M'nthawi yathu ino, mumatha kumva funso - kodi zosokoneza kugonana zimawononga mkazi? Ndipo izi ziri kutali ndi funso lopanda pake. Nkhani yokhudzana kugonana kwa mkazi nthawi zonse ndi zofunika, chifukwa tikuyankhula, choyamba, kuteteza thanzi la amayi.
Tiyeni tiganizire za nthawi zomwe zimatchedwa "zoipa".
Tikudziwa kuti akatswiri pankhani ya kugonana amalimbikitsanso pa nthawi yogonana kuti athetse moyo wawo wonse, osaganizira chilichonse, kuganizira zokhazokha, kukondweretsa wokondedwa, ndi zina zotero. Kawirikawiri, panthawi yogonana, njira zonse zakuthupi zimachitika mwachindunji, kunja kwa chifuniro chathu. Kusokoneza chiwerewere, timasokoneza njira za thupi, "kusokoneza pulogalamu" ya maselo a mitsempha, pali kusintha kwakukulu mu njira zosangalatsa komanso zoletsedwa. Tangoganizani sitimayo ikukwera mofulumira, ndipo mwadzidzidzi wina akuyimbira tambala ... Kodi chimachitika n'chiyani kwa okwera panthawiyi: kusokonezeka, chisokonezo, mantha! Ndipo sitimayo ikuyendabe kwa kanthawi molingana ndi inertia. Zimakhalanso ndi thupi la munthu.
Poganizira pa nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri ya momwe "sawombera", mkazi sangathe kumasuka, amawopa, maganizo a mimba yosafuna imamveka pamutu pake. Zonsezi zimayambitsa mikangano yolimba, ndipo maganizo oipa amachepetsa mphamvu ya kugonana. Kodi ndi zosangalatsa zotani zomwe tingakambirane? Wothandizana nawo nthawi zonse amadzikakamiza kuti azitha kuyendetsa nthawi ya munthu, ndipo izi zimabweretsa kukhumudwa kwa malingaliro, chidzalo chopeza zosangalatsa zenizeni ndi zosangalatsa, zomwe abwenzi omwe amayesetsa, amachotsedwa.
Ndipo mpaka posachedwapa, akatswiri ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ngati mumakonda kusokoneza chiwerewere, ndiye mkazi akhoza kuyamba Chiwombankhanga, mwinamwake zowonongeka kowonjezera kumawonjezeka.
Ngati tilingalira nkhaniyi poganiza kuti tikhoza kupeza zolaula, ndiye kuti ziyenera kutchulidwa kuti njira yotetezera ku mimba ikhoza kuvulaza mkazi, ndipo mwina, sichidzakhudza.
Kodi ndi zotani zomwe zimakhudza bwanji? Izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito makamaka kwa amayi omwe sanamvepo zolaula. Zofukufuku zimatsimikizira kuti 50 peresenti ya iwo amagwiritsira ntchito chizolowezi chogonana kwa mkazi.
Chiwalo mwa mkazi sichichitika nthawi imodzimodzi ndi mwamuna. Ngati mkazi angathe kupumula, musaganize za mimba yosafunika ndipo ngati nthawi yowoneka kuchokera kwa abwenzi akubwera nthawi zosiyana, ndiye kusintha adzachita popanda zotsatira zoipa. Koma ngati chilakolako cha mkazi chimachitika pokhapokha panthawi yopuma kwa amuna, ndiye kusokonezeka kwachitidwe chachikondi angakhale ndi zotsatira zoipa. Yankho limeneli limatchedwa kukhumudwa - kutengeka kwa kugonana komwe sikukwaniritsidwa, komwe kumakhala kupweteka m'mimba. Koma ziyenera kuzindikila kuti zowonongeka panthaŵi imodzimodziyo za ophatikizana m'miyoyo yathu ndizosowa, chikhalidwe ichi chikhoza kuperekedwa ndi maanja abwino omwe amayesetsa kukhala angwiro ndi mgwirizano mu moyo wogonana. Mwamuna ndi mkazi mu nthawi yachitidwe chachikondi, mkazi "zinyalala pamutu" zokhudzana ndi chitetezo sichidzakhala.
Tiyeni tiyimire pa nthawi ina "yovulaza" ina. Zili choncho kuti kugonana kwa mkazi osati kuperewera kwa mimba yosafuna. Izi zimatsimikiziridwa kuti spermatozoa imapangidwira ndikuyambitsidwa panthawi yogonana, osati pamapeto pake. Choncho, kuthekera kwa mimba kumafikira 25%.
Kwa amuna, chizoloŵezichi chingasokonezenso thanzi, ngati njirayi imagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa nthawi yaitali, kwa zaka zambiri. Mwamuna akamaima kwambiri ndikuchotsa chiwalo cha abambo, ntchito ya prostate gland imasintha. Zachepetsedwa mosavuta, kotero zikhoza kukhazikitsa zochitika zomwe zimapangitsa kuchipatala. Angakhalenso ndi zochitika zokhudzana ndi ubongo, zopweteka m'mimba, kuthamanga msanga, kuchepa.
Koma sizinthu zonse zosasunthika! Zamakono zamakono zogonana zimatipatsa zinthu zambiri zosiyana. Kuzigwiritsa ntchito mwaluso komanso mwachidziwitso, n'zosavuta kupewa zotsatira zovulaza za amayi ndi abambo. Ngati okondedwa amakondana, amamvetsera mwachidwi ndikusamalirana wina ndi mnzake, ndiye chikondi choterocho sichingawonongeke. Othandizira adzatha kugwiritsa ntchito "mapeto" awa pochitika kuti palibe njira zothandizira kulera.
Chophimba! Kudandaula!