Mkazi Wachibadwidwe

M'dziko lamakono, mwinamwake munthu waulesi salankhula za zakudya. Azimayi onse akuyesera kuchita zabwino, koma ungwiro umatanthauza chiyani kumvetsa kwazimayi? Ma modela akuyenda pamtunda ndikupangira mafashoni atsopano? Kapena zithunzizi, zomwe zili ndi magazini ofunika kwambiri? Koma izi zonse ndizopangidwira, ngati zonse zidzakhala 90-60-90. Ndiye, wapadera bwanji umunthu wa umunthu, wapadera m'masomphenya a dziko lapansi? Mkazi aliyense ndi wapadera mwa njira yake, ali ndi zilakolako zake, zokonda zake, maonekedwe ake, zomwe zimayenera kukhala zosiyana ndi ena. Ndipo ngati aliyense adzakhala ndi mawonekedwe omwewo, molondola molondola, amachokera asilikali ankhondo. M'dziko lamakono, mwinamwake munthu waulesi salankhula za zakudya. Azimayi onse akuyesera kuchita zabwino, koma ungwiro umatanthauza chiyani kumvetsa kwazimayi? Ma modela akuyenda pamtunda ndikupangira mafashoni atsopano? Kapena zithunzizi, zomwe zili ndi magazini ofunika kwambiri? Koma izi zonse ndizopangidwira, ngati zonse zidzakhala 90-60-90. Ndiye, wapadera bwanji umunthu wa umunthu, wapadera m'masomphenya a dziko lapansi? Mkazi aliyense ndi wapadera mwa njira yake, ali ndi zilakolako zake, zokonda zake, maonekedwe ake, zomwe zimayenera kukhala zosiyana ndi ena. Ndipo ngati aliyense adzakhala ndi mawonekedwe omwewo, molondola molondola, amachokera asilikali ankhondo.
Tangoganizani mkazi wochulukirapo, uyu ndi mkazi wokhala ndi nthawi yachisanu ndi chiwiri yemwe nthawi zonse amamwetulira, komanso nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi zomwe zimachitika, chifukwa saganizira za zakudya, saganiza kuti lero sayenera kudya. Saganizira za zakudya zomwe amadya, komanso momwe angathere ngati atero. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kuganiza za zinthu zopusa, pali kukongola kwakukulu pa moyo umene mungathe komanso kulingalira. Mafashoni amapatsa mkazi kusangalala ndi moyo mu mawonetseredwe ake onse. Ndipo ndiwoneka bwanji momwe iye amawonera mwachikondi, ndipo akufuna kumakhudza zithumwa zake. Munthu wokondwera adzamuika m'chifuwa chake ndipo adzakondwera ndi zokondweretsa thupi lopweteka. Mafuta okongola - ndi okongola komanso okongola. Mkazi wochuluka nthawi zambiri alibe vuto la khungu, chifukwa zigawo zowonongeka za thupi zimamudyetsa, ndipo khungu limakhala silky, makwinya pamaso amachotsedwa ndi mafuta osakaniza. Kukwanira kwa mkazi kumapangitsa kuti azikongola kwambiri kwa amuna, iye ndi wochenjera mwachangu. Pambuyo pake, mwamuna aliyense ali ndi chidziwitso, mkazi aliyense amayanjana ndi amayi ake, ndi amayi anga - kawirikawiri ndimadontho azimayi, omwe nthawi zonse amawotcha mokoma. Zomwe nthawi iliyonse zidzakhala pafupi ndipo zidzakuthandizani ndi uphungu, kapena zidzatsimikizira mawu okoma. Zonse zomwe mwamuna amakhala nazo, amayi ake nthawi zonse amakhala okondedwa kwambiri ndipo amakhalabe mwana mpaka mapeto a masiku ake. Chofunika kwambiri ndi kungodzikhulupirira nokha, ndizosavuta kunena, koma n'zovuta kwambiri kuchita izi. Timagwedeza pamaso pa galasi ndikuyang'ana mbali iliyonse ya thupi lathu la chic. Choyamba, taganizirani chifuwacho, chokongola komanso chachikongola, ndiye kuti mimba ndi yofewa komanso yosalala, ndipo mukufuna kuigwira. Ndi bulu wako wokongola kwambiri umene ungamvetse, ndipo miyendo ndi cholengedwa chosayerekezeka. Pano pang'onopang'ono mumayamba kukonda thupi lanu - ndilo chic ndi lachigololo. Ndiye mumayenera kumanganso dziko lanu lamkati, kusintha kwa thupi lanu lokongola. Ngakhale mkazi wabwino kwambiri ndi wokongola sangathe kupambana maso a anthu ndi dziko ngati ali ndi chidwi ndi chisokonezo. Mwachidziwikire, chinthu chofunika kwambiri kwa mkazi ndi maso ake, amamupatsa nkhawa, chikondi chake kwa ena. Maso akuwala a mkazi wokongola, kumwetulira kwake kumakondweretsa ambiri, iye ali wokondwa, iye ali wokondana ndi thupi lake lomwe, mu nkhope yake, mwa iyemwini. Pamene mkazi adzikonda yekha, amayamba kukonda dziko lonse lapansi, choncho dziko lonse limayamba kumukonda. Mitundu yobiriwira imasangalatsa, pali zambiri zomwe sizinachitike. Iwo samawonetsedwa kawirikawiri pa TV, sangapezeke m'magazini a mafashoni. Ndipo momwe mkazi amasangalalira kunyamula zipsera zake, ngati thupi lake lokongola limagwedezeka kuchokera ku gawo lililonse la iye. Zikuwoneka ngati zosangalatsa kwambiri pafupifupi pafupifupi mwamuna aliyense atembenuka pambuyo pa mkazi wokongola uyu. Khungu, nthawi zonse kukhala pamadyerero, kuyang'ana kudzera m'magazini nthawi zonse ndi zakudya zatsopano, mwachidwi mumusamalire mkazi uyu, wodzitama ndi thanzi. Malingana ndi ziwerengero, mkazi yemwe ali ndi mawonekedwe obirira amakhala wathanzi kuposa mkazi yemwe ali woonda. Posankha zovala, musayang'ane zinthu zazikulu, musabise chiwonetsero chanu chogometsa m'malingaliro a munthu, mwinamwake ngati mutayika "hema" ngati limeneli, sangathe kuona mkazi mwa inu. Pogwiritsa ntchito zovala zapamwamba zomwe zingakweze chifuwa, mukhoza kuika pa neckline kuti anthu asayang'ane kutali ndi inu, ndipo amayi ndi zakudya zawo amapenga ndi nsanje. Buluyo imaphimbidwa ndi thalauza lokongola, yotuluka m'chuuno, ndi ichi mudzatsindika ulemu wanu ndi zolephera zina zidzatha mwaokha. Musati muzivala chovala chotalika pansi, ngati muli ochepa, kotero mudzawoneka ngati mbiya. Ndibwino kuvala msuzi waondo, ndiye mutsegula miyendo yanu yokondeka. Posankha zovala kugogomezera zokoma zanu, ndithudi simukuyenera kuyika mutu wachidule ndikuyika zizindikiro zanu zonse, mukuyenera kuvala ndi kulawa komanso moyenera. Mwinamwake ambiri omwe amawerenga nkhaniyi amaganiza kuti wolembayo amapereka mosavuta zonsezi kuti alembe ndikukambirana pa mutu womwe uli wovuta kwambiri kwa amayi