Amuna ndi zolengedwa zodabwitsa! Iwo sangapeze masokosi awo kwa maora, koma iwo amatha kuyendetsa bwino mu mulu wa zigawo za magalimoto, atayikidwa mu garaja. Amayiwala za tsiku lathu lobadwa, koma kumbukirani kulembedwa kwa zochitika zonse za "Star Wars". Kodi chizoloŵezi chachilendo cha amuna chimatanthauza chiyani akazi okwiyitsa? Kodi mungachite nawo bwanji? Ndipo kodi ndizoyenera?
Kukwiya kumakula
Mukayamba chibwenzi ndi munthu, simungadziwe zizoloŵezi zake, kapena mumaziwona kuti ndizokongola. Bwanji ponena kuti amasonkhanitsa zigawo zosungiramo zoperekera galimoto pokhapokha ngati atasweka, ndikuyang'ana momwe amachitira pochapa nthawi zambiri amasangalatsa. Koma m'kupita kwa nthawi, malingaliro a "zizindikiro" zomwezo zimasintha kwambiri. Makamaka panthawi iliyonse mukamapanga zitsulo za suede za mulu wa zinthu mumsewu wa makina. Ndipo atangolowa kusamba, wokondedwayo atadumphadumpha, mwadzidzidzi akulowa pang'onopang'ono ndipo mwadabwa mumapeza kuti makoma, denga, makatani, galasi, masamulo ndi chovala chokongoletsedwanso amatsukidwa ndi madzi, ndipo apa ndi apo ndi thovu lokusambira. "Mulungu, ndikulumpha bwanji!" - Ganizirani kapena kukufunsani ndikuyamba kuphika mnzanu chifukwa chakuti ... adasamba yekha. Ndi momwe adzakufotokozereni nkhanza zanu. Kumvetsetsa, nthawi zonse ankatsuka, ndipo mudakhutira ndi zotsatira zake - thupi lake loyera, ndipo tsopano simunamvere zotsatira zomwezo ndipo "mumamatira". Amuna oterewa amatsutsana ndi malingaliro omwe sangamvetsetse, omwe sangathe kutsatiridwa, ndipo amachitanso chimodzimodzi. Nthawi yotsatira mubwereranso kwa iye chifukwa cha "kusefukira mu chipinda chosambira", mobwerezabwereza, ndipo amasiya kusamba nkomwe. Kapena amapita ndi abwenzi ku bathhouse ndipo amabwerera mmawa basi. Kapena amasonkhanitsa katundu wake ndikupita kwa amayi ake, bwenzi lake, mkazi wina. Chifukwa chake ndi chikhalidwe chanu chosemphana kwambiri ndi kusalankhulana kwachiyero kwa ukhondo wake.
Chizolowezi ndi matenda
Chowonadi ndi chakuti zizolowezi zomwe zimakwiyitsa kwambiri akazi sizomwe zimakhala zovuta koma osati zochita zina zoipa za kusamvera. Monga akatswiri a zamaganizo amati, izi ndizo zowonongeka za njira zomwe zimakhalira, zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wina zimakhala zofunikira. Kwenikweni, chizolowezi chakale chiri kale gawo la khalidweli, ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri kuchotsa izo mwa kufuna kwanu kapena gulu lanu panthawi yomweyo. Zili zovuta mofanana ndi kusiya kusuta, ndipo phunzirani kuti muyenera kukulunga kapu mu chubu la mankhwala a mano, tambani chivindikirocho mu botolo ndi shampo mutachigwiritsa ntchito. Ndipo chifukwa cha izo, ndipo kwa ena, munthu ayenera kukhala ndi mphamvu ndi chikhumbo chofuna kusintha.
Koma mnzanuyo adzakhala ndi zosowa zotere kapena ayi, m'njira zambiri zimadalira inu. Tiyerekeze kuti ali ndi chizolowezi choponya zinthu zake. Mumamuuza mobwerezabwereza, amamupempha kuti aike zinthu pamalo ake, ndipo akuusa moyo mwachidwi, iwowo amaika zinthu mwadongosolo, koma zonse sizinapindule.
