Pangani chidziwitso chodabwitsa cha chikondi si chovuta, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi chakuti ndizosadabwitsa. Inde, nthawi zina mumayenera kukhala oyamba, mwinamwake wosungulumwa adzakayikira ndi kupereka kwa dzanja ndi mtima, amayamikira moyo wake waufulu. Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti alibe chidwi ndi inu, chilengezo chanu chachikondi chidzasonyeza ngati kuli koyenera kupitiriza chiyanjano. Chinthu chachikulu - musachite mantha, ngakhale atanena kuti sakukukondani. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, simudzawononga nthawi yamtengo wapatali ndikuyamba kufunafuna wina yemwe akukuyamikirani.
Musanapange chilengezo chodabwitsa cha chikondi, choyamba mudziwe zomwe amakonda, zikhumbo zake zobisika. Pambuyo pa zonse, ngati mutagwa mu diso la ng'ombe, sakufuna kukutaya. Kulemba choko pa asphalt sikunapangidwe. Choyamba muyenera kusankha pa malo. Ngati wokondedwa wanu ndi wodzichepetsa, chikondi chachikondi, ndi bwino kulengeza chikondi mu malo achikondi, m'nkhalango, panyanja. Mutengeni iye ndi dzanja, kumukakamiza iye ndi kulankhula, kulankhula.
Ngati iye ndi munthu wokondana naye, amakonda kumudziwa, ndiye ukhoza kuzichita pagulu. Mwachitsanzo, mu lesitilanti mukhoza kuitanitsa nyimbo yomwe mumakonda komanso kuvomereza maganizo anu ku maikolofoni. Kuvomereza molimba mtima koteroko sikudzayamikiridwa ndi iye yekha, komanso ndi alendo onse a bungwe.
Musanayambe kuvomereza malingaliro anu, onetsetsani kuti mwamunayo ali wabwino, ngakhalenso mizimu yambiri, mwinamwake kudziwika kwanu kosangalatsa m'chikondi iye sakuyamikira. Ngati ali ndi dzino labwino komanso amakonda ayisikilimu, yikani ayisikilimu. Wokondedwa wa chokoleti akhoza kuyika mitima ya chokoleti m'thumba la jekete, kungowona kuti chovalacho chinali chabwino, mwinamwake dzanja losalidwa silidzamusangalatsa. Musati muzitha kuzindikira. Kuti atsimikizire maganizo ake pankhani ya chilakolako chake cha kugonana, avomereze kuti mumamukonda mukatha kugonana. Khalani osagwirizana, kuvomereza, ngati atakupatsani inu chisangalalo. Ndikhulupirire, iye adzasangalala kwambiri.
Kuzindikira mmawa mwachikondi ndi mawu okondwerera pa firiji kudzakweza maganizo ake, ngakhale kuti sanagone mokwanira. Mwa njira, mungathe kukonza masewera ang'onoang'ono ndi zolemba, koma muyenera kuphatikizapo malingaliro. Muyenera kutsimikiza kuti pamene mutapeza cholemba chimodzi, ayamba kuyang'ana wina, mpaka atapeza womaliza, zomwe zingamubweretsereni. Pankhaniyi, mukhoza kubisa zolemba ndi chigawo kapena kotala, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti wokondedwa wanu "alowe" mu masewerawo.
Chidziwitso chanu chachikondi chidzakweza siteji yatsopano mu ubale wanu. Chabwino, ndizomwe mungayesere malo ndi kudzizunza nokha ndi kukayikira? Yesetsani kuulula maganizo anu. Ljubit-amatanthauza iwe mwanjira yolondola, sunayesedwe kapena kuyamikira, amatanthauza izo sizomwe mukusiyana ndipo inu si zoyenera.
Chikondi ndikumverera komwe kumayenera kudyetsedwa nthawi zonse. Ngakhale mutakhala m'banja mwanthawi yaitali ndipo mwamuna wanu ali ngati wanu, musamangodzimvera. Ayenera kumverera kuti mumamukonda ndikumuyamikira. Mukudziwa mwamuna wanu bwino kuposa wina aliyense. Tangoganizani ngati ali wokonda mpira ndipo mukudziwa kuti amasangalala kupita ku masewerawo, koma sakufuna kutenga ndalama kuchokera ku bajeti ya banja, ndikumugulira tikiti ya masewera ndipo musangopereka chabe, koma ndi mawu achikondi, mukhoza kupanga chinachake chowala Kukulunga, kotero iye anatembenuka ndi kupuma.
Kapena mwinamwake iye akulota zokopa, zomwe mumzinda mwanu simugulitsa? Mumupatse iye chinthu ichi mu sitolo ya intaneti, perekani ndi mawu achikondi. Adzakunyamula m'manja mwake ndikuuza aliyense kuti ali ndi mkazi wozizira kwambiri.
Chikondi ndi kukondedwa!