Nambala ya nambala 1.
Pamene mwamuna ndi amene amalandira bwino mnyumbamo.
Ndizoopsa kuti ntchito ithawike, koma osati kupha, ndi kukakamizidwa mophweka, kuchitira ngati mtundu wa tchuthi. Panthawiyi, pumulani bwino, pitirizani kusamalira banja lanu ndi inu nokha, chifukwa maonekedwe anu adzangowonjezereka, mkhalidwe wanu udzasintha, ndipo mwamuna wanu adzakuyamikira ndikukhala wofatsa ndikumvetsera. Kodi uyu si chisangalalo cha mkazi?
Mwina mwana wanu ali ndi sukulu zabwino kusukulu, amuthandizeni kukonzekera, yesetsani kumusamalira kwambiri, chifukwa amalephera kugwira ntchito, chidwi chake ndi chinachake. Mwinanso ayenera kuchita masewero, nyimbo, funsani zomwe angafune ndikuyesera kumuthandiza momwe angathere.
Kuti ntchito yake ikhale yabwino zingakhale zabwino kuti aziphunzitsa. Kuti muchite izi, funsani wophunzira wanu, kotero kuti anali katswiri pantchito yake, ndipo angakuuzeni zomwe inu mukufuna kuti muchite. Mwinamwake, mkati mwathu tikukhala osakhutira ndi ntchito yake, ndipo kenako mkwiyo umawonjezeka pa chirichonse, kuphatikizapo banja. Muyenera kudzifotokozera nokha kuti mwa kusankha ntchito mwangolakwitsa, ndipo ndi nthawi yosintha kwa wina. Pamene palibenso kusintha malonda, bwanji osati pa nthawi imene simukukakamizidwa kuchita ntchito.
Chiwerengero cha nambala 2.
Pamene iwe unali wokha komanso waukulu kulandira m'banja lako.
Inde, pali mavuto ochulukirapo, koma musataye mtima. Kusintha kulikonse, izi ndi zabwino zokhazokha, zili zonse kwa inu. Choyamba, lembani pazomwe mukugwira nawo ntchito. Kwa kanthawi, mutha kusonkhanitsa zikalata, koma mudzalandira chaka chonse, kuthandizidwa kuchokera ku boma komanso kudzakuthandizani kukhala ndi moyo. Chiwerengero cha ndalamazo chimadalira mphoto pa ntchito yanu yomaliza kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yapitayi. Kaya zinali zotani, kupindula kwa ntchito sikungakhale kosiyana kwambiri ndi phindu lakale.
Masiku angapo akupumula ndikukonzekera kupeza ntchito. Lembani mwatsatanetsatane, zomwe zimasonyeza zonse zomwe mumadziwa kuchita, perekani zitsanzo za ntchito yanu mu mbiri yanu. Ganizirani za munthu yemwe angakupatseni malangizowo abwino pa ntchito yanu ndi patsikulo chonde tumizani mafoni a anthu awa. Kwa inu nokha, lembani mndandanda wa mabungwe omwe mungakonde kugwira ntchito ndipo tsiku lililonse mupita kukafunsa mafunso 1-3 mpaka mutapeza zomwe mukufuna.
Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, kusinthanitsa kumagwirizana ndi nkhani za ntchito yanu, simukusowa kukhumudwa. Ngati maudindo 10-15 aperekedwa kwa inu pa malonda, zomwe mudzapatsidwa, ndiye kuti mudzalangizidwa kuti musinthe mbiri yanu ya ntchito ndikupitiliza maphunziro anu phindu la kusinthanitsa. Kwa inu padzakhala mwayi wapadera wosintha moyo wanu kwaulere, kupeza ntchito ndikuchita chinachake, mwinamwake, zomwe munalota.
Koma zomwe simungathe kuchita ndi kupita kuntchito iliyonse kuti muzitha kubwezera pang'onopang'ono bajeti yanu, chifukwa palibe chomwe chimakhala chosatha kuposa kanthawi kochepa. Pambuyo pake, ngati mutapeza ntchito yosakondweretsa, ndiye kuti mumangodzimva chisoni tsiku ndi tsiku. Ngati mulibe ndalama, dziwani nokha ntchito zomwe sizidzasokoneza kupeza ntchito yosangalatsa. Ngati mukudziwa masamu kapena zilankhulo, perekani maphunziro apadera, ngati muli ndi malingaliro, kujambula kapena luso la mawu, chitani modzipereka. Tsopano, pali maubwenzi ambiri ogwira ntchito, ndipo mungapeze ntchito. Komanso mukhoza kugwirizana pa malamulo, kuyeretsa nyumba za anthu ena, kuphika, yesani, kuti ntchitoyi isachoke kwa inu kuposa maola 3-4 pa tsiku.
Pitirizani kufunafuna ntchito yanu, ngati n'kotheka, pitani kuphunziro pang'ono, izi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa nokha ndikudzidalira nokha. Onetsetsani, khala bata ndipo zonse zidzatha!