Ukapolo wa Ntchito
Akatswiri ambiri a zaumoyo akhala akuganizira za kuwonongeka kwa mabanja okondwa chifukwa chakuti mmodzi mwa okwatirana ali opambana mu ntchito yake. Pali malingaliro awiri pa nkhaniyi.
Akatswiri ena amavomereza kuti kupambana kwa amai kumatsutsana. Azimayi, amene malipiro awo amaposa amuna, "amangopweteka misozi." Zofunikira ndizosiyana pa mutu wakuti "Ndipeza zambiri ndipo ndili ndi ufulu wofuna". Mapangidwe apamwamba pa ntchito, monga lamulo, amachititsa munthu kukhala wotsimikiza, wodalirika ndi wofunira. Koma palinso miyala yamadzimadzi - kupindula kumadzitukumula, kudzikuza, kudzikonda. N'chifukwa chake akatswiri a zaumoyo ali ndi chidaliro kuti ubongo ndi kudzikweza kwa amayi ndi zazikulu kuposa za kugonana kolimba. Chiwonetsero cha kupambana kwawo kwa amuna chiri mu mizu yakuya ya chikazi.
Kugwirizana kuli kofunika pa chirichonse. Kusonkhezeredwa ndi zochitika za amayi sikuti aziimba mlandu. Sichifukwa chabe cha kaduka, koma ntchito imeneyi yakhala tanthauzo la moyo. Tiyeni tiyang'ane zizindikiro zazikulu zomwe akunena kuti amaulula ntchito yawo monga akapolo.
Kumverera kuti ndi wapamwamba kwa ena. Ndine katswiri ndipo ndimanyada nazo, ndipo kuzungulira zonse ndizopusitsa.
Ntchito iliyonse yosagwirizana ndi ntchito ndikuwononga nthawi. Usiku wokondana ndi wokondedwa wanu, nthawi yokondweretsa ndi abwenzi - mumalingaliro anu kusokoneza nthawi. Ichi ndi chopunthwitsa chimene muyenera kuchichotsa popanda kusokoneza ntchito yanu.
Pa pempho la wokondedwa wanu kuphika chakudya, mukuwuza khasu kuti simunabadwe kuti muime pa chitofu. Cholinga chanu ndi kufika pamwamba. Ndipo kubadwa kwa mwana kudzakuchititsani kukhala "gulu lakumudzi".
Kuchita zamakhalidwe ndi ntchito yanu nthawi zonse. Chizindikiro chachikulu cha ukapolo wa ntchito ndi chikhalitso chokhalitsa chomwe mumalandira kuchokera ku zochitika zanu. Etayefory ngakhalenso wapamwamba kwambiri kuposa kupanikizika kosalekeza kwa kusokonezeka kuntchito.
Ndipo, potsiriza, choletsedwa kwambiri -iwe, kugona pansi pa phewa la munthu wokondedwa, pambuyo pa chakudya chamasewero chapamwamba, taganizirani ntchito yako yokha!
Sungani Zomwe Mumakhulupirira
Taganizirani izi, koma ngati ndinu mmodzi mwa amayi omwe ali okonzeka kusiya moyo wawo chifukwa cha ntchito zawo. Nthawi zonse mumatsindika kufunika kwa ntchito yanu, koma kufooka kwanu kumasonyeza kusakhutitsidwa kwanu potsatira ntchito yanu. Mwinamwake, mwamunayo akutsogoleredwa ndi nthano zomwe zimafalitsidwa m'bwalo lamwamuna la ntchito ya Ozhensky. Choncho, ngati chigwirizano cha zomwe mukuchita mu chiyanjano chimasokoneza, muyenera kuwulula maso anu omwe mumakonda ndikuwona zochitika zonsezi.
Nthano yoyamba. Mayi weniweni sayenera kukwera pamwamba payekha.
Malingana ndi akatswiri a maganizo, chisankho choyamba m'moyo wa woimira zachiwerewere m'zaka 16. Panthawi imeneyi, mkazi amasankha kuti akhale mkazi komanso amamvetsetsa motsatira mapazi a mtsogoleriyo, kapena amapereka chisankho kwa umunthu wake ndi kupambana kwake. Iye amapanga banja, ali ndi ana, omwe amakula kenako, ndipo malinga ndi kutalika kwake ndi chisa cha banja, mkaziyo amadziperekanso kugwira ntchito. Ngati mkazi amasiyana ndi malingaliro abwino ndi luso, ndiye kuti posachedwa zidzakhalanso njira ya kudzidzimvera.
Nthano yachiwiri. Akazi sangakhale atsogoleri .
Ndipotu, mayiyo ali ndi njira zogwira mtima, koma osati zowononga, zomwe zimapangitsa ena kuwongolera, motero amayi, monga lamulo, amayendetsa popanda kuponderezana, zomwe zimapindulitsa kwambiri kuti zitha kukhazikitsidwa. Momwemo zimathandizira kutsegula mosavuta. Mmene anthu amachitira pochita zachiwerewere ndi zachilendo. Zimagwiritsa ntchito njira yosakhala yachikhalidwe, yomwe imaphatikizapo malo ake kukhala okongola ndikukwaniritsa chikondi chonse ndi kukopa kupambana.
Nthano yachitatu. Azimayi ali ndi nzeru zokwanira kuti apindule kwambiri pazochita zamalonda.
Zaka zoposa khumi kuti mudziwe kuti angathe kuchita ntchito inayake amagwiritsidwa ntchito kugwiritsa ntchito coefficient ya aykju. Monga lamulo, mu gawo lachimuna chiwerengero ichi ndi chapamwamba.Koma lero, aykju ndi yochepa kwambiri kwa ecu -yiyi yokwanira yamaganizo. Malingana ndi asayansi, palibe nzeru imodzi yomwe ingakhoze kufika pamwamba, kukwera mmwamba mmwamba pa ntchito yake mpaka pamwamba pake. Kawirikawiri, kulephera kuntchito sikugwirizana ndi akatswiri odziwa kulemba, koma kukhala osakhwima mu ndondomeko yamalingaliro. Izi ndi nzeru zamaganizo zomwe zimakhudza mwachindunji kulingalira kwa munthu. Ndipo ndi ecu yomwe ili chofunikira kwambiri lero. Mfundo zazikuluzikulu zingathe kuonedwa kuti ndi zofewa, chidziwitso, chithumwa, luntha, kuwona mtima, chifundo, kutseguka, chipiriro. Monga momwe mwaonera, akatswiri onsewa ali ndi ubwino wokondana. Kotero, ndani angatsutsane ndi mfundo yakuti tsogolo ndi la amayi!
Nthano yachinayi. Banja ndi ntchito ziri ziwiri zotsutsana kwambiri ndi tanthawuzo komanso tanthauzo la lingaliro.
Anthu ambiri amadandaula kuti mu moyo wa mkazi weniweni, ntchito siyeneranso kugwira ntchito yofunikira. Pambuyo pake, maziko a moyo wa mkazi ndi nyumba, banja, ana. Inde, zonsezi zili ndi lingaliro, koma sitiyenera kuiwala zolinga za amayi. Amuna ambiri amaopa lingaliro lakuti mkazi akuyesera kupatsa mwana, pakuti palibe chimene chingafanane ndi chimwemwe cha ntchito yabwino. Mwanayo, monga lamulo, akhoza kupangitsa moyo wa katswiri kukhala wopweteka kwambiri wa anyani ndi mapira, motero amamupanga mkazi wamkazi, osati mkazi wamalonda wabwino. Koma mfundo yonse ndi yakuti amayi amawunikira ntchito osati munthu wovuta. Kwa mkazi, kudzizindikira yekha ndi kuchita zomwe iye amakonda, ndizapamwamba kuposa china chirichonse.
Nthano yachisanu. Onse a workists ali ouma .
Zoona, nthano iyi ili ndi ufulu wamoyo, koma pokhapokha ngati pali mwamuna wotayika pafupi ndi mkazi, yemwe mkaziyo akuyesera kutsimikizira mlandu wake.
Mabungwe angapo oyang'anira kukonza mutu
Kukula kwa ntchito sikusokoneza ubale m'banja sizingatsutse munthu ndi ntchito yake pansi. Simukusowa kusonyeza kuti mumanyansidwa ndi ntchito zanu zapakhomo kapena kupereka nthawi yanu yopuma pantchito. Ndipo potsiriza, sikofunika kuchepetsa mitu yonse yolankhulirana ku zochitika zanu, musiyeni munthuyo amve ndikukhala mtsogoleri mu ubale wanu!