Choncho, ganizirani njirazi ndi njira zosavuta, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa anthu ochepa. Ngati mmodzi wa iwo akuwoneka kuti ndiwe wodziwa bwino, khalani maso - mwinamwake mwakhala wodwala wonyengerera kapena wojambula.
Njira zothandizira
1. Malumbiro ndi malonjezano (zonse zimagwiritsidwa ntchito, mpaka lonjezo lokwatirana, dziwani bwino makolo).
2. Gwiritsani ntchito "chikondi". Mnyamatayo amamupangitsa mtsikanayo kukhala pafupi, kumuuza kuti "Ndiwonetseni chikondi chanu, chidzathandiza chikondi chathu kukula, kukula," ndi zina zotero.
3. Mnyamata akutsimikizira kuti nkofunika kuyang'anirana kuti agwirizane. Atakwaniritsa ubwenzi wapamtima, iye amatha.
4. Pemphani chisoni. "Ndimvereni chifundo, simusamala, koma ndidzakhala bwino, ndikusiya kuvutika chifukwa cha kusangalala ndi kugonana." Choyamba, dzimikizireni nokha kuti simusamala!
5. Zoopseza: "Simudzasiya - ndidzipeza ndekha."
6. Masewera a kudzidalira: "Ngati simukupita, simukufanana ndi wina aliyense, osati masiku ano, osati achilendo."
Yankhani mafunso anu
Mukakumana ndi mnyamata yemwe amakulimbikitsani kuti mukhale paubwenzi wapamtima, atsikana, funsani mafunso awa:
Amandichitira bwanji?
Kodi akudziŵa kuchuluka bwanji?
Kodi amadziwa ndi kuchita chiyani pa nkhani yogonana?
Kodi amangofuna kuchita zinthu mwachidwi komanso zolinga zake ndi zovuta motani?
Kodi akunena zomwe akuganiza?
Kodi adzasokoneza ubwenzi wanga ndi ine ngati nditanena kuti sindine wokonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi?
Kodi angachite chiyani ngati ndikhala ndi pakati?
Ndi njira ziti ndi njira zotetezera, ngati ndinganene, zigwiritsire ntchito ndipo zingagwiritsidwe ntchito konse?
Kodi ndikufunadi izi ndi zolinga zanga zenizeni za iye?
Kodi timamvana wina ndi mzake, kodi ndife oyenera wina ndi mzake monga choncho, popanda kugonana?
Dziwani momwe munganene "ayi"
Ngati simunayankhe mafunso awa, musachite mantha kunena "ayi". Kungoti "ayi", molimba mtima ndi molimba mtima, mopanda kukayikira ndi kupepesa.
"Ine sindikufuna, ndipo izi ndi zokwanira kuti palibe ubwenzi wapamtima."
"Ayi, ndimadana kukakamizidwa kuchita chinachake".
"Ayi, sindikukonzekera izi."
"Ayi, ndikuopa kwambiri." (Khalani okonzeka pa nkhaniyi kuti mukhale ndi chidwi chotere: "Musamawope, zonse zidzakhala zabwino", "Tiyeni timwe kuti tithe kumasuka" kapena kukwiyitsa monga: "Little", "Kindergarten - thalauza pamatumba"),
"Ayi." Ndipo kodi mumatha kugonana ndi munthu amene sakufuna? "
"Ayi, iwe ukufulumira ine, sindikudzidziwa ndekha ndikakonzekera." (Musayambe kukwiya ngati: "Ndikayembekezera nthawi yaitali bwanji, ndatopa, simukundikonda")
"Ayi, ndilibe chidaliro chokwanira mwa iwe." (Poyankha, khalani okonzeka kuyankha motere: "O, ndi momwe zilili!" Chabwino, ndiye kuti paliponse pakati pathu. "Ichi chingakhale masewera m'chiyembekezo chakuti msungwanayo sangayimire ndi kuvomereza.) Musaope kugawana ndi munthu woteroyo.
"Ayi, ndikuganiza kuti ndiyenera kuyembekezera izi mpaka nditakwatirane." (Poyankha, mukhoza kumva "Iwe uli ngati mwana, siwe wamasiku ano", "Tiyenera kuyang'anani pabedi")
"Ayi, sindikufuna, ndipo ngati mundikakamiza kuti ndichite izi, zidzakhala zachiwawa."
"Ayi." Zikuwoneka kuti ine sindikusamala. " "Ayi, iwe umandipangitsa ine kuganiza kuti iwe undichotsa ine ngati ine ndikana."
"Ayi, musandipangitse ine kuganiza molakwika."
"Ayi, zochita zanu zimanditsimikizira kuti sindikudziwani bwino."
Mukhoza kudziyimira nokha ndipo musadzipangitse nokha kupusitsidwa kotero kuti mvula iyi ndi mchira wonyada sungayende m'mitima ya atsikana ndi anyamata osadzikonda!