Mutakhala pamodzi kwa zaka zingapo, mudutsa nthawi ya chipatso cha pasitelanti ndipo mumakhala ndi ubale wa tsiku ndi tsiku, "bytovuha." Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya mumakhala m'banja lachikwati, mu mgwirizano wa banja lalamulo kapena padera, chodabwitsa ichi sichitha kupewa.
Kodi ndi chani chomwe chiri pansi pa mawu oopsya awa? Tiyeni tiyese kuyerekezera maukwati a tsiku ndi tsiku: Amayeretsa, amatsuka mbale, amachotsa zinthu zake ndipo amafuna kuti abwerere kwa iye, nayenso ali ndi udindo kapena amamugulitsa mwachikondi ("wokondedwa, Ndikufunika malaya atsopano / jekete / chipewa ..."). Iye, akudzilungamitsa yekha ponena kuti sutra wa woperekayo akugwira ntchito ndipo amabweretsa zochuluka zomwe amapeza ku banja, akupitiriza kufalitsa masokosi ake ndi kuti asachepetse chivindikiro cha mbale ya chimbudzi. Pali kusamvana.
Moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ukhozanso kuthandizira moyo wa kugonana. Ngati mnyamata ali ndi mtsikana sakudziwa kuyesera pabedi ndipo tsiku lililonse ali ndi nehodnoobrazny, kugonana kosasangalatsa, mmodzi wa zibwenzi akhoza kutopa. Pa zabwino kwambiri, madzulo amatha ndi mawu akuti "tiyeni tangogona pansi", pakuipa, kusintha.
Chizindikiro choyamba chimene chiyanjano chanu chasunthira ku mlingo wa "banja" - kukwiya mu zinthu zazing'ono. Mwachitsanzo, amakwiyitsa ndikudandaula ndi mwamuna wabwino chifukwa chakuti amatha kuyang'ana pagalasi kutsogolo kwa kutuluka, ngakhale kuti palibe phokoso. Zhuzhutko wake amamukwiyitsa usiku wake kapena masewera ake patebulo. Ndipo samabisala madandaulowa, koma, mosiyana, amasonyeza maganizo awo pa wina ndi mzake.
Wina akhoza kufotokoza kuti bytovuha ndi kukana kuganiza za wina kupatula nokha, mtundu wodzikonda pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Ngati mumadziwa zochitika zomwe zafotokozedwa pamwambapa - muyenera kuchita mofulumira!
Kodi mungapewe bwanji chiganizo?
- Romantika. Dzikumbukire nokha pachiyambi cha chiyanjano. Mnyamata wamanyazi sakudziwa kuti ndi mbali yanji yomwe angapite kwa mkazi wokongola, amayesera kumukondweretsa iye ndi chonde. Ndiye bwanji osakonza zokondana kapena osapita ku mafilimu kuti azisangalala? Yesetsani kumukonzera zodabwitsa: konzani mbale yomwe mumakonda, azikongoletsera nyumba ndi maluwa ndi makandulo, kuvala chovala chovala, ndikudikirira wokondedwa wanu kuntchito. Zoipitsitsa sizidzatero.
- Kugawa ntchito. Ngati mutakhala kale limodzi, aliyense m'nyumba ayenera kudziwa bwino zomwe ayenera kuchita komanso tsiku lomwelo la sabata. Ndikofunika kuti pakhale ufulu wofanana ndi wofanana ndi mwayi wamthupi. Mukhoza kulembetsa ndi kupachika pa firiji, mwachitsanzo, ndi ndani komanso pamene zitsamba zimatsukidwa.
- Perekani nthawi kwa anzanu. Kamodzi pa sabata mukhoza kukonza mpumulo wina ndi mzake ndikupitiliza kuyenda ndi anzanu akale. Mulole amwe mowa ndi olima pa mpira, ndipo mumayendayenda m'masitolo ndi anzanu.
- Zosangalatsa zamakono. Ngati, ndithudi, pali nthawi yokwanira ya izi, lembani zoga, kujambula, kusambira. Variantsmass. Chinthu chachikulu - musayimire, pitirizani, pita patsogolo ndipo musalowerere m'moyo wa banja.
- Zogonana zosiyanasiyana. Yesetsani, musaope kuchita zomwe simunayeserepo. Bedi ndi malo owonetsera awiri. Sewani ndi maudindo omwe mumakonda. Adzadabwa kwambiri.
Njira zomwe zingasinthire maubwenzi ovuta kwambiri, zambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndi kusalola manja anu, musataye mtima, ndikudzipangitsani nokha m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Dzikani bwino ndipo mudzawona momwe zinthu zonse zikuyendera kusintha. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhulupirira nokha!