Zonse zokhudza chikondi cha romance

Ine sindikulakwitsa, ndikuganiza kuti, inu nonse mukukumbukira zaka zachisangalalo zosangalatsa? Kumbukirani momwe zinalili zachilendo komanso zosasangalatsa kwa inu, ndipo zidakondwera pamene mnyamata wamaso a buluu kuchokera ku gulu lofanana adakhala patsogolo panu m'chipinda chodyera? Mwina mumakumbukira momwe mnzako wachikuda - wozunza pa desiki, nthawi zonse akulemba chinachake kuchokera kwa iwe, ndiye akumwetulira, ndipo panalibe nkhawa, M'malo mwake, chifukwa china ndinkafuna kutenga dzanja lake? Kodi mukukumbukira tsiku lanu loyamba ndi zomwe mwapeza poyamba? Kodi mukukumbukira zokhumudwitsa zanu zoyambirira ndi kusweka kwa mtima ku nyumba zam'mwamba? M'nkhaniyi tiyesa kupeza zonse zokhudza malemba ovomerezeka.

Inde, mukukumbukira. Ndili pabenchi yomwe timayamba kukonda nthawi yoyamba "njira yaikulu" ndipo nthawi yoyamba timalakwitsa akuluakulu. Kenaka, timakula kwathunthu ndikupita ku yunivesite, kumene kumakhala makalasi odzaza ophunzira timapezanso kapu ya ntchentche. Mwamtheradi palibe chodabwitsa chiri chakuti pambuyo pake, chikondi chimabwera kwa ife ndi kuntchito. Chitsanzo cha maubwenzi omwe tinayamba nawo pa benchi kusukulu ndikutumizidwa ku malo atsopano a kukhala kwathu.

Mu nthawi yathu yopenga, chikondi chachikondi sichirichilendo. Komanso, kaŵirikaŵiri amakhala njira zabwino kwambiri zopulumutsira ntchito zovuta m'nkhalango. Zolemba za utumiki ndi gawo lalikulu la moyo wa ofesi, monga makina a khofi, kapena phwando la mgulu. Olemba ntchito ambiri akhala akuzindikira kuti kuletsa chikondi cha ofesi ndi ntchito yopanda ntchito. Amene akudziwa, mwinamwake iwo ndi ofunikira kuti akhale ndi microclimate yachibadwa mkati mwa kampani. Anthu amavutika kuti adziŵe mnzawo wodzakwatirana naye kuntchito kusiyana ndi malo ena.

Makanema ambiri kuntchito samabweretsa aliyense vuto. Imeneyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yosiyanitsira nokha masiku ogwira ntchito. Komabe, kuyambika kwa chikondi muutumiki, kungakuthandizeni kutali ndi zotsatira zabwino. Sikoyenera kusakaniza maubwenzi amodzi ndi zochitika zadzidzidzi mulu umodzi. Izi zimakhala bwino kuti mutengere wina ndi mzake, kuti pakapita nthawi, pamene zilakolako zikutha, kuntchito, mutha kuthana ndi vutoli ndikukhala moyo.

Chinsinsi cha kupambana kwa "buku lothandizira" ndilo "kugawa ndi kugonjetsa," kaya mungathe kupirira kamodzi ndi ntchito komanso ndi ubale wanu.

Ndi bwino kusunga malamulo ophweka. Choyamba, yang'anani zomwe mungasankhe m'tsogolomu: kaya mumamukonda mokwanira, ndiyani, mungathe kumukhulupirira.

Pomaliza, munasankha pa sitepe yoyamba - ndiye chitani zosavomerezeka ndipo, ndithudi, mudzipatule "kuchoka". Mukhoza kuitanira mnzanu kuti mukamwe khofi panthawi yopuma, kapena kuwaitanani kuti azigawana nawo kumapeto kwa masiku asanu akugwira ntchito.

Ziribe kanthu momwe izo zikumveka, koma khalani anzeru. Poyambirira pachiyambi. Palibe miseche pa nkhani ya tsiku lanu ndipo makamaka "kusaka", kukumbatirana ndi kukupsompsona ku ofesi ikuletsedwanso. M'kupita kwa nthawi, pewani mfundo yakuti ogwira nawo ntchito mwamsanga kapena mtsogolo, koma phunzirani kuti muli pamodzi. Ngati inu simungayambe kuyankhula miseche, ndiye chidwi chokhudza ubale wanu, pamapeto, chidzatha.

Musati muwuze nkhani zanu kuti zisonkhezere chidwi chanu. Pankhaniyi, idzawonongeka mwachilengedwe masabata angapo pambuyo pa maonekedwe - ndizoti anzanu akubwera ndi nthawi yodabwitsa ya miseche yawo.

Fotokozani mwachidule yankho la funso: "Chikondi cha ofesi: chabwino kapena choipa" sichingatheke, monga momwe ziliri ndi vuto lina lililonse la maubwenzi a anthu. Ngati simugwera mu zovuta zosiyanasiyana za nthawi iyi, ndiye kuti izi ndi zachibadwa komanso zachilengedwe. Ziri kwa inu kuti muone ngati n'kovomerezeka kufunafuna chikondi chanu kuntchito kapena ayi.