Kuti asakweze mutu wa chikhulupiriro
Ngati mukakumana ndi munthu wokhulupirira, yesetsani kupewa kulankhula naye za chikhulupiriro. Gywill yodalirika ndi yachilendo kuti mukhale ndi chilakolako chanu, chifukwa ngati ali woona mtima ndi woona mtima, akufuna kukuthandizani, koma safuna kukopa chipembedzo chanu mu chipembedzo chanu molimbika. Kumbukirani kuti simudzasintha. Anthu omwe amakhulupirira kwambiri Mulungu ndi Baibulo ali ndi chidaliro chonse kuti amauzidwa ndi ansembe ndi abusa. Izi ndizo, kwa iwo mawu a m'Baibulo ali olondola monga chiphunzitso cha Pythagorean kwa munthu wamba. Ngati anthu atauzidwa kuti zovutazo ndizolakwika ndipo siziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito paziwerengero, kodi mungasinthe malingaliro anu? Mwinamwake osati, chifukwa chakuti munaphunzitsidwa kwambiri mu moyo wanu wa kusukulu, malo anu onse akufanana mofanana ndi inu, kotero simudzakhala ndi chifukwa chokayikira kuti zochitikazo ndi zolondola. Komanso mnyamata wanu amakopeka kutsutsa Mulungu ndi Baibulo. Kuyambira ali mwana adakali wotsimikiza kuti lingaliro lokha ndi lokha. Anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi (ndipo okhulupilira ali ndi amzanga omwe amadziwa nawo) amatsimikiziranso kuti ndi Mulungu ndi Baibulo omwe ali gwero lodalirika popanga chisankho choyenera ndipo adzakhala chithandizo pamene mavuto ayamba kuwuka mmoyo. Kotero, kuyesa kufika kwa mnyamata lingaliro lanu kuti Mulungu si chinthu chapadera, simungapindule kanthu. Koma ngati mnyamata wanu ali wamakani, ndi floppy, ndiye mmalo mopereka aliyense kuti azikhala ndi mantha, iye ayamba kukangana. Ndipo monga mukudziwira, mikangano ndi okhulupilira sizatha ndi chilichonse chabwino, chifukwa amatenga mau onse kwa Mulungu, ngati kuti akunyoza. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ngati chiwonongeko chidzabweretse wokhulupirira, ndipo ali wanzeru mokwanira kuti asanenere mutu wa chikhulupiriro mwiniwake, mumayenera kuchita mwanzeru mwa kuwapewa. Ngati munthuyo ali ndi khalidwe losiyana koma akufuna kutsimikizira chinachake kwa inu, ndiye kuti muyenera kusiya makhalidwe abwino ndikumuuza kuti mumamukonda momwe iye alili, koma simuyenera kuika maganizo anu pa iwo. Ngati simukugwirizana ndi chikhulupiriro ndi chipembedzo, pamapeto pake chibwenzi chanu chidzawonongeka, chifukwa nthawi zonse mumatsutsana ndi kukangana, kutsimikizirani maganizo anu, yesani kuyika maganizo anu achiwiri pa munthu wachiwiri. Choncho, ngati ndinu wachikondi, ngakhale kuti muli ndi chikhulupiriro chakuya, yesetsani kumvetsetsa ndi kuvomerezana wina ndi mzake momwe mulili komanso musalole kuti chipembedzo chikhale pakati panu. Pambuyo pake, Mulungu ndi chikondi chimene chiyenera kulenga, osati kuwononga maubwenzi.
Makhalidwe a anthu
Anthu achipembedzo ali ndi makhalidwe osiyana kwambiri pakati pa anthu. Sakhulupirira chilankhulo choipa, pafupifupi osamwa mowa, musapite ku maphwando komwe atsikana omwe ali amaliseche amadzala mowa. Ngati mumanga ubale ndi munthu wokhulupirira, muyenera kukhala okonzekera izi ndikusiya zomwe sizili bwino kwa munthu wachipembedzo. Koma kakizvestno, si aliyense akhoza kuponyera chirichonse chimene anakhalako asanakumane ndi theka lake. Choncho, ngati mumvetsetsa kuti mukhala mukulankhulana ndi anzanu, pita kumapwando ndikumwa mowa, nthawi yomweyo kambiranani ndi chibwenzi chanu. Ngati maganizo ake ndi oipa, ndiye kuti muyenera kusankha: iye kapena moyo wanu. Ngati wokhulupirira ali wokhoza kusokoneza, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuyesetsa kukonza chirichonse kuti aliyense akhale wosangalala. Mwachitsanzo, kuyenda ndi kumwa ndi anzanu pamene akuchita bizinezi kapena kulankhula ndi abwenzi ake kuchokera ku tchalitchi. Musamawoneke pamaso pake chifukwa chaledzera, chifukwa kwa munthu wokhulupirira, mkazi wokhala ndi chidakwa amanyansidwa kwambiri. Ndipo, ndithudi, fulumirani nawo. Komabe, pamene wokhulupirira ali mnyamata, musamangomwa basi. Zomwe mungakwanitse ndi galasi la vinyo. Ngati mupita limodzi ndi anzanu, funsani okondedwa anu kuti asalumbire ndi chibwenzi chanu kuti azichita bwino. Palibe amene akunena za momwe abwenzi ayenera kunena syllable paulendo wapatali, kuchita chinachake cholakwika kwa iwo, ndi zina zotero. Ingolongosolerani kwa anthu kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi ambiri, mowa kwambiri ndi zoipitsitsa kwa chibwenzi chanu sizilandiridwa. Munthu wamba, ngakhale wokhulupirira, amadziwa zonse, ngakhale ngati sakugawana nawo. Anthu abwino ndi abwenzi enieni nthawi zonse adzakumvetsa. Koma pakadali pano, khalidwe la chaputala liyeneranso kukhala lokwanira, popeza alibe ufulu wodula anthu omwe ali ndi khate chifukwa amamwa magalasi angapo a mowa kapena nthawi zina amamwa mawu oipa. Mwachidziwikire, ubale pakati pa wokhulupirira kwambiri ndi munthu wamba umangokhazikitsidwa pokhapokha, chifukwa anthuwa ndi ochokera kudziko losiyana. Ambiri samangovomereza. Koma ngati akufuna kumanga maubwenzi, ndiye kuti ayenera kuchita izi, mwinamwake palibe chimene chingalepheretse, chifukwa dziko lapansi limawona ngati galasi losiyana ndi lingaliro lachiwiri.
Atsikana ambiri amakhulupirira kuti chiyanjano ndi wokhulupirira chimawalimbikitsa kuti azikhala bwino ndikudzikweza okha. Komanso, wokhulupirira ali wodalirika kwambiri. Koma, pamene mumayamba kukumana ndi munthu wotero, zambiri zomwe amachita, pang'onopang'ono zimayambitsa chilakolako, kupandukira, chifukwa moyo wanu wonse mwakula kwambiri pazinthu zina, ndipo chokondweretsa ndi pamene mumayang'ana khalidwe lake, Zolondola kwambiri zanu zimayamba kuoneka. Choncho, ngati mumadziona kuti ndiwe mtsikana wokongola kwambiri, wokonda makampani akulira, ndi zina zotero, ndikuyembekeza kuti mnyamata wokhulupirira akhoza kukulepheretsani kukhala ndi moyo woterewu, muyenera kukuchenjezani mwamsanga kuti zonse zidzasintha. Choncho, palibe chifukwa choyesera kuti mumange ubale ndi wokhulupirira, chifukwa inu ndi anthu ochokera m'mayiko osiyanasiyana. Koma ngati chikondi chimafika, ndiye nthawi zonse yesetsani kupeza zinthu zotsutsana, kuti mutha kukhala limodzi ndi mnzanu, popanda kuyesa kusintha munthu amene mumamukonda.