Akatswiri a zamaganizo aphunzira mabanja ambiri okondwa, ndipo anadabwa kuona kuti malo awo ochezera a pachibwenzi ndi ovuta kwambiri. Pano, palibe paliponse pomwe pali mfundo yakuti "kumene ndinabadwira, apo ndi apo". Anthu ambiri amapeza tsogolo lawo, abwenzi, ogwira nawo ntchito kapena malo odyera pafupi. Mbiri, pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi wamtsogolo adzapita njira yomweyo ku sukulu, koma mwa kusintha kosiyana, ndipo sadawoloke, sizowoneka ngati zosawerengeka monga zikhoza kuwonekera.
Kotero, tiyeni tiyesere kusokoneza ubwino ndi zoipa zonse za malo otchuka kwambiri ochezera.
Oyandikana nawo
Kuyenda kuzungulira nyumba, mungathe kukwaniritsa tsogolo lanu. Muyenera kumvetsera kwambiri anthu omwe mumakhala nawo. Zomwe zimakumbukira nthawi zambiri, nkhani zofala, nkhani za chigawo, zochitika zofunika - izi ndizo poyamba zimakupangitsani kukhala gulu limodzi. Izi zingakhale zothandiza pa chiyanjano, chifukwa nthawi yowonongeka kwa chikhalidwe cha wina ndi mnzake imawfupikitsidwa. Kawirikawiri abambo omwe amakhala moyandikana nawo amadziwa zonse. Musataye nthawi kuyesa kusangalatsa abwenzi ake kapena anzake. Kuti apange banja, ichi ndi maziko abwino, mwachiwonekere, maukwati pakati pa oyandikana nawo amakhala nthawi zambiri.
Makampani a abwenzi
Pogwirizana ndi anzanu mungathe kumudziwa bwino mwamuna yemwe banja lake likhoza kupanga. Anthu ena amasankha mwanjira yotere yopezera bwenzi, ndipo amadziwa mfundo. Choncho, gululi liri bungwe, lomwe kawirikawiri anthu amakhala ochezeka mwachikhalidwe chofanana, kapena ndi mfundo yowonjezera. Ndipo amzanga a mabwenzi, monga lamulo, ndi abwino kwambiri kuposa alendo. Mukhoza kungokhala ndi anzanu komanso kumvetsera abale, alongo, achibale awo pa tchuthi, ndi zina zotero. Kapena mungawafunse kuti akupezereni awiri.
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Ntchito
Mabuku amtundu wazinthu samaloledwa mu kampani iliyonse. Komabe, ziwerengero zawo zimalimbikitsa kwambiri: maukwati akuluakulu ndi okhazikika ali pakati pa anzanu. Maola asanu ndi atatu mu ofesi masiku asanu ndi awiri amasonkhana pamodzi nthawi zina bwino kusiyana ndi maulendo ang'onoang'ono mu lesitilanti. Choncho ngati mukufunafuna mwamuna, musawononge ntchito ngati gwero la chimwemwe chenicheni. Musayese ndi moto, musapite kuzipangano zitatu - okwatirana kapena osakwatirana okha. Ndipo mudzapambana!
Zakudya, mabungwe
Makampani a abwenzi, oyandikana nawo ndi anzanu si malo okha omwe mungakumane nawo kuti mukhale paubwenzi wabwino ndi mwamuna. Malo odyera komanso maulendo a usiku, sayenera kutayidwa, komabe, mosemphana ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, izi ziri kutali kwambiri ndi malo opambana kwambiri kupeza tsogolo la otsutsidwa. Mwinamwake izi ndi chifukwa chakuti amuna ali ndi tsankho kwa okonda zosangalatsa za usiku. Mwinamwake chifukwa chake ndikuti makampani akupita ku magulu, ndipo nthawi zambiri samaziyang'ana pozungulira, koma usiku madera ndi malo odyera monga malo oti anthu okwatirana azikwatirana sali okondedwa ndi achinyamata amakono. Koma ngakhale iwo amaposa mwakufuna kupeza munthu kwa nthawi yaitali chikondi cha malo otere monga malo odyera.
Malo okhala ndi mabombe
Mabanja ogwira ntchito angapangidwenso pano. Chiyembekezo chokha cha ichi, poyang'ana pa bukhuli, sikofunikira. Nthaŵi zambiri, maubwenzi kutali ndi nyumba, atakhala pa tchuthi, amatha ndi ena onse. Ndipo komabe, kusiya njira iyi ya chibwenzi sikoyenera. Ingowonetsani kukhala odikira kwambiri. Pezani njira yodziwira ngati chibwenzi chanu chikwatiwa. Ngati mukufunafuna mwamunayo kuti mukhale ndi ubale wautali pa malo osungiramo malo, samalani kuti mudziwe. Ndi dziko lachiyanjano cha ubalewu kupitilira - chifukwa cha chifundo chachikulu komanso kukhudzidwa - zosavuta. Zili choncho kuti popitilira nyumba ndi malo omwe timakhala tikufufuza, mwayi wochepa wofuna kupeza ubale wolimba.
Kuyanjana pa Intaneti
Posachedwapa, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi malo ochezera a chibwenzi akhala akuchokera kwa mabanja onse ndi kusudzulana. Ena akufunafuna chibwenzi usiku umodzi, ena akulota kuti akhale ndi "wokwatirana naye". Musayambe kutsogoleredwa ndi anthu osayenerera ndikuganiza kuti pa intaneti simungapeze chikondi chanu. Izi ndizotheka, muyenera kukumbukira kuti 2% chabe ya zomwe zili muzolembazo zafotokozedwa zoona. Intaneti ndi malo opindulitsa kwambiri kuti ndisadziwonetse monga ine ndiliri, koma monga ndikufuna. Anthu amanyengerera pamenepo ulemu wawo, nthawi zonse musamawerenge za zolephera.
Kuti mufufuze mwamunayo kuti mukhale pachibwenzi pa intaneti, ganizirani malamulo ena ofunikira. Choyamba, yesetsani kuti musamangomva mawu ake mpaka mutamuona. Chachiwiri, kumbukirani zonse zomwe zalembedwera pamwambapa: kuyandikana kwa mwamuna wanu, mwayi wochulukitsa maubwenzi. Kupita kukondana kumudzi wapafupi kapena kumbali ina ya dziko lapansi ndi chikondi, koma kusunga mtunda ndi ntchito yaikulu, osati munthu aliyense wokonzeka kupita. Chachitatu, funani mwayi kuti mudziwe zomwe zolinga za munthu. Intaneti imapatsa iwo mwayi waukulu kuti akwaniritse chilakolako cha ubale wamasiku amodzi. Pankhaniyi, amuna samavomereza chilakolako chimenechi nthawi zonse. Samalani, musamakhulupirire mawu osalankhula, mpaka mutadziwonera nokha, ndipo inunso mutha kuyembekezera bwino.