1. Zaumoyo.
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimachititsa kuti munthu ayambe kukana kugonana ndi matenda. Zitha kukhala matenda osiyanasiyana opatsirana, opweteka komanso odwala omwe amabweretsa mphamvu. Mwachitsanzo, prostatitis ikhoza kugonana kuti ikhale yosatheka, chifukwa imafooketsa mphamvu ndipo imayambitsa matenda. Popeza kuti kawirikawiri amuna samakamba momasuka za mavuto awo ndipo nthawi zambiri amawachitira dokotala, chifukwa cha kusintha kwakukulu mu chikhalidwe cha mwamuna wake, akhoza kubisala mavuto omwe ali ndi thanzi lawo.
2. Mbadwo.
Zimadziwika kuti ndi ukalamba, chilakolako cha amuna kapena akazi chimafooketsa. Mwamuna wamkulu akakhala, mahomoni ochepa omwe amachititsa kugonana ali opangidwa m'thupi lake. Choncho, n'zosadabwitsa kuti munthu wazaka 50 akufuna kugonana mochuluka kuposa zaka 30.
Tsopano pali mankhwala omwe amachititsa kupanga mahomoni amphongo. Koma palinso zofufumitsa zambiri zomwe zimavulaza thanzi. Choncho, pofufuza "maapulo achichepere" sayenera kutsogoleredwa ndi malonda, koma ndi malangizo a dokotala.
3. Kudzidandaula.
Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti palibe chifukwa chomveka chomwe munthu angakanire kukondana. Koma chifukwa chake nthawi zonse chiripo ndipo nthawi zambiri ndi kudzikayikira. Mwinamwake bamboyu anali ndi mavuto ena ndi mphamvu kapena kumwa msanga. Zingasokoneze kudzidalira, panali mantha kuti zochitika zoterozo zidzabwerezedwa nthawi zonse. Mkhalidwewo ndi wovuta nthawi zambiri ngati mkazi alibe kusamala kuyankha mozama pa zomwe zinachitika. Kuzizira kwa amuna kumayambira kumbuyo kwa kunyozedwa kwa mkazi. Kusokonezeka maganizo kwapakati pa nthawi zotero kungathetsere kwambiri ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Kuthetsa vutoli kungakhale kulimbikitsana ndi katswiri wamaganizo kapena wamagulu.
4. Nkhanza.
Malingana ndi zotsatira za kafukufuku wambiri, kuperekedwa kwa munthu si chifukwa chokana kugonana ndi mkazi wake. Amuna omwe amanyengerera nthawi zambiri amatha kugonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo. Iwo sagwirizana kwambiri ndi malingaliro, ndipo ngati alibe matenda, ndiye kuti chiwombankhanga chimakhala chifukwa chake munthu amayamba kupeĊµa chibwenzi.
Koma nthawi zina kukonda kumbali kapena kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa kuchokera ku kulakwitsa kolakwitsa kungachepetse kugonana popanda kanthu. Kukambirana koyera kokha kungathetsere vutoli. Koma m'mikhalidwe yotere, zokambirana za mtima ndi mtima zimathera pa chisudzulo. Choncho - kuyamba chiyankhulo chotsutsa kapena kutseka maso anu, aliyense amasankha yekha.
5. Kupanikizika.
Kutopa kwanthawi yaitali, nkhawa, kusowa tulo kosalekeza - chifukwa china chomwe munthu sangagwirire kugonana. Ngati tsiku la munthu liri lotopa kwambiri, mantha ambiri komanso nthawi zonse ali osakayika, ndiye palibe chodabwitsa kuti usiku ali pabedi amafuna kuti azigonana mwamtendere. Nthawi zina ndi kusintha kwathunthu kwa ntchito zomwe zingathetsere vutoli, ndipo nthawi zina mpumulo wanthawi zonse, maholide nthawi zonse ndi chithandizo chamankhwala. Ngati mkazi ayesera kumanga nyumba chitonthozo ndi mthunzi wamtendere, mwamuna adziphunzira kupumula pamaso pake ndikusiya mavuto onse akugwira ntchito kumbuyo kwake, ndiye kuzizira kwa mwamuna sikudzadziwonetsera.
Zifukwa zomwe zimakhala ndi kuzizira kwa amuna, zimakhala zambiri. Koma, modabwitsa, zifukwa zambirizi zimachotsedwa mosavuta. Ngati ubale wodalirika, chikondi ndi ulemu wina ndi mzake, ndiye palibe chomwe chingakhoze kuwasiyanitsa. Palibe thanzi, kapena zovuta, kapena kutopa sizidzakhala mavuto osasinthika. Kukana zokhazokha kugonana, kukhudzika kwakukulu kwa mkazi wina, kukhoza kuthetsa ubale wapamtima. Koma ngakhale kusakhulupilira sikungakhale chifukwa chokwanira cha ubwenzi wapamtima kuti uwonongeke kwamuyaya ndi ubale wawo.