Nthawi zina pakupita patsogolo kwa ntchito, sititetezedwa chifukwa cha kusowa ndi kukonda kwa utsogoleri, koma ndi zolakwa zathu zomwe timachita tsiku ndi tsiku. Sitikudziwa kuti pamene mukuyankhula ndi anzanu pa foni, mukhoza kumangokhalira kulira, ndikulirapo, kuti mutsimikizire kuti muli ndi vuto lolephera. Ofesiyo ndi mtundu wa nkhalango momwe munthu ayenera kukhala ndi moyo malinga ndi malamulo omwe akukhazikitsa.
1. Misozi ya ng'ona
Misozi ya mkazi - chinthu chachilendo. Munthu aliyense amawakonda mwa njira zosiyanasiyana, zomwe zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe ena amatha kukukondani pamene mukulira, pamene ena akuwona misozi ikukwiyitsa ndikutaya mtima pang'ono.
Kuwerengera ponena kuti anzako komanso makamaka bwana amachitira khalidwe loyamba, makamaka osapindulitsa. N'zoona kuti pali zinthu zina zomwe sizingatheke kukhala ndi madontho a mchere omwe amatuluka m'maso. Makamaka pankhani ya kusalungama komwe kunachitika mu ofesi, mavuto a wokondedwa wanu, amene mosayembekezereka pakati pa tsikulo anakusokonezani ndi zomwe akunena. Mukulira? Chabwino, dikirani chitonthozo kuchokera kwa anzako sichiyenera. Kuli bwino kubisala mu chipinda cha azimayi, kenaka konzetsani maonekedwe osungunuka ndipo, mutabwerera kuntchito, pepepesa. Inde, munthu sayenera kusiya misonzi kukhala nkhanza ndi ukali, anzake, ngakhale ngati ali olakwa, kukhalabe anzanu, osati abwenzi.
2. Winawake amagwira ntchito
Pamene tipeze ntchito, maudindo athu kwa abwana amatchulidwa momveka bwino. Podziwa izi, mukhoza kulongosola bwino ntchito izi kapena zinthu pakati pa wogwira ntchito aliyense. Inde, patapita nthawi, kuntchito, tili ndi abwenzi kapena anzathu enieni amene nthawi zina amapempha thandizo pa nkhani inayake. Inshuwaransi ya mnzako ndi chitsanzo chabwino cha ziyeneretso zanu za utsogoleri. Musaiwale kuti, nthawi zonse mukutola ntchito zazing'ono za anthu ena, mungayambe kukwaniritsa zochepa zawo - musangokhala ndi nthawi. Choncho musathamange kukweza dzanja lanu ndikuthandiza aliyense. Tengani ntchito zokhazo, zomwe mutha kukwanitsa zomwe mudzayamikira. Zoonadi, zikhoza kukhala zovuta, zovuta kwambiri, koma masewerawa ndi ofunikira kandulo. Apo ayi mutakhala pansi pa khosi lanu, kuika miyendo yanu pansi ndikuyendetsa galimoto. Kodi mukufunikira izi?
3. Kudikira
Kudikirira zotsatira zabwino kuchokera kwa abwana ndi chinthu choipa. Izi zikukhudzana ndi kutamanda, kuonjezera, ndi kuonjezera malipiro. Musati dikirani kuti muzindikire, koma yesetsani. Mwa njira, ndizotheka komanso mwachidziwitso kuti agogomeze zomwe apindula. Choncho musazengereze kukopeka, kudziwa momwe mungalankhulire ndi kulemekeza ndi anzanu, musakane kapena kukana luso lanu ndi khama lanu.
4. Za ukazi wokongola
Musamadzichepetse nokha ndi anzako. Choyamba, chifukwa anthu safunikira kudziwa kuti muli ndi ufa wokwanira kwa mwezi umodzi, nsidze zanu zimakopeka, ndipo milomo yanu imatulutsa mphepo yozizira kwambiri. Amuna monga momwe amazindikirira kuti amayi okongola samafunikira tani yokongola, ndipo kuyang'ana mnzawo yemwe amatsogolera marathon angagwedeze dziko lonse lapansi. Inde, ndipo mwangwiro umunthu ndizosavomerezeka, koma mwadzidzidzi pakati pa anthu ozungulira chidwi chanu mukuvomereza kuti wadzuka?
5. Pakati pathu, atsikana
Bungwe lirilonse liri ndi miseche yake, ndipo, ziribe kanthu momwe mukuyesera, izo sizichoka. Kuti muzimva pang'ono za mphekesera, mwachibadwa, muyenera kupereka zifukwa zochepa. Mwachitsanzo, moyo wanu ndi ubale wanu ndi akulu anu. Moyo wokhala ndi moyo wokhazikika umakhala wokondweretsa nthawi zonse ... Yesetsani mofulumira ndi anzanu kuti mupeze ubale pa foni, afotokozereni mnzanu, chibwenzi, makolo anu malingaliro anu pa moyo, makamaka ngati akutsutsa. Zoonadi, musabise kuti muli ndi mwamuna, mkwati kapena mnyamata. Izi zidzakupatsani moyo osati zokambirana zokha komanso zomwe mukuganiza chifukwa chake mukubisala chinachake, koma sizingakhale zosangalatsa kwa theka lanu lachiwiri.
6. Ubale ndi bwana
Novels kuntchito, kapena chipatso choletsedwa ndi chokoma. Bwana wabwino, wosungulumwa sali chifukwa chokakamiza. Kawirikawiri pali zifukwa pamene maubwenzi otere amathera ndiukwati, osati ndi mitima yosweka, kuthamangitsidwa kapena zowonongeka.
7. Aliyense sakonda
Izi ndi zoona. Zabwino kwa onse mu moyo simudzatero, ndipo pakagwiritsidwe ntchito malamulo omwewo akugwira ntchito. Malangizo anu nthawi zonse sadzakondeka ndi wina, muyenera kupirira ndi kupitiliza. Aliyense amayesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zake padziko lapansi. Choncho muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungasankhire nokha, osapempha malangizo ndipo musapemphe thandizo. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi udindo pa ntchito yathu ndipo ayenera kuchita bwino.
8. Masenti asanu
Musayese kuyika masentimita asanu pafunso lirilonse. Sitikudziwa nthawi zonse yankho lake ndipo sikuti nthawi zonse timaligwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru. Musayesetse kutenga gawo kulikonse. Koma nthawi zina amaika mawu atatu akhoza kukuyimira ngati munthu wololera komanso wanzeru - pakali pano, lankhulani momveka bwino, osati mofulumira, popanda zidziwitso zosafunika ndi zosafunikira kwenikweni.
9. Misonkhano
Pamene oyang'anira amaika msonkhano, msonkhano kapena msonkhano umene muyenera kukhala nawo, musanyalanyaze zomwe zinachitika. N'zotheka kuti akusonkhanitsireni, mwachitsanzo, kuti akambirane milandu yomwe mukuchita, kapena kungokambirana zinthu zofunika pa gulu. Chitani mwakhama ndipo, ngati kuli koyenera, lembani. Ndikhulupirire, zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa ndi zothandiza zikhoza kunenedwa pamsonkhano. Musati muthamangire, musalankhule za zinthu zomwe sizili zoyenera, ndi kutseka foni.
Pomalizira tikufuna kuwonjezera: kusunga malo anu ogwira ntchito, yesetsani kuchedwa ndi kukhala ndi chidwi ndi ntchito, ndipo ngati mutayambitsa mkangano, nthawi zonse mukhale ndi umboni wosonyeza kuti muli ndi ufulu - pambuyo pake, iwo ndi mbali zothandizira.