Kugonjetsa munthu wa fuko lina ndilo loto la pafupifupi mkazi ndi mtsikana aliyense. Koma momwe mungachitire izo moyenera, ndipo nthawi yomweyo muzisiya pa mtima wake, osati amayi onse akudziwa. Pano, ndizofunikira kuzindikira kuti m'madera onse a dziko lapansi muli anthu omwe ali ndi makhalidwe awo, ndipo kukondana nao n'kofunika, nthawi zonse pamaziko awo. Kotero, momwe mungagonjetse mitima ya anthu, ngati inu muli mbali zosiyana za dziko?
Ngati munabweretsedwa ku China paulendo wanu wapadziko lonse, khalani okonzeka kuti munthu adzakuchotsani kuchokera kumutu mpaka kumtsinje. Izi zikusonyeza kuti mtima wake ndi wanu, ndipo ali wokonzeka kugawana nanu moyo wake wonse. Mwachindunji, akunena kuti akukupatsani inu kuti mukwatirane naye - panonso, osachepera. Koma kumva zambiri za mayamiko anu ku adiresi yanu, ku Argentina kapena ku Taiwan, akunena kuti munamukonda kwenikweni.
Anthu osakondweretsa kwambiri ndi anthu a ku Philippines. Ngati iwo ankamukonda dona, iwo amaganiza kuti ndibwino kuti akhudze nkhope yake ndi mapazi awo. Amuna achilendo kuwonetsera chifundo, koma sizothandiza. Chifukwa m'mayiko osiyanasiyana - miyambo ndi miyambo yosiyana. Ngati, m'mayiko monga Algeria, Nigeria kapena Mali, mnyamata wina adakufikirani inu komanso panthawi ya kukambitsirana, mutagwira dzanja lanu, anayamba kutambasula dzanja lanu mwachidziwikire, mukudziwa kuti mwalowa mu moyo wake. Ngati mukufuna kubwezera, chitani chimodzimodzi ndi dzanja lake. Pano pali mgwirizano, chinthu chofunika kwambiri, musanachite izi, onetsetsani kuti mumakonda munthu uyu.
Pakati pa amuna achiarabu, kumvera chifundo kwa chiwerewere kumaphatikizidwa ndi masewero a maso kapena kukhudza dzanja lanu. Koma ku Malta kapena ku Kupuro, kukondana ndi kuyang'ana ndilo lipenga lalikulu kuti lipambane mtima wa munthuyo.
Chinthu china chofunika pa chinyengo cha mayiko ndi mawonekedwe a mkazi. Zikuoneka kuti m'madera osiyanasiyana a dziko lapansi ndizopadera, kukongola kwa akazi ndi maonekedwe ake ndi ofunikira. Mwachitsanzo, m'madera ena monga dziko la Thailand, China kapena Indonesia, mtsikana amene ali ndi khungu loyera la chipale chofewa amatha kugonjetsa mtima wa munthu. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti kuyendera maikowa, sikufunika kukhala ndi nsanamira. Akazi amafunika kukhala opanda chidwi. Komanso m'mayikowa, zosowa zazikulu zimapita kwa atsikana ochepa komanso ochepa. Koma woonda muyeso inayake ya mawuwo. Mkazi woonda kwambiri m'makona a dziko lapansi amawonedwa ngati mkazi yemwe ali ndi matenda aakulu.
Chokondweretsa ndi chakuti m'mayiko a ku Africa, kukongola kwa chilengedwe ndi kukongola kwa amayi sikuyenera kuliyamikira. Mgonjetseni mwamuna pano ndizotheka kokha ndi chovala choyera, kupanga komanso okongola mu dziko lino. Komanso, ndi anthu aku Africa omwe amasamala kwambiri za chisankho ndi chisankho cha mtsikana posankha mtsikana. Choncho, musanapite ku msonkhano ndi "mwamuna wanu wa ku Africa", yesetsani manja anu onse, ndikupangitsani kuti mukhale osangalala komanso osangalatsa. Ku Brazil ndi ku Argentina, njira yabwino yodzikitsira mtima wa munthu mu intaneti yake ndi frank decollete. M'mayiko amenewa, amuna amatha kuyamikira amayi omwe ali okongola ndi mabere okongola. Kotero, ngati muli mwini wa zoterezi, inu nonse mumapanga makadi m'manja.
Kuwonjezera apo, zonse ziyenera kukumbukiridwa ndi kuti m'mayiko osiyanasiyana ndi mizinda pali njira zamakono komanso zamakono zogonana. Pogwiritsa ntchito ndondomeko yapadera, yolondola, simudzapeza zovuta kudziwana ndi maso ena akunja. Mwachitsanzo, ku Canada mipiringidzo, njira yabwino yodziwira mwamuna ndiyomwe mukuyang'ana chizindikiro kuchokera ku botolo la mowa. M'dziko lino, chizindikiro ichi chimanena kuti ndiwe mfulu ndipo mukufufuza. Ku Asia, mkazi wamphamvu ayenera kumvetsera mtsikana amene amavala kuti khosi lake liwonekere. Kwa Asiya, khosi laling'ono limaimira ubwino wonse wa akazi ndi kukonzanso.
Onse omwe ali ku Argentina kapena ku Brazil, amuna samangoganizira za mabere aakazi okha, komanso zovala. Pano, chisankho chabwino chidzakhala chovala chosasintha. Pamaso mwa ungwiro woterewu, palibe woimira maikowa angayime. Mwa njira, dziwani kuti ndi anyamata a ku Argentina ndi a Brazil amene angakhoze kukupsompsani pa tsiku loyamba.
Kugonjetsa mwamuna m'mayiko monga India, China ndi Aarabu Akuluakulu angathe kukhala ndi chithandizo chabwino ndi chokongola. Amuna, oimira maikowa, maganizo ovuta komanso ovuta kutero. Choncho, pofika m'mayiko otchulidwa pamwambapa, choyamba pitani ku salon yakutchire. Pambuyo pake mutha kuyenda bwinobwino pamsewu wanu wosaka chifukwa cha mtundu wa amuna.
Ngati mwaganiza kugonjetsa gawo lachimuna la anthu a ku America, musaiwale za tattoo (ngakhale ngati kanthawi). Amagetsi a ku America amalingalira kukhalapo kwa chizindikiro pa thupi lachikazi kwambiri. Malo abwino kwambiri olembera zizindikiro amalimbikitsidwa kuti asankhe khungu kuzungulira batani, paphewa, kumbuyo kapena m'mawere. Kukaniza kukongola koteroko kungathe khungu kokha. Koma amuna a ku Polynesiya sawakonda atsikana omwe amavina bwino kwambiri. Kotero zidzakhala zothandiza musanapite kudziko lino kuti mukhale ngati maphunziro ovina.
Kotero ife tafufuza zofunikira zazikulu za momwe mu magawo osiyanasiyana a dziko mungagonjetse mtima wa munthu. Tsopano muli ndi makadi onse omwe ali m'manja, kotero mutha kupita mwakhama kuti muthamangitse theka lanu lachiwiri, kulikonse kumene mukukhala m'dzikoli. Ndipo tikukhumba inu mwayi!