Maganizo osamvetsetsekera angathe ndipo ayenera kuyendetsedwa

Maganizo osamvetsetseka angathe ndipo amayenera kulamulidwa ndipo ngati sitichita izi tokha, kuopseza kuti chidziwitso chidzatitengera kuzinthu zake ndi zabwino. Inde, sitingathe kudzimasula tokha kukhumudwa kwathu. Koma mu mphamvu yathu kuti tithe kuchotsa kukonza pa iwo. Dzipatule nokha ku chikumbumtima. Dr. Christopher Smith adasanthula komanso amadziwika kuti alibe maganizo. Manyazi ndi kunyozetsa, kudziimba mlandu ndi kutsutsa, kusalabadira ndi kukhumudwa, chisoni ndi chisoni, mantha ndi nkhawa, chilakolako ndi chilakolako, mkwiyo ndi udani, kunyada ndi kunyansidwa - patsiku lililonse pali mndandanda wawo. Izi si zoipa ndipo si zabwino. Ndi chikhalidwe cha umunthu chabe. Chikumbumtima chasintha kuti chikhale ndi moyo. Zimatithandiza kupulumuka m'dziko loipa. Kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi malingaliro ameneŵa adayankhula mwamphamvu, dziko loopsa ndi zoopseza. Ndipo iye amene adakwera pamwamba pa chovala chake amasangalala ndi dziko lapansi, amamuona yekha kukongola) ndi chimwemwe. Kotero, ziri kwa ife kuti: kukhala ndi kusangalala, mosasamala kanthu kalikonse, kapena kugwedezeka kwamuyaya ndi mantha, ndi zina zotero. Pofuna kuti asatengeke, munthu ayenera kudziwa mdani wake "nkhope". Kotero ...

Manyazi ndi kunyozetsa - vuto lalikulu kwambiri. Koma bwanji, osapotoza, maganizo osadziŵa amatha komanso amayenera kulamulidwa. Ndi maziko a wina aliyense. Angagwirizane ndi kugonana kapena kuzunzika. Pamene tikuchita manyazi, timapachika mitu yathu ndikuchoka mwakachetechete. Timayesa kukhala osawoneka. Anthu ena ali osiyana ndi anthu. Mwa anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo oterewa, nthawi zambiri amaphunzitsi. Iwo amathamangira ku moyo wa sayansi, chifukwa sangathe kupirira ndi anthu, kuchita ntchito zina. Manyazi ndi kunyozeka kumabweretsa mavuto. Munthuyo ali ndi vuto lalikulu lodzimvera. Winawake amatsuka manja nthawi zonse, wina amatenga malaya ambirimbiri, zomangira, masokosi, ndi zina zotero. Matenda osokoneza maganizo amakhudza mbali zambiri za moyo. Izi zili ndi zotsatira zowawa pamaganizo ndi m'thupi. Kudzichepetsa, kudziletsa, kusagwirizana kwa wina ndi mnzake, kutengeka ndi lingaliro - mawonetseredwe osiyanasiyana a manyazi ndi manyazi.

Kulakwa ndi Kuimbidwa
Zotsatira za malingaliro ameneŵa ndi kuponderezedwa kwakukulu kwa ntchito za tsiku ndi tsiku. Amagwiritsidwa ntchito poyesa anthu ndikuwalanga. Zimakhudzana ndi kulephera kukhululukidwa mumtima. "Sindidzakukhululukirani chifukwa cha zomwe munandichitira zaka 10 zapitazo!" - akufuula munthu yemwe ali ndi chikumbumtima chake. Anzake omwe amalingalira ndikumva kulapa, kudziimba mlandu, zomwe zingachititse masochism, kuzunzika (kutembenukira kukhala wogwidwa), ngozi, kudzipha. Ndipo ngakhale kwa kudzikonda. Maganizo a kudziimba mlandu ndi kutsutsa kwa atsikana omwe amadula mitsempha pamanja ndi olimba, kubwezera chidwi cha makolo, makamaka amayi. Kudzidzimangira kuli ngati kupempha thandizo. Kuwoneka pa moyo ndi koipa. Mmodzi wodwala, Dr. Smith, anati: "Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chimene chingachitike kwa dziko lapansi ndicho ngati Ambuye awononga." Mzimayiyo nthawi zambiri amadandaula za anthu omwe sangathe kuwakhululukira. Ndipo iye anali ndi khansara ya colon. Zitha kupezeka kuti chotupa cha khansa nthawi zonse chimagwirizanitsidwa ndi kukhudzidwa ndi kulakwa ndi kutsutsa. Mwinamwake izi sizomwe zimangokhala koyambirira, koma nthawi zonse zimakhalapo mukakhala ndi khansa. Azimayi ambiri, khansa ya m'mawere imakula pakapita mavuto, makamaka chifukwa cha kusamvana kwa banja. Amadziimba mlandu kuti akhoza kuchita zambiri ndikupulumutsa banja. Makolo amatha kudzimvera chisoni kwambiri ana.

Kusasamala ndi kukhumudwa
Ndikumverera kosadziŵa uku, kuthekera kwa munthu kuthetsa mavuto kumachepa. Chilichonse chimakhala chosasangalatsa komanso chopanda chiyembekezo. Palibe chilakolako chokhala ndi moyo. Chilichonse chimakhala mdima. Mumadzuka ndi lingaliro "ndikugwiranso ntchito, momwe ndatopa ndi chirichonse!" Ndiye pali chifukwa choganiza. Kawirikawiri sitikuwona mwa ife tokha mawonetseredwe a maganizo awa. Ndiye iwo sakudziwa! Koma funsani okondedwa anu, amzanga, mvetserani zomwe ena akunena za inu. Mukhoza kuphunzira zambiri za inu nokha.

Chisoni ndi chisoni
Chisoni ndi chisoni ndizofunika kwambiri za anthu ogula ndalama, anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito katundu wawo ndipo sangathe kutaya zinthu. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi iwe ukusowa zaka zana mu zana ^ zidzukulu! Mwachikoka ichi, anthu ali achisoni, opsinjika mtima, odandaula za zolephera zawo. Koma vuto silochitika zomwe zinachitika kale, ziwalole, komanso zosasangalatsa kwambiri. Vuto ndilolola kuti apite. Mwamuna amamatira kumbuyo ngati galu kwa fupa. Chisoni ndi chisoni zimapangitsa kuwonongeka kwa ntchito, abwenzi, banja ndi mwayi. Kwa iwo omwe agwidwa ndi malingaliro awa, moyo ndi vuto lenileni. Zili ngati zomwe zimachitikira imfa ya munthu. Ife sitimubwezera munthu uyu, koma ife timadzipangira tokha mbuyomu. Musamve chisoni ndi wakufayo. Patapita kanthawi, muyenera kumusiya apite. Apo ayi, ndikuganizira kwambiri za manda, mumayamba kumva ngati munthu wakufa. Mphamvu yosiya ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali.

Mantha ndi nkhawa
YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA MITU YA NKHANI YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA Chilichonse ndi choopsa, choopsa, chimayambitsa nkhawa. Ikhoza kudziwonetsera yokha ngati kuopa kutayika chikondi ndi chitetezo. Kodi tikukhumba chiyani kuposa chikondi ndi chitetezo? Tili ndi zonsezi, koma sitikudziwa izi. Kotero pali kukhumudwa ndi nsanje, kupsinjika kwakukulu, paranoia, neuroses, ndi kukula kwauzimu kuli kochepa. Mantha ndi nkhawa zimapatsirana. Kuwopsya kwa mantha kumatha kufalikira pakati pa anthu. Ngati wina akufuula "Moto!" Ndipo kuthamanga kuthamanga, mantha amayamba mwa aliyense. Kuti tigonjetse malingaliro opanda chidziwitso mwa mantha ndi nkhawa, mtsogoleri wamphamvu ndi wofunikira. Maganizo ameneŵa amagwiritsidwanso ntchito ngati chida chowongolera. Maboma ku Russia ndi ku America adathandizira mantha ndi nkhawa kwa zaka 30 mu Cold War. Mbali imodzi nthawizonse inali kuopa wina. Tsopano ife tikuwopa kuti meteorite idzagwa pansi kapena mphepo yamkuntho idzawuka. Kapena pangakhale chivomezi chachikulu, chifukwa chake tidzatha. Kapena kutentha kwa dziko. Pali zifukwa zambiri zolemekezera. Timawona mantha ndi nkhawa tsiku ndi tsiku m'ma TV. Malipoti a njala ndi nkhondo amachotsedwa ndi mantha athu.