Albert Camus.
Masiku ano padziko lapansi pali anthu ambiri omwe akusowa chosowa ndipo akudzifunsa nthawi zonse - chifukwa chiyani ndi kovuta kupeza chikondi chanu?
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu za kulepheretsa kupeza chikondi chanu ndi maganizo a iwo amene akufunafuna moyo wawo waumunthu, kuti akondane pokhapokha atadzikonda okha ndikupeza anthu omwe akuwakonda. Amwenye amayang'ana chikondi chawo, koma ndizovuta pakumverera uku. Chikondi chimasamutsidwa mawa ndipo, monga Alberta, Alberta, sadziwa kuti mawa sudzabwera. Chifukwa chiyani? Pamene munthu amakonda kwambiri, kumvetsa chifundo ndi chidwi cha ena, komanso mosiyana - kusowa chikondi kumathetsa ena.
Amuna ndi akazi omwe ayamba njirayi, mwachibadwa, sazindikira maganizo amenewa, koma amapezeka nthawi zonse. Pa phwando, tchuthi, kumalo owonetserako, filimu yokhala ndi chidziwitso chokhazikika, chinthu chimodzimodzi chimayamba: mwachidziwikire, mkazi akufunafuna chikondi, atayankhula ndi amuna awiri ndipo sakupeza kalonga pa kavalo woyera, masamba kapena amalankhula ndi anzake okha, ndi onse anthu ena amangotsala pang'ono kupezeka.
Ganizirani ngati mukusiya chikondi chanu, chomwe chimatanthauza moyo, mawa, mungayesere kuchita zotsatirazi: ngati mukuchedwa kugula zinthu zabwino, zakudya, maulendo okondweretsa komanso malo ogulitsira kuwala ndi zina zotero za tsiku "lalikulu" mtsogolomu. khalani ndi chikondi, ndiye mumakhala mawa ndikupeza chikondi chanu chidzakhala chovuta kwambiri. Kuti musataya nthawi ndikupeza limodzi limodzi ndi theka lanu muyenera kuphunzira makhalidwe omwe amasangalatsidwa ndi moyo wa satana, phunzirani kupereka ndi kulandira chikondi. Zonsezi zidzakopa kwa inu anthu omwe ali ndi makhalidwe omwe mukusowa.
Kuwonjezera pa zomwe zalingaliridwa, pangakhale zina zomwe zimayambitsa kusungulumwa, chifukwa chozindikira zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosakhalitsa, zamaganizo, mwina ndalama ndi zina zofunika. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri apa sikuti tisawononge chiyembekezo cha nthawi zabwino.
Chilichonse chomwe sichinali chovuta kupeza chikondi chanu, ndithudi, muyeneradi kulingalira mfundo zingapo zosangalatsa. Ndikofunika kuyang'ana pozungulira kuntchito - mwadzidzidzi wogwira naye patebulo lapafupi ndi theka lanu? Mungayesere kuyankhulana ndi anzako, ndipo mwinamwake ubalewo udzakula kukhala chinthu chofunika kwambiri, osati chikondi, koma mwachitsanzo ubwenzi weniweni ndi wamphamvu, womwe uli wofunika kwambiri.
Mungathe, pokhala mutatonthozedwa m'nyumba mwanu, pangani anzanu kudzera pa intaneti, omwe, ngati muthamangidwanso, mwinamwake mungapangitse chinthu china chofunika kwambiri. Msewu umaperekanso mwayi wopambana - nthawi zina mau angapo m'masitolo, basi kapena pamsewu womwe ungapeze munthu wofunafuna nthawi yaitali.
N'zotheka kuti mudziwe mabungwe, malo owonetserako mafilimu, mafilimu, malo odyera komanso malo ena owonetsera malo, komanso pa malo osungira alendo kapena paulendo wosiyana siyana. Pazochitikazi ndizofunika kukumbukira kuti khalidwe laumunthu, maonekedwe ake angapangitse kulemekezedwa kwake, izi ndizofunika makamaka pakakhala chinyengo komanso kawirikawiri. Buku linalake panyanja, mmalo mwake limangoganizira za kugonana kokha, zomwe zimabweretsa chisangalalo, koma zidzatha mutangoyamba mbali zosiyanasiyana ndi zolemera. Pali njira zambiri zodziwira ndikupeza moyo wanu waumunthu, apa chinthu chachikulu sikuti mukhale chete ndi kuyembekezera pakubwera, ndikuchitapo kanthu ndiye simukuyenera kuganizira momwe mungapangire chikondi chanu.