Kumayiko akumidzi akutali, tikudikirira amuna okongola kwambiri komanso akazi okongola - mphekesera zambiri zimapangitsa anthu akunja kukhala osadalirika. Kodi zochitika zogonana zimagwirizana ndi mtundu wina weniweni?
Europe yabwino yakale
Malinga ndi kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi Durex, Agiriki anali achiwerewere kwambiri. Amagonana nthawi zambiri kuposa ena (pafupifupi 138 pa chaka) ndi pafupifupi kulikonse. Komabe, kuyambira ku Greece muzoopsa zonse ziyenera kukhala osamala: m'dziko lino, kugonana mosatetezeka sikukudziwika. Anthu 70 pa anthu 100 alionse samateteza.
Kugonana ndi Italiya nthawi zambiri kumakhutira. Ziwerengero zimatsimikizira: m'dziko lino, khalidwe ndi lofunikira kuposa kuchuluka. Italy ndi dziko lachiwerewere. Ndondomeko ya Narcissistic, podziwa mtengo wake, Italians amachita zonse "zangwiro", osasamala zokondweretsa zawo zokha, koma osaiwala zofuna za mnzawo. Anthu a ku Italy amapanga chikondi mochuluka kuposa Agiriki (nthawi 106 pachaka), koma paliponse: m'galimoto, pagombe, paki, m'munda. Osavomerezeka omwe sali oterewa kupatulapo chimbudzi - iwo ku Italy, ndithudi, amasiya kwambiri.
A French akuzungulira dziko lapansi amadziwika kuti okonda chikondi. Komabe, chithumwa chodziwika bwino cha ku France, maola, chimangochitika pa chibwenzi. Pa kugonana, Achifalansa ndi ovomerezeka. Musagwiritse ntchito zidole zosiyanasiyana, ndi ochepa okha omwe amakonda kuchita masewera a sadomasochistic ndi kugonana kwachinyamata. Chigololo sichimadziwika kwambiri kuposa momwe amakhulupirira kale: atakwatiwa, ndi theka la anthu omwe anafunsidwa anali kumbali. Khalani ndi chikondi m'dziko muno - pafupifupi 120 pa chaka, koma kugonana kwapakati sikungapitilire mphindi 14, kuphatikizapo kumayambiriro kosale ndi kumpsompsona.
Monga mu china chirichonse, mu chiyanjano Am Germans ali bwinobwino ndi pansi pano. Munthu wolemekezeka wa ku German amagwiritsa ntchito "izi" pachaka 104 pachaka, pochita zofunikira mwamsanga, mofanana ndi mano oyera tsiku ndi tsiku. Ku Germany, kusiyana ndi mayiko ena, ana ayamba kulandira chiwerewere (kuyambira zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zinayi) ndipo kale asanakhale namwali (pafupifupi zaka 15 kapena zochepa). A Germany, mosiyana ndi a ku Ulaya, amakonda kukondana kokha m'chipinda chogona. Iwo safuna kusintha osakwatirana ndipo gawo limodzi la magawo khumi la anthu onse ogwirizana a Germany amasintha okwatirana nawo (m'mayiko ena a EU omwe anthu okwatirana osakhulupirika amakhala oposa 2-3).
Koma kuuma ndi kuzizira kwa anthu a Foggy Albion sikutsimikiziridwa ndi ziwerengero. Achizungu amasangalala kugwiritsa ntchito masewera achiwerewere, ali otseguka ku malingaliro atsopano. Amatha kugonana pafupifupi kulikonse, akusankha magalimoto ndi mapaki. Oposa theka ankagonana usiku umodzi. Komabe, ukwati umatengedwa mozama: 14% peresenti yokha inasintha theka lina.
Chikondi mu Dziko Latsopano
Kuchita zachiwerewere komanso kugonana kwachiwerewere ku America ndizodabwitsa. Ndipotu, anthu ammudzi muno nthawi zambiri amasiyana kwambiri ndi anthu ena. Amalola kuti munthu wachitatu agone, azigonana ndi anthu omwe amagonana nawo, amachita zogonana ndi abambo ndipo amatha kugwiritsa ntchito zida zogonana. Ambiri amachititsa chikondi kunja kwa nyumba, posankha galimoto iyi kapena chipinda chakumbudzi. Ndipo mmodzi mwa asanu mwa anthu omwe anafunsidwa anavomereza kuti panthawi yochititsa chidwi kwambiri amakhala ndi kamera ya kanema. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, pamene aliyense akuwopa kwambiri zotsutsa za kugonana, mmodzi mwa asanu amayesetsa kupeza ntchito kuntchito. Komabe, kusiyana kotereku, kumakhalako kumabweretsa chisangalalo, choncho, theka la Amereka limagonana kamodzi pa sabata, ndipo oposa 50% omwe amafunsidwa ndi anthu ogonana amakhala osangalala.
Kafukufuku amatsimikizira mbiri ya kukongoletsa ndi maso kuchokera ku Latin America, osati potsutsidwa ndi tsankho. Ndi kugonana ali ndi dongosolo lonse, ndipo ali okonzeka kutero kumadera onse omwe sagwirizana ndi cholinga ichi. Ndizosangalatsa kuti amatha kuchita izi mobwerezabwereza kusiyana ndi nthumwi za mitundu ina kuntchito komanso ngakhale pagalimoto. Amuna ndi akazi ammudzi, lambada nthawi zonse ndikuvina masamba, omwe mumagwira ntchito bwino m'chiuno mwanu, simukusowa zozizwitsa komanso zozizwitsa zosiyanasiyana.
Kufufuza zosangalatsa zachilendo
Pambuyo podziwa zonse za Kamasutra, musapite ku magulu othandiza ku India. Anthu okhalamo anali "osasamala". Mwachiwonekere, buku lakale lonena za luso la chikondi linalembedweratu kuti likhale losiyana kwambiri ndi moyo wapamtima m'dziko lino, omwe nzika zawo zili ndi anthu osachepera atatu ndipo pambuyo pake onse (pafupifupi zaka 20) alowa koyamba pa kugonana. Okhawo a anthu omwe adafunsidwa ku India adanena kuti ndibwino kuti musamayambe kucheza nawo pafupi ndi banja lanu. Pano, pafupifupi palibe amene anayesera katatu, sanagwiritse ntchito vibrators, analibe kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Usiku umenewo ndi Amwenye udzakhala wosangalatsa komanso wosakondana: iwo ndi ochepa kwambiri kuposa ena okhala padziko lapansi kugula mafuta odzoza mafuta omwe amasangalatsa kwambiri ndipo alibe chidwi ndi mabuku okhudzana ndi zolaula. Anthu okhalamo samakopeka ndi kugonana kunja kwa chipinda: 65% amapanga chikondi pokhapokha. Mitundu yokhayo yomwe zisanu ndi chimodzi zimaloledwa kugonana muzipinda za makolo. Amwenye amalowa mu ubale wapamtima makamaka nthawi zambiri okhala m'mayiko ena (maulendo 75 pa chaka). Ziwerengerozo ndi zoipa kwambiri pakati pa Singaporeans (maulendo 73) ndipo akupitiriza kugwira ntchito Japanese (nthawi 45).
Komabe, zomwezo ndi zoona kwa mayiko ena akumwera chakum'mawa kwa Asia: Vietnam, Indonesia, Malaysia, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Singapore. Anthu okhalamo sali ochepa kwambiri kusiyana ndi Azungu kuti azigonana (ndipo amangofuna kope lawo lachikale), musamalandile zosiyana siyana ndipo kawirikawiri amayenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira zowonjezera kugonana.
Nzika za ku Turkey zimatsimikizira mbiri ya azimayi. Pafupifupi, aliyense wa Turk anali ndi zibwenzi zoposa 14 (iyi ndi mbiri yeniyeni!), Oposa theka la omwe anafunsidwa anasintha mwamuna wawo ndipo adagwirizana usiku umodzi. Chikondi cha mtundu wanji ndi Turk? Nzika za dziko lino zimakonda kugonana ndi chikhalidwe kapena chilakolako, popanda "machenjerero a ku Ulaya" - zidole ndi zomangiriza. Pokhala okhulupirika kuukwati, ndipo theka la iwo omwe adachita nawo kafukufuku amaganizira za chitetezo, 8% okha adanena kuti adayambapo ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana.
Kukambirana za zoyenera za amuna akuda kumayambitsa mtima wambiri mwa amayi ambiri. Malingaliro akuti anthu ochokera ku Africa ali mofulumira-apamwamba-amphamvu osati masewera a masewera okha, komanso ogonana, amatsimikiziridwa ndi ziwerengero pokhapokha. Ku mbali imodzi, Afirika amachita zosiyana siyana za kugonana ndipo ali okonzeka kuchita izo kulikonse: kuchokera pagalimoto kupita ku gombe, kuchokera ku klubwalo kupita ku chimbudzi cha anthu. Olemba dziko lonse lapansi kwa nthawi yonse ya kugonana anali a ku Nigeria omwe amachitira chikondi mosalekeza kwa mphindi 24. Komabe, "mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kutalika" imachitika nthawi zambiri: theka la anthu a m'dziko lino amagonana kamodzi pa sabata. Pa nthawi yomweyi, ndikulota madona aang'ono okongola, ndikuyenera kuzindikira kuti ambiri a ku Africa samaganizira za zotsatira zake ndipo samagwiritsa ntchito njira zotetezera.
Musanapite kumapeto kwa dziko lapansi mukufunafuna mnzanu wabwino, musaiwale kuti mawerengedwe abwino ndi ogulitsa. Munthu wamoyo sangayembekezere kuganizira ziwerengero za ziwerengero. Lingaliro la akatswiri a maganizo a maganizo ndilokhazikika: pamene zotsatira za zachilendo zimatha, mumamvetsa kuti alendo amasiyana ndi anthu a m'banja lawo moonekera kwambiri kuposa kugonana.