Dontho lomaliza
Inde, kulekerera kwanu kuyenera kukhala ndi malire. Ngati akufuna kutenga chidutswa chotsiriza kuchokera pa mbale m'firiji, ndikuzisiya opanda kanthu apo, dinani pa TV yotsegula kwa maola awiri, kudumpha kuchokera pa kanjira kupita ku kanema, ndiyeno nkulengeza kuti "pali mura umodzi pa TV," ndipo amagona kufa, akuwombera ozizira, ndi Izi zingathe kugwirizanitsidwa ndikugwirizana ndi kusintha kwina. Ndipo chinthu china, ngati zizoloŵezi za wokondedwa zili pafupi ndi kusayeruzika: amagwedeza phulusa mumsana womwe mumawakonda, kumathamangira, kugonana, kugona mu nsapato zake pabedi ndi kumangokhalira kukankhira galu wanu. Zikatero, simukufunikira kudalira mphatso yanu yachilendo yophunzitsa - sizikuwoneka kuti mudzatha kuphunzitsanso dork. Ndipo musayembekezere kuti adzikonze yekha, chifukwa alibe cholimbikitsa chachikulu - chikondi ndi ulemu kwa inu.
Ndiuzeni za zizoloŵezi zake, ndipo ndikuuzani yemwe ali
Ndipotu, ndi zizoloŵezi ndi zochita za wokondedwa wanu, simuyenera kumenyana kapena kulolerana. Ayenera kuzindikiridwa, makamaka mwamsanga, ndikuganiza. Pambuyo pake, zizoloŵezi zimakonda kusonyeza khalidwe la wokonda kwambiri kuposa mawu ake komanso zochita. Chabwino, mwachitsanzo ...
• Idya, ngati kuti nthawi yoyamba pamoyo wake. Kuthamanga mofulumira pa zakudya zilizonse, zomwe zimadya chakudya, pafupifupi popanda kutafuna.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Munthu wotereyo amatha kuganiza mosiyana, osati kusinthanitsa tsatanetsatane ndi kusasanthula zikhalidwe. Kugonana kwanu kudzakhala kozolowereka, koma osati zachiwerewere; zinthu ndi zabwino, koma sizinapangidwe; chakudya ndi chopatsa thanzi; maubwenzi ali okhazikika, koma osati okongola. M'mawu ake, odalirika, koma osangalatsa mtundu, odzipereka kwa banja ndi inu. Komabe, mwinamwake akuvutika ndi kukwera msanga.
• Musamangomanga zitsulo kumapeto, osatseka zitseko kapena zivindi pamitsuko ndi shampoo kapena kirimu.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Zimakhulupirira kuti anthu omwe amayendayenda nthawi zonse kuchokera pamphepete, mphamvu sizimawonekera. Amuna amenewa amakangana zambiri, koma samachita chirichonse; ndikulingalira zogwirira ntchito zachuma ndikuwotcha nthawi zonse. Amakonda kulonjeza nthawi zonse chinachake, koma musatero. Iwo amakonza mwangwiro chinachake, koma zolinga zawo sizidzakwaniritsidwa. Amuna amenewa ali ngati mitsuko ya sopo. Maganizo amayamba ngati osachoka pang'onopang'ono komanso mwamsanga, osasiya kanthu.
• Popanda kuganiza, amatenga komanso amadya mkate wotsiriza, makandulo kuchokera mu bokosi, chodutswa kuchokera ku frying pan.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Wodzikonda, wosakwatiwa, osayeseranso kuti amakuganizirani. Chinthu chokha chimene chimamudera nkhawa ndicho chitonthozo chake ndikhazikika. Ndipo musamafune zamatsenga kuti muzimuphunzitsa mwachisomo ndi chiyero. Amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito kudzikuza kwa ena ndipo adzalandira kwa inu madalitso ndi zopereka, osapereka kanthu. Musasokoneze nthawi ndi malingaliro anu pa iye - sangayamikire.
• Sikutaya chilichonse. Chilichonse chimalowa m'matumba ndi mabokosi, kumayendayenda m'makona - mwadzidzidzi amapezeka mosavuta! Ngakhale kuwotcha njuvu - zidzakhala zofunikira ngati mukukonzekera sock. Ndi zonsezi, mwamsanga amaiwala za chuma chake ndipo kenako amaweruziratu phiri lonse la zinyalala.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Zhmot, nthawizonse akuyang'ana komwe angagule mabakiteriya angapo otchipa, kapena kuyembekezera kuti mankhwalawa agwe mtengo. Kuwononga "maganizo" kumakondanso kuvomereza chikondi ndi mayamiko osiyanasiyana omwe simungamve kuchokera kwa iye. Iye samva chithumwa cha pakali pano, moyo umayimilira mtsogolo: "mawa adzawoneka", "m'mawa ndi anzeru kuposa madzulo", "asanakhalebe ndi moyo."
• Sumalekerera chisokonezo ndi zochepa chabe za chisokonezo. Amasintha nthawi zonse matabwa a khitchini kuti apachikike mozungulira, kunyalanyaza, kunyalanyaza zovala zawo.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Iye ndi woyipa kwambiri ndipo ali wodetsedwa mu chirichonse. Ndithudi mu zolemba zake zonse zinalembedwa zomwe ayenera kuchita kwa chaka chimodzi, kuphatikizapo chiwerengero cha kugonana. Pamene chirichonse chikupita molingana ndi ndondomeko yake - iye ndi wokondwa, koma ngati chinachake chisanachitike, amayamba kugwidwa maganizo. Kukhala ndi munthu woteroyo ndi kosamvetseka ndipo nthawi zina kumawopseza.
• Koperani kosatha mabatani omwe ali kutali ndi TV.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Pamene akunena, ndikukhala mofulumira, ndikumva mofulumira. Komabe, munthu woteroyo amatha kugwira bwino kwambiri. Iye ndi wamphamvu, wogwira ntchito, amatenga mbali yogwira ntchito pamoyo. Komabe, sakudziwa momwe angaganizirepo kanthu kwa nthawi yayitali, choncho, monga lamulo, akugwira ntchito yolenga. Ali ndi chizoloŵezi chokhala ndi ubongo ndi zovuta.
• Amakonda kuwerengera mabuku ojambula m'maganizo ndi kusewera masewera a pakompyuta.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Mwinamwake, iye ndi wolota ndi chikondi mu kusamba. Mwina iye sakhutira ndi moyo wake wamakono komanso malo ake antchito, koma wasiya kudzikonda yekha ndipo amasankha kuchoka ku mavuto, kuthetsa zinthu zina. Mtundu wabwino. Chimachitika mwachidziwitso cha zovuta.
Nthawi zonse amakhala pansi kuti awone chipinda chonse. Ngati wina atenga malo amenewa, amafuna kapena amupatse kuti amupatse. Mantha ngati mukuyenera kukhala ndi msana wanu pakhomo.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Wokondedwa wanu ali ndi chitukuko chomwe chimatchedwa kuti genetic memory. M'nthaŵi zovuta, amuna nthawi zonse ankakhala moyang'anizana ndi khomo la phanga, okonzeka nthawi iliyonse kubwezera mdani ndi kuteteza kwawo. Izi zikanakhoza kukhala mimbulu yomwe inabwera kununkhiza kwa nyama, kapena munthu wamphamvu yemwe ankayembekeza kumupha iye ndi kutenga mkazi wake ndi phanga. Wothandizana naye mwakhama mwakonzedwe kawirikawiri, nthawi zambiri amapindula kwambiri, chithandizo chodalirika kwa okondedwa ake onse, mphunzitsi wokhudzana ndi mkazi wake komanso mphamvu zonse pamaso pa ana. Ngakhale atatha kugawana nanu, adzakhala okonzeka kutenga udindo ndikukuthandizani pa moyo wanu wonse.
• Amadziyamikira nthawi zonse, akuyang'ana pagalasi, akudziyesa.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Musanayambe kukumana ndi nkhanza, mukukhala ndi zofuna zawo zokha komanso kupembedza. Sakukutsani ndi mayamiko, koma mumatero. Ndipo safika kwa inu, ndipo mumutsata. Ndipo ngakhale pa tsiku iye watachedwa, osati inu. Ali pabedi, amatsutsana kwambiri, koma sasamala za momwe angakondweretsere iwe. Kuonjezera apo, iye adzayembekezera kuchokera kwa inu kuvomereza kwamuyaya ndi kutsimikiziridwa kuti iye ndi wabwino koposa onse omwe anakhalapo nanu, ndi muzochitika zonse.
• Musapatutse pa malamulo ake ndi milimita.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Wokakamizidwa kuti azichita zinthu mopitirira malire. Iye sali wokonzeka kuti azigonjera, wopanda malingaliro ndi kusinthasintha. Simungathe kukangana naye, simungasinthe malingaliro anu ndipo simungamukakamize kuti aswe lamulo limene adakhazikitsa kale, sikuyenera kuyesa. Amatsatira ngakhale malamulo ngakhale pabedi. Ndipo ngati muli ndi chilakolako chogonana Lachisanu ndipo kawirikawiri amakuthandizani Loweruka, ndiye sikungatheke kuti lero mutha kuswa chilichonse.
Komabe, umboni waukulu wa zizoloŵezi za amuna, zomwe zimakwiyitsa akazi - izi ndizofunika pophunzitsa wosankhidwa wanu. Kotero, iwo akhoza kuweruzidwa osati kokha za iye, komanso za banja lake ndi chilengedwe chimene iye anakulira ndi kukhalapo asanakumane nanu.