Kodi ndizowopsa kuti mupewe kudziletsa nthawi zonse?

Kukambirana nkhani zokhudzana ndi moyo wapamtima nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta, mundawo ndi wosasinthasintha komanso wovuta, womwe nthawi zambiri sakhala ndi malamulo osalongosoka, malangizo ndi mayankho osavuta. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala wamanyazi kuti mukhale chete, m'malo mwake, kukhala chete kumabweretsa mavuto aakulu.

Choncho yesetsani kufufuza mayankho a funso lomwe mosakayikitsa limakhumudwitsa ambiri: momwe kudziletsa kugonana kumakhudza thanzi la abambo ndi amai. Komabe, ngakhale mau-mawu omwe amalowa mu funso limeneli amafunikanso kufotokozera.

Asayansi a Israeli adapeza kuti atatha masiku khumi, kudziwika kwa chiwerengero cha amuna omwe akuyesera kuyesa kunachepetsa ubwino wa spermatozoa, ngakhale chiwerengero chawo chinawonjezeka.

Kupitirizabe mu chilakolako cha kugonana kumatengedwa kuti ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro za kuvutika maganizo. Amuna omwe ali ndi malamulo akuluakulu okhudzana ndi kugonana ali ovuta kulekerera kudziletsa, koma amachedwa msanga kuposa iwo omwe ali ndi malamulo ofooka. Mulimonsemo, kubwezeretsedwa kwa moyo wapamtima mutatha nthawi yaitali kuchokera kwa onse awiriwa kumafunikira zokoma ndi kuleza mtima.

Chiwindi chachikulu chochokera ku Hong Kong, yemwe adakondwerera tsiku lachisanu ndi chiwiri cha kubadwa kwake, amakhulupirira kuti kukhala ndi moyo kwa nthawi yayitali kumatha kukhala ndi chizolowezi chogonana kwa nthawi yaitali.
Wosambasula wa ku Germany Ronnie Ackermann, yemwe adagonjetsa ndondomeko ya siliva ku Olympic City ya Olympic, akugwirizananso zotsatira zake ndi kudziletsa kwa nthawi yaitali. Akatswiri ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kuti abambo asapewe kugonana asanatipikisane, komanso kwa amayi, mosiyana ndi zimenezi, moyo wapachibale umathandiza kumenya zolemba. Komabe, mfundoyi ndi otsutsa.
Kwa zaka zingapo, sukulu za ku America zaphunzitsa mutu wakuti "Kupewa Kugonana" kuchepetsa chiwerengero cha matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso kutenga pakati pa achinyamata. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti nkhaniyi inayambika Purezidenti Bill Clinton - msilikali wa dziko lapansi wonyansa.

Kudziletsa ndi kuchuluka kotani?
Yankho la funso ili ndilosavuta, chifukwa:
Chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe cha chiwerewere ndizosiyana kwa anthu onse, choncho kwa munthu sabata popanda kugonana kumakhala kuyesa kwakukulu, ndipo wina amangochita mosavuta kwa miyezi yambiri.
Kuwonjezera apo, ntchito yofunikira imakhala ndi zifukwa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu akhale ndi chiwerewere komanso ngati amamupweteka thupi kapena khalidwe labwino, ali pamsana pa kusowa kwa chilakolako kapena mosiyana - ayenera kuthandizidwa.
Choncho, sizingatheke kukhazikitsa malire, pamene kupuma kumasanduka kudziletsa, akatswiri sali okonzeka panobe. Komabe, iwo ali otsimikiza kuti kukhalapo kwa kugonana sikupitirira kwa thupi popanda tsatanetsatane. Achipatala amagawanitsa nthawi popanda kugonana mu magawo awiri:
1. Kutsogoleredwa ndi maloto okhudzana ndi chilakolako chogonana;
2. Zidzakhala bwino pamene kutaya kwazing'ono / sublimation ya libido ikuyamba, ndipo kubwezeretsa sikophweka nthawi zonse.

Nchiyani chikuchitika mwa amuna?
Amuna amene amalephera kugonana ali ndi zaka zingapo, ngakhale atakhala osasangalatsa, koma samapweteka kwambiri, monga momwe amachitira, samabweretsa, ndipo amakhala ndi mwayi wobwerera ku zosangalatsa zapadera popanda khama. Komabe, pokhala wamkulu, kukakamizika kudziletsa kumapereka chitsimikiziro chachikulu pa thanzi la amuna - kubwerera ku kugonana, makamaka patatha nthawi yayitali, kungakhale kovuta, chifukwa cha kusakhalitsa kwa nthawi yogonana, mavuto osiyanasiyana angathe. Ndipo munthu wamkuluyo, vuto lalikulu ndilo: ngati zaka 40 kusagonana nthawi zonse kumadzaza ndi kutayika msanga komanso kusagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa prostatitis, ndiye kuti pambuyo pa 50 akhoza kuwonjezeredwa ngakhale kuperewera kwathunthu, chifukwa chilakolako chogonana chokhudzana ndi kugonana chimapangidwira kuthetsedwa kwa libido kuti musadzipatule.

Nchiyani chikuchitika kwa akazi?
Kupewa kudziletsa kumakhudza gawo la maganizo la mkazi ndipo nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa mavuto. Ndi zomwe zikugwirizana: ndi kusowa kwa kugonana kapena ndi mfundo yakuti mkaziyo amadziona kuti alibe ntchito kwa wina aliyense - sakudziwika. Asayansi akukhulupirira kuti kung'ung'udza kwa omwe amatchedwa "atsikana akale" ndiko, poyamba, kunyoza, ndipo kachiwiri, sikukugwirizana ndi kudziletsa kwawo kwamuyaya, chifukwa kusowa kwa chiwerewere kwa iwo ndichibadwa ndipo sichikuwoneka ngati kutayika. Ndizomveka kuganiza kuti izi ndizo makhalidwe omwe adasankha kusungulumwa kwawo kwa amayi. Kudziletsa kwa thupi sikumapereka kwa atsikana omwe ali ndi chiwerewere. Koma pokhala ndi msinkhu, mkazi wokhwima maganizo amakhala ovuta kuvomereza kuti alibe kukhutira ndi kugonana. Komabe, zambiri pano zimadalira chikhalidwe.
Kugonana kwachiyanjano ndi mwachibadwa ndipo mosakayikira, mbali yabwino kwambiri ya moyo wa munthu aliyense komanso maphunziro abwino kwambiri a machitidwe onse a thupi. Choncho, kukana kugonana, ndithudi, sikuli koyenera. Kugonana mu moyo wanu kuyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi momwe mukufunira - izi ndizosamvetseka zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi madokotala a maulendo osiyanasiyana, masukulu ndi mayendedwe.