N'zomvetsa chisoni kumva kuchokera kwa mnyamata kapena mtsikana kuti: "Sindidzakhala ndi banja, chifukwa zonse ndi zabwino poyamba, koma posachedwa anthu amalumbira ndi kusudzulana, ndipo palibe chitsimikizo kuti zidzakhala zosiyana ndi ine." Kuyanjana kwa makolo kumapanga maziko a maganizo a ana, komanso makamaka chikondi. Ngati nyumbayo imalankhulidwa kawirikawiri, kapena kufuula, ngati mwanayo nthawi zonse akumva mawu okhumudwa ndi mawu ake, ndiye kuti adzalingalira ngati kalembedwe kovomerezeka poyankhula ndi anthu okondana. Anthu omwe anakulira mumkhalidwe wotero, zidzakhala zovuta kumanga ubale wamba m'banja lawo. Wina amalemba zochitika za khololo: nthawi zonse amakhala m'mavuto. Ena - sangathe kuima ndi kusudzulana, komabe, kupanga banja latsopano, kupanga zolakwika zomwezo. Ena amakonda kukhala okha, kuopa chisoni ndi mkwiyo, sadziwa kubwezeretsa banja losangalala.
Tonsefe timafuna kukonda ndi kukondedwa, kukhala mu mbewu yosangalala, kukhala ndi chikhulupiliro chodalirika. Komabe, izo zimangokhalapo kwa iwo omwe samaiwala malamulo akulu achikondi ndi momwe angabwerezerere banja losangalala.
Chilamulo cha kudalira.
Mwachitsanzo, Vika anali ndi nkhawa pamene mwamuna wake ankagwira ntchito kwa nthawi yaitali. Anaganiza kuti chifukwa chake chikhoza kukhala mwa mkazi. Kotero, Vika nthawizonse ankamvetsera kulankhulana kwa foni kwa mwamuna wake, nthawi zonse anakonza mafunso. Igor nayenso adayang'anitsitsa kwambiri mkazi wake pofuna kupita ku cosmetologist kapena ku aerobics. Ndinkawerenga mobisa kalatayi yake, nthaŵi zina ndimaphunzira zomwe zili m'thumba langa.
M'banja lotero, ngongole ya kukhulupilira yayamba kutopa. Kuti mukhale ndi chikondi chenicheni chaukwati, kudalira ndi kofunika kwambiri. Ngati kulibe, munthu mmodzi amayamba kukayikira, kupumula, ndipo wina amakhala mumsampha wamantha: zikuwoneka kuti ufulu wake watha. Pachifukwa ichi, kubwezeretsa achimwemwe m'banja ndikovuta. Choncho, muyenera kuphunzira kudalira okondedwa anu, ndi ubale wokha.
Lamulo lolankhulana momasuka.
Oleg ndi Christina akhala atakwatirana kwa zaka zoposa zitatu. Poyamba padali chilakolako ndi chikondi. Komabe, chaka chimodzi chokha chinadutsa, ndipo chiyanjano chinakula kwambiri: Christina nthawi zambiri anayamba kukwiya ndi mwamuna wake kokha chifukwa sankaganiza zolakalaka zake (ankakonda maluwa, osati mabala); Anakhumudwa kwambiri ndi Oleg flirts pamene ali ndi zambiri zoti achite. Komabe, ponena za izi zonse, Christina sanawuze mwamuna wake, ndipo sanamvetsetse zomwe zimachititsa kuti Kristin amunyoze.
Kulakwitsa kwakukulu pakati pa okwatirana kumene: amakhulupirira kuti kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala m'banja, chikondi chokhacho n'chokwanira. Komabe, chikondi sichimene chimakhala chowonekera, chomwe sichisowa chisamaliro. Zili ngati chomera chenicheni - chimatha kuphuka, koma chikhoza kufota. Zonse zimatengera momwe akuyang'anira. Tsegulani kuyankhulana kwa chikondi, monga madzi oyera a chomera - popanda icho, simungathe kukhala ndi moyo. Nthawi zonse muzilankhulana za zikhumbo zanu ndi malingaliro anu, simukusowa kuwononga mabanja achimwemwe, chifukwa potto kubwerera sizingakhale zophweka. Onetsetsani kuti mumayankhula momwe mumamukondera komanso mumamukonda mwamuna wake - musamaope kumutamanda. Ndipo musamaone mtima wabwino. Mukhoza kundithokoza!
Chilamulo cha mphatso.
Lyudmila, monga adakumbukira, adafunikanso amuna. Nthawi zonse ankafuna kuti mwamuna azisamalira, wachikondi, wachikondi, ndi nyumba, galimoto, wokonda kwambiri, ndi zina zotero. Lyudmila sanafike ngakhale m'maganizo: kodi angapereke chiyani kwa wosankhidwayo. Anaganiza kuti: "Ngati amandikonda, ndiye kuti ndimusamalira." Koma Lyudmila akadali wosungulumwa, posachedwapa anafika zaka 35.
Kuti mukwaniritse chikondi chenicheni, muyenera choyamba musakondwere ndikudzipereka moona mtima. Ngati mukufuna kulandira chikondi, muyenera kuchipereka. Ndipo pamene mupereka zambiri, mumalandira zambiri. Chikondi, ngati boomerang, chidzabwerera mwanjira iliyonse. Ngakhale sizinali nthawi zonse kuchokera kwa munthu amene munapereka. Komabe, idzabwereranso makumi khumi! Ndipo musaiwale: chiwerengero cha chikondi sichikhala ndi malire kwa tonsefe. Ndipo njira yokhayo yopezera chikondi chenicheni sikuti ikhale yopereka kwa ena. Chimwemwe cha banja chimadalira pa kudalira.
Komabe, vuto ndiloti anthu ena safuna kupereka poyamba, amakonda mwachidwi kuti: "Ndidzakukondani ngati mutandikonda." Dikirani mpaka wina atengepo kanthu, kotero kuti sangapeze banja losangalala. Zili ngati woimbira ati: "Ndidzasewera, atatha alendo ndikuyamba kuvina." Chikondi chenicheni sichifuna chilichonse pobwezera.
Lamulo lokhudza.
Larissa ndi Dima anagawira bwino ntchito zawo. Larissa anali kutsuka, kukonzekera, kuyeretsa. Dima analandira ndalama. Iwo ankakambirana wina ndi mzake kokha za moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Kugonana kunali pokhapokha - palibe kukhudzidwa kosakonzekera ndikukumbatira. Pofuna kunena zoona, poyamba Dima anayesera kusewera ndi azimayi ake nthawi yosawerengeka, koma nthawi zonse ankasiya. Pambuyo pake, Larissa sanayambe kusewera ndi makolo ake ali mwana; Kukumbatira kwa banja lake sikunalandiridwe.
Kukhudza kalikonse ndi chimodzi mwa mawonetseredwe achikondi kwambiri omwe banja limakhala nalo. Zimalimbikitsa maubwenzi ndi kuthetsa zopinga. Kuti pakhale kuyambira kwabwino mu banja, kulingalira kwa maganizo kumalimbikitsa maphunziro apadera: nthawi zambiri amakumbatira mnzanuyo monga choncho, popanda cholinga chogonana; Iwe uyenera kuti ukhale wopanda pake ngati ana; aliyense ayenera kugwira manja ngati okonda achinyamata. Mwa njira, "ophunzira" akunena kuti iyi ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri yopita kuntchito pamoyo wawo.
Kamodzi, mu imodzi mwa zipatala ku London, kuyesera kunayendetsedwa. Madzulo, dokotala asanayambe kugwira ntchitoyi, adayendera wodwala wake kuti akafotokoze za zomwe zikuchitikazo ndikuyankha mafunso okhudza chidwi ndi wodwalayo. Ndipo pakuyesedwa, dokotala panthawi yolankhulana adagwira dzanja la wodwalayo. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti wodwala wotereyu anapeza katatu mofulumira kuposa ena.
Mukamakhudza munthu wina, thupi lanu limasintha: mkhalidwe wamaganizo umasintha, dongosolo la mitsempha limatsitsimutsa, mlingo wa mahomoni opsinjika amachepetsa, ndipo chitetezo cha mthupi chimalimbikitsa. Anthu anzeru amati: Ngati simukukumbatira mokwanira anthu osachepera asanu ndi atatu usana, mumangokhala odwala. Mungathe kubwezeretsa chimwemwe cha banja mwa kungochigwira.
Lamulo la ufulu.
Vitaly ndi Natasha akwatirana posachedwapa. Chirichonse chinali chabwino. Komabe, patapita kanthawi, Natasha anaganiza kuti mwamuna wake akuyesera kuti aziyendetsa: adayankha maganizo ake, adasankha. Ngati atapanga njira yake, ali wokhumudwa ndipo amamukakamiza kwa maola ali mwana. Komabe, Natasha akuganiza kuti ndi wamkulu ndipo amatha kusankha yekha zochita.
Ngati mumakonda munthu, mumupatse ufulu wonse. Ufulu wodzisankhira, ufulu wokhala momwe iye akufunira. Inde, izi n'zovuta. Komabe, palibe njira ina yotulukira. Kubwezeretsa chimwemwe cha banja - kungopatsa ufulu. Pambuyo pake, kuti asamadzimve kuti ali mumsampha, aliyense amafuna malo ake .