Sikofunika kukonza zowawa zosiyanasiyana kuchokera kumbali yake, chifukwa chimodzimodzi chinsinsi chimakhala chowonekera. Ndipo kuti musayang'ane kusagwirizana kulikonse mukumverera kwa gawo lanu ndi okondedwa anu okondedwa theka lachiwiri, mumangofunika kusunga malingaliro abwino, kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino kwa wina ndi mzake, ulemu ndi chifundo.
M'nthaŵi yathu ino, kudzimva kuti anthu awiri achikondi amavomerezedwa mwachilendo sikuli wamba. Koma kulankhulana kotere, kulemekezana wina ndi mzake ndi chofunika kwambiri - chikondi nthawi zonse chiri chogwirizana ndi theka lachiwiri, malingaliro ameneŵa ayenera kusungidwa ngati apulo la diso.
Tonse ndife anthu, ndipo tonsefe timakhalapo kamodzi, koma timalakwitsa, pomwepo timadandaula. Koma kuti musadzawapangire, muyenera kuphunzira malamulo ena omwe sangathe kuwomboledwa.
Ngati mnyamata akukusamalirani, akukuitanani ku malo odyera ndi ma tepi, akukutengerani ku kanema - izo sizikutanthauza kuti amakukondani. Icho chingakhale nambala imodzi yokhayo yokuyika iwe, msungwana wokongola ndi wokongola ali pabedi. Chabwino, ndipo ngati mwamunayo amasamala kwambiri moti simungathe kunena kuti akunama? Momwe mungatsimikizire izi ndi kukwaniritsa kumvetsetsa pa mbali yake?
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi yoyamba. Poyambira, muyenera kusewera masewero okhudza momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito makilomita 200 kuchokera mumzindawu, ndipo mukuyenera kukonzekera izi osati tsiku lotha, koma akagwira ntchito. Ngati mnyamata wanu akukukondani, sangakane kukuthandizani.
Chilichonse chimene mungachite, muyenera kudziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito, komanso kuti musamangokhalira kudandaula, chifukwa zonse zimangokhalira kuganiziridwa ndi okondedwa anu. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri chomwe mukufuna kulangiza ndicho kukonda. Ngati mumakonda chibwenzi chanu, simudzakhala ndi lingaliro lililonse kuti muyese mphamvu.
Ngati chikondi chiri palimodzi, chidzawonekera kwa maso. Ndipo ngati wina wa inu amatha kusewera, adzawonekeranso. Kotero, ziri kwa inu kusankha chomwe mungachite pa izo, ndi momwe mungakhalire.
Mukaona kuti mnyamata wanu akuyang'ana atsikana ena, mukudziwa, izi zingakhale chizindikiro kwa inu. Koma mwa njira zina kamodzi: mwina mnyamata wanu akufuna kukopa, motero, mumadziyang'anitsitsa nokha, ndikuchititsani nsanje, kapena amakonda kwambiri chiwerewere ndi atsikana a ena osati inu.
Ngati simukufuna kukhala pabedi lake mutangotha msonkhano wanu woyamba, mupatseni mwayi wina.
Ngakhale mukulakalaka kugonana ndi iye, muyenera kuganizira ngati mukumufuna. Pambuyo pake, ngati mnyamata atayang'ana mtsikana wina - adzawonekeranso mobwerezabwereza. Ndipo izi, ndikuganiza, simukusowa. Choncho, muyenera kusankha pa nthawi yomweyi kuti mukhale naye kapena ayi. Mungathe ngakhale kuyesa chikhulupiliro kwa chibwenzi chanu, ndipo ngati nthawi ndi ndalama zikuloledwa, mungagwiritse ntchito apolisi kuti atsatire okondedwa anu ndikuwunika, ngati ali okonzeka kukupatsani kapena ayi.
Kukhulupirika ndi chinthu chachikulu m'malingaliro, ndipo ngati okwatirana amakondana ndi kulemekezana wina ndi mzake, ndipo amayamikira yachiwiri iliyonse atagwiritsidwa pamodzi, izi zikhoza kutchedwa - chikondi ndi kalata yaikulu.
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti mwachikondi pali zowonjezereka ndi zoperekera, monga tanena, koma zonsezi sizikumveka bwino. Tiyenera kudzimana kuti tipeze chikondi ndi malingaliro athu. Choncho, chikondi chiyenera kukhala chofunika kwambiri, monga diamondi.