Ukwati wosagwirizana: ngati mwamuna ndi wamkulu kwambiri

Iye ali pachikondi ndi inu popanda kukumbukira: iye amagona ndi mphatso, akukuitanani ku malo odyera abwino kwambiri, amawatenga iwo kuti apumule ku malo okongola. Angathe kudziwa mavuto ake onse - amamvetsera, amamvetsa komanso amapereka uphungu wabwino. Chisomo chake, chisamaliro chake ndi kuwoneratu kwake zakuthandizani mtima wanu: mwakonzeka ngakhale kukwatiwa mawa. Inde, pambuyo pake ngati khoma lamwala! Koma momwe mungauze makolo kuti wosankhidwayo ndi wamkulu zaka makumi awiri? Inde, inu nokha mumamvetsetsa kuti ukwati wosagwirizana uli ndi mavuto ambiri. Choncho, ndibwino kuti tsopano muyesetse "kuti" ndi "motsutsa" kusiyana ndi pambuyo poti mudandaula kwambiri ndi moyo wosokonezeka.
Kawirikawiri, nkhani ya maukwati osagwirizana ndi yotsutsana. Chidwi cha amuna okhwima kwa atsikana aang'ono ndi chomveka: pa nthawi inayake coevals imasiya kuyimbira. Kulimbanitsa kosiyana, pamene kenaka - cholengedwa chachichepere, chodabwitsa chokhala ndi khungu latsopano komanso chodabwitsa. Mwamunayo amamva bwino kwambiri: ali ndi mnyamata wachiwiri, akutembenuka kuchokera kwa amalume olimba, akuluakulu kupita kwa munthu wokongola wokhala ndi akachisi oyambirira.

Komabe, makamaka oimira abambo amphamvu amakwatira namwaliyo chifukwa chosadziŵa kwawo. Izi zimachitika pamene munthu ayesa kutsimikizira kuti akadakali-kupita! Ndipo ngakhale okhoza kukhala ndi chikondi ndi msungwana wamng'ono.

Izi zimachitikanso m'njira ina. Mwamuna akufuna kukhala mutu wa banja, koma chifukwa cha khalidwe lake, amawopa kuti muukwati ali ndi chidziwitso, wokondedwa wake, sangathe kutenga udindo wa banja lino.

Zikatero, nthawi zambiri amadziwa kale - mwina osati yekha - osati ukwati wabwino kwambiri ndi mkazi wa msinkhu wake. Ndiyeno amatenga msungwana wamng'ono kuti akhale mkazi wake kuti azidzimva kuti ndi mbuye wathunthu, amene adzamvere ndipo sadzatsutsana.

Atsikana ena amakonda atsikana achikulire
Tsopano tiyeni tipeze chifukwa chake atsikana aang'ono amakopeka ndi abambo, omwe ali abwino kwa iwo monga atate. Kawirikawiri chifukwa chake ndi mavuto a maganizo a mtsikana amene akufuna wina amene angalambidwe ndi amene angamusamalire. Sizinsinsi kuti m'zaka zambiri, amuna amakhala okongola komanso okongola kwambiri: kulemera kwachuma kumapindula, zowonjezera zimabwera, munthu amadziwa momwe angaperekere mphamvu zake moyenera komanso mwabwino. Izi, ndithudi, zikhoza kukopa kukongola kwachinyamata. Kuphatikizanso, kukwatira munthu amene wachitika kungamukankhire iye ndi zochitika m'banja. Mwachitsanzo, mtsikana atasudzulana, bambo ake nthawi zambiri amasiya kumusamalira mokwanira. Ndipo kupanda chikondi kumeneku, amayesetsa kupeza chinthu china cholipira. Msungwanayo akuyesera kupeza munthu yemwe angakhoze kubwezeretsa bambo ake, ndipo amamupeza iye akuyang'anizana ndi mwamuna wake wokalamba. Kapena, nkuti, mtsikana ndiye yekhayo m'banja ndipo akadali kholo kwa makolo, mtsikana amene akuyenera kutetezedwa nthawi zonse. Makolo analerera mtsikana mu nyengo yotentha. Chotsatira chake, akuwopa pa msinkhu wodalirika wotaya chisamaliro ichi. Nthawi zambiri, amavomereza kusunthira pansi pa phiko la mwamuna wake. Koma osati anzanu onse adzatha kusamalira komanso kutonthoza mofanana: mwamuna yemwe angathe kubweza makolo ake ayenera kukhala wamkulu zaka makumi awiri. Apa ndi pamene chiyambi cha mkangano wam'tsogolo chilipo. Ndipotu, udindo wa "mwana wamkazi" sungakhoze kukhalitsa kwamuyaya. Mayi wamng'ono adzamusiya posachedwa. Mkazi wachinyamata akufuna kupita patsogolo, kukula ndi kukula, kukhala wofanana naye m'banja lake, osamvera mwamuna wake popanda kukhala ndi ufulu wosankha.

Kusamvana kwa chidwi
Mtsikanayo amakula, bambo amakalamba, ndipo zimavuta kuti azigwirizana. Vuto lalikulu la "ukwati wosagwirizana" ndi kusiyana kwa zaka zambiri, monga momwe amawonera, mu chikhalidwe cha kulera, mu zokonda, muzochita, mogwirizana ndi moyo. Mtsikana wina nthawi zina amafuna kupita ku filimu, kupita ku phwando lachisangalalo. Ndipo mwamuna wamkulu yemwe amakhala osavuta kukhala pakhomo ndi kukhala pakhomo kapena pamaso pa TV, amayamba kukhala ngati mwana: - "O, mwandinyansidwa kuti ndiwone! Inde, ine ndakalamba kwambiri kwa inu. " Ndipo ine ndimamumvera chisoni iye, ndipo inenso inenso ...

Choncho, ngati mutakwatirana ndi munthu wamkulu kwambiri kuposa inu, ndibwino kuti muyambe kukambirana za zonse zomwe zisanachitike - kuti musamangodzule zoipazo, komanso ngakhale mnzanuyo. Kodi nonse ndinu okonzeka komanso olemekezana ndi zofuna zanu?

Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kupangitsa moyo kukhala chiwawa pa umunthu wanu pena paliponse. Iye, moyo uno, umodzi wokha, ndipo mumangoyenera kukhala mwamtendere ndi mosangalala!

Wokondwa ziribe kanthu
Komabe pali zitsanzo zokwanira za maukwati abwino omwe ali pakati pa anthu omwe ali ndi zaka zosiyana kwambiri. Komanso, zikhoza kukhala zosiyana m'malingaliro a banja. Nthawi zina abambo amakhala okondwa pamene mkazi akugwira ntchito yokhala m'nyumba, ndiye mayi ndi woyang'anira nyumba. Kapena ndiukwati wa anthu amalingaliro ogwirizana ndi chifukwa chofala. Koma chirichonse chomwe ukwati, ngati pali kusiyana kwakukulu mu msinkhu wokondweretsa wokwatirana, izi sizikutanthauza kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa mavuto, koma zimangowonjezera.