Zoopsa za chikondi patali

Iye ndi wanu enieni, maluwa akutsegulira mtima wanu, mukufuna kuyimba ndikufuula za chimwemwe chanu. Koma pano pali bvuto: iye yekha sangathe kuimba - amakhala mumzinda wina kapena ngakhale m'dziko lina. Kapena mwinamwake kumapeto ena a mzinda waukulu. Chifukwa chakuti simungathe kukangana ndi wokondedwa wanu, agawana chisangalalo ndi chisoni cha tsiku lapitalo, koma chifukwa chakuti sali pafupi, zokopa za paka ndi zowonongeka zili pamtima! Misonkhano ina imatha kusintha moyo wathu. Kodi ndinganene chiyani, ngati yemwe ali ndi malingaliro a chimwemwe chogwirizana amakhala moyo kutali! Ubale wotere ukhoza kukuthandizani kuganizira mozama za kusintha komwe simunakonze. Makhalidwe abwino
Chifukwa cha imelo, ma-e-mail, kulankhulana ku ICQ ndi Skype, maitanidwe amadzulo onse ali ndi chinyengo champhamvu chimene mumadziwa chirichonse! Kodi zinthu zikugwira ntchito bwanji pamoyo wake, ndizovuta ziti zomwe zimamudetsa nkhawa, ndani wa abwenzi ake ali ndi tsiku la kubadwa, zomwe zikukonzekera madzulo ... Komabe, mu zonsezi akhoza kuona wamkulu "koma": mu zolinga zake palibe. Ngakhale akunena kuti kutali ndi wokondedwa wake zonse sizili zokongola ndipo sizingakhale zosangalatsa. Mwinamwake, choncho, koma sizikupangitsa kukhala kosavuta kwa inu!

Mtsikana wotopayo akufuna kuti akhale naye: kuyenda, kugwira manja, kumva mawu ake, kumverera chizungulire ndi kupsompsona ndi kukumbatirana ... M'malo mwake, mumatha madzulo nokha, mumalota tsiku limene mukakumana. Mwayamba kuona kuti mumayang'ana nsanje pa banja losangalala, ndikupsompsonana ndi kukumbatirana pazitsulo zapansi panthaka. Zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri madzulo a tsiku la okondedwa onse: mumalota mozama mitima, mapepala a positi, zimbalangondo ndi zida zina zabwino zomwe akufuna kumupatsa. Ngati mutha kugwiritsabe ntchito tsiku lino palimodzi, ndiye chidzakhala chosaiŵalika chochitika! Koma ngakhale panthawi yabwino kwambiri, idzakhala losasunthika pamtima: Pambuyo pake, posachedwa munthu wokondedwa adzakuthawirani kwa makilomita ambiri, ndipo anzanu okhulupirika adzakhalanso foni ndi intaneti.

Samalani, nsanje!
Pali lingaliro lakuti chikondi chenicheni "patali" ndicho chokhalitsa kwambiri. Ngati wosankhidwayo amakhala pafupi, ndiye kuti mutayitanitsa nthawi makumi asanu ndikufunsani kumene akupita ndi yemwe, komanso chifukwa chake sanatenge naye pabwalo kapena kusewera mpira. Ndipo pakalipano, muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yoti muzinena chinthu chofunika kwambiri - zoipa zomwe zili ndi wina ndi mnzake. Kotero sizingatheke kuti mutha kuyamba kusonyeza kusakhutitsidwa. Ndipo kotero mgwirizano umawoneka wangwiro!

Koma inu mumasokonezedwa ndi ngozi, okonzeka pa nthawi iliyonse kuti mulekanitse mitima yanu, ndi nsanje. Kodi sanatchule tsiku limene munavomereza kapena simunatumize kalatayo nthawi? Mwinamwake mumakhala wina - mumaganiza mwamsanga ... Koma kukayikira ndi kunyozedwa kungathe kuwononga aliyense, ngakhale chikondi cholimba kwambiri.

Kuphatikiza apo, asayansi atsimikizira kuti munthu ayenera kulandira osachepera khumi ndi awiri omwe amamukhudza tsiku limodzi: mumatha kudula tsitsi lake, kumamatira mapewa ake, pang'onopang'ono kutenga dzanja lake, kukhudza tsaya lake ku nsapato zake ... Atatha kulandira gawo lofunika la chikondi, safuna kufufuza yake penapake pambali. Koma kodi angapirire mpaka liti pamene simukukhala? Posakhalitsa adzafunikira chikondi ndi chikondi. Ndipo panthawi ino bwino kuyesa kukhala pafupi naye.

Kuzindikira kwa wokondedwayo
Vuto lina ndilo lingaliro la wokondedwa. Pamene bwanayo amakhala kutali, ndipo kalendala ya misonkhano yanu imawerengedwa mu masabata, ngati si masiku, mutha kumaliza "chithunzi chowala" powapatsa makhalidwe omwe sali kwenikweni. Inu mukudandaula kwambiri, zomwe sizikutanthauza kuti wosankhidwayo anali woipitsitsa, ayi! Chithunzi chokha chokhazikitsidwa ndi malingaliro achichepere achikazi sichinagwirizane ndi zenizeni. Koma ngati mutayesa kuona makhalidwe abwino a wina ndi mzake, chimwemwe chanu chili bwino.

Kodi mwakonzeka kusuntha?
Nthaŵi zambiri, malo am'deralo amalepheretsa kwenikweni. Pambuyo pake, simungakhale nthawi zonse kuchokera kwa wokondedwa kwa mailosi kuchokera kwa iye. Posakhalitsa, ngati ubale wanu upulumuka pa mayesero awa, muyenera kubwereranso. Koma funso ndilo: Ndani angasunthire kwa ndani? Ngati mwamuna wanu akuwona chiyembekezo cha ubale wanu mumzinda mwanu - chabwino. Koma ngati muyenera kusamukira ku Russia? Kodi mwakonzeka kusintha moyo wanu wokhazikika ndikusamukira mumzinda umene simumawadziŵa kapena dziko lina? Pambuyo pake, mumudzi mwanu muli makolo, abwenzi, ntchito, ndipo muyenera kusamukira kumalo osadziwika, osadziwika ... Osati aliyense angathe kukhala pamalo atsopano, ngakhale ndi wokondedwa amene amapereka chithandizo chonse.

Koma mulimonsemo, yankho lolondola lingaperekedwe ndi mtima wanu. Koma ngati muli ndi tsogolo lanu pali munthu amene adasintha, amasangalala ndi zamatsenga ndipo yesetsani kuganiza za mavuto omwe angakhalepo! Chikondi chenicheni chidzayesa patali - monga china chirichonse.