tikuopa kuti anthu adanena za ife kumbuyo kwathu. Tikuopa kuti sangatikonda monga momwe timachitira. Tikuwona kuti tikudziŵa bwino momwe ife tilili, musativomereze monga ife tiriri, ndi kwinakwake za nkhaniyi. Timaganiza kuti achibale ambiri satiuza chilichonse, chifukwa satikhulupirira ndipo zimatipweteka. Ndicho chifukwa chake timayamba kuyesa kupeza zonse ndi zonse, kuti tithetsere mantha athu kuti tisiye kudandaula chifukwa cha maganizo a anthu kwa ife. Makhalidwe amenewa, komanso zochita zonse zomwe tinakambirana kale, zimachokera ku maofesi athu. Pankhaniyi, timangomva kuti sitimakwanira, osayenera chikondi ndi ulemu. Ndicho chifukwa chake tikuwopa. Palibe chifukwa choti mukhale ndi malingaliro oterowo ndipo pitirizani kufotokoza za paranoia. Ngati ndinu munthu wabwino ndikuchita mwachiyanjano ndi ena, ndiye kuti mulibe chowopa chilichonse. Munthu aliyense ali ndi ufulu pa zinsinsi zake, kotero kuti wina samakuuzani chinachake, sizikutanthauza kuti sakumakukondani ngakhale pang'ono . Chabwino, ngati inu nokha mukuona kuti mukulakwira achibale anu, ndiye kuti muyesetse kupeza zomwe akukuuzani, ndi bwino kuyesa kusintha osati kuwapatsa chifukwa chonyalanyaza munthu wanu.