Kukwatira munthu wosakondedwa

Tsopano mwakakamizika kukwatiwa ndi munthu wosakondedwa. Ngakhale simukufuna ayi. Inu nokha mumadziwa bwino momwe zimakhalira kuti mutenge mutu wanu ali ndi zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi ndikudzifunsa nokha kuti: "Ambuye, ndimaganiza chiyani pa khumi ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri, ndipo ndi ndani amene anafunikira agalu oponyedwa pamsana pa zaka zisanu ndi zinayi?" Koma mudakali ndi mwayi. Apa anthu ena, akudzifunsanso funso lomwelo, amagwira ntchito pa ziwerengero ndi khumi ndi ziwiri, ndi khumi ndi zisanu, ndipo ngakhale zaka makumi awiri. Ndipo chifukwa chiyani? Inde, chifukwa nthawi zina, kupanga chisankho chokwatirana. Timadalira zofunikira zomwe sizikukhudzana ndi chikhumbo chathu chokwatirana.
Mwayankha kuti inde. Ayi, chabwino, chirichonse chinali chikondi kwambiri ... Maluwa, malo odyera ndi mphete mu bokosi liri ndi mtima. Kodi ndizovuta zotani zomwe zidzatha? Kotero iye anawombera popanda kuganiza. Ndipo tsopano n'zovuta kukana. Kodi izi: lero "inde", ndi mawa "ayi"? Zosasangalatsa komanso zosasamala. Ndipo tsopano muyenera kukwatira munthu wosakondedwa. Kwenikweni, ndizosasangalatsa kutsegula ambulera pansi pa bulangeti, ndizosamveka kuchotseratu zokondweretsa zonse pa buffet, ndipo si zoyenera kupereka ziyembekezo zabodza kwa munthu amene amakukondani.

Amakukondani kwambiri. Kotero tsopano muyenera kukwatira. "Kukwatirana," amayi anzeru amatiphunzitsa, ndikofunikira kwa wina amene amakukondani, osati kwa munthu amene mumamukonda. Khungu lomaliza lidzapita, ndipo mudzapumula pa moyo wanu wonse. " Koma palibe choopsa kuposa kukhala pafupi ndi osakondedwa. Izi zikuwonjezeredwanso chifukwa chakuti omaliza akulakalaka kuti abwererenso. Zoonadi, simudzawonjezera chikondi kwa mnzako mu nyumba ya thanzi. Koma zochitika zonsezi zidzawononga umunthu wanu posachedwa.

Dziwani wathu, wotsutsa! Wopandukirayo ndi wanu wakale. Amene anakwatira wina ndipo sanayamikire kutalika kwa makhalidwe anu ndi makhalidwe abwino, maluso osiyanasiyana a zophikira, kugonana ndi chibadwidwe chokongola pa khonde lamanzere. Wopandukirayo ayenera kuphunzira kuti odziwa bwinowa anapezeka kwambiri, ndipo nthawi yomweyo. Kotero wotsutsa ndipo ndizofunikira, tiyeni tsopano tizilonda tiwame. Zoonadi, kuti wolakwirayo adzalima mphoto yake pamlingo umodzi (osati pamenepo!), Ndipo moyo wako udzatsika - ichi ndi chinthu chachikhumi.
Ndipo anthu ati chiyani? Izi zimadabwitsa kwambiri. "Anathetsa ukwatiwo, taganizirani!", Amake aang'ono mu khitchini wake khumi ndi zisanu kuchokera kunyumba kwanu adzanena. Ndipo nanga bwanji? Mungasangalale ndi chisangalalo ndi tsankho la "ntchentche" kuchokera kwa anthu zikwi khumi kuti azivomerezedwa ndi ma tetenecks onsewa, okhudzana ndi moyo wosakhazikika m'zaka zisanu zotsatira.

Ngati sakuitana. Mukuyenera kukwatiwa naye, chifukwa mukuwopa kuti simungathe ngakhale kufuula. Pambuyo pa zonse, tonse timadziwa kuti pali atsikana asanu ndi anayi kwa atsikana asanu ndi anayi malinga ndi chiwerengero, ndipo patatha msinkhu wina ndizosavomerezeka kukhala osakwatira. Kotero, motsogoleredwa ndi ziganizo izi pakupanga zisankho zofunika - ichi ndi chinthu chotsiriza. Pambuyo pake, inu muli pakhomo nokha, ndipo iwo amene akufuna kuti akambirane moyo wanu azipezeka nthawi zonse. Kotero kaya muwasamalire iwo, chifukwa uwu ndi moyo wanu ndipo muli ndi ufulu woutaya nokha. Ndipo ngati mukutsutsana mwanjira iyi, ndiye kuti mudzakwatirana, simungakayikire, ndipo pambali pake, amene akukutsatirani. Chifukwa chokha chokwatirana ndi kufuna kukhala ndi munthu uyu moyo wake wonse ndikubala anthu onga iye.

Mukufuna magazi anga? Malinga ndi asayansi, zinafika kuti hafu ya ora la ola limachepetsa mphamvu ya thupi kuchiza mabala. Izi zimakhala zofunikira makamaka madzulo operekedwa opaleshoni. Muzipatala, ndi bwino kuyesa mayesero apadera kuti mudziwe kuti adzalandira nthawi yaitali bwanji kuchokera kuchipatala.