Mudakumana ndi chaka chimodzi ndi mnyamata wina yemwe adakukondani. Inde, chirichonse sichikanakhala kanthu, koma pali "ntchentche mu mafuta a uchi" mu ubalewu, - wokondedwa samachedwa kuti apereke dzanja ndi mtima. Koma inu, osati kugona usiku, mumakhumba kugwirizanitsa tsogolo lanu ndi mwamuna uyu, kuti mukhale mkazi wake wovomerezeka, kukhala ndi ana ndi kukhala pamodzi moyo wanu wonse. Amayi ambiri sangathe kukwaniritsa cholinga chokwatirana, chifukwa sakudziwa kukonda mwamuna wawo. Kuti titsimikizire izi, tinasankha kukupatsani malangizo abwino, omwe mwinamwake mungapite ku guwa loyera.
Timapereka
Kotero, inu mukuwona mwamtheradi mu fano la mwamuna uyu wam'tsogolo wamwamuna, ndipo iye samatengepo njira iliyonse kuti agwirizanenso ndi inu mwaukwati, kotero inu mukuyenera kumudziwitsa iye kuti nthawi yafika pokweza funsolo pambali. Mu mkhalidwe uno, pali njira zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kuitanitsa kuti mwamuna azikhazikitsa tsiku la ukwati, ndipo mukhoza kupanga chilichonse chophimbidwa ndi kuvomereza kwa iye mukumverera kwanu ndi kunena za chikhumbo chokhala pamodzi moyo wautali ndi wokondwa. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, ndi bwino kufotokoza ngati zolinga zanu za m'tsogolo zimagwirizana ndi zolinga za wokondedwa wanu.
Timapitirira
Malingana ndi kafukufuku wa mabanja okwana 2,500 omwe anafunsidwa, amuna ambiri adanena kuti ali ndi ubale wautali ndi mkazi ndipo sangakhale mwamuna chifukwa chakuti nkhaniyi siimachokera kumbali yazimayi, koma ngati iwuka, yayandikira kwambiri. Nthawi zina amuna samvetsa mfundo, choncho mukhoza kuyesetsa. Tchulani kuti mumakonda phwando laukwati kapena mudzasangalala kwambiri ngati ukwatiwo udzachitika mu June, ndi zina zotero.
Timayika
Ngati chiyanjano chanu chafika pamapeto, mutha kukonda wokondedwa kukhala wokondedwa, ndikufunsani kwa iye. Monga chiwonongeko, mungathe kukhazikitsa zikhalidwe zake: kaya apanga ndondomeko ya dzanja ndi mtima, kapena mumagawana. Koma apa ndi koyenera kukumbukira kuti chiwonongeko choterechi chiyenera kuwonedwa mpaka mapeto. Musayese zoopseza apa chilichonse: ngati simunakwanitse kukwaniritsa chilichonse, muyenera kusunga mawu anu ndi gawo lanu.
Nthawi zonse muzinena "Inde"
Mukufuna wokondedwa kuti amupange mwamuna wake, amudziwe kuti pazomwe akufuna kukwatirana naye, mudzakhala womveka "Inde!". Izi zikhoza kuwonetsedwa mwanzeru pa zokambiranazo. Mwamunayo amatha kugonjetsa mantha omwe mungakane ndi "kudzuka".
Konzani molunjika
Mukufuna kuti muwone wokondedwa pa udindo wa mwamuna wake, mumusiye pansi kuyambira masiku oyambirira kufika pano. Njira yowonjezereka ikugwira ntchito pano. Kuyambira ndi kukambirana koyamba koyamba ndi mwamuna, fotokozani momveka bwino momwe mukuonera tsogolo lanu pafupi ndi iye. Pano inu mumvetsetsa - ngati wokondedwa wanu ali ndi mawonekedwe ofanana ndi inu. N'zotheka kuti ngati mwamunayo nthawi zambiri wakhala akuganiza zaukwati, adzakupatsani mwayi, ndipo ngati ali kutali ndi makhalidwe monga banja, mumakhululukidwa!
Tidzafufuza nthaka
Pankhani imeneyi, si awiriwa adagwirizana ndi guwa la nsembe, koma ena mwa iwo adatha kubweretsa chochitika chofunika kwambiri. Akatswiri a zamaganizo omwe akuphunzira bwino kuwerenga maganizo a anthu, samvetsetsa chifukwa chake kugonana kwabwino kumapangitsa kuti azifunsa mafunso osadziwika pa ndondomekoyi: "Mukuchita chiyani mtsogolo, ubale wathu?". Ngakhale kuti ziganizo zonse zoterezi zimangokhala zomveka zokakamiza munthuyo kuti achitepo kanthu mwamsanga: "Kodi mungatani kuti maubwenzi athu akhale ndi tsogolo?" Pamapeto pake, ngati mnzako akadakali "wobiriwira" pa chiyanjano chachiwiri chotchedwa "ukwati", mungagwiritse ntchito umboni wosiyana, mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wokwatiwa nthawi zonse amaoneka wochenjera, nthawi zonse amakhala wathanzi, wathanzi, ndi zina zotero. Bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito zosavuta izi, koma zovuta tsiku ndi tsiku zomwe wokondedwa wanu sangathe kutsutsana nazo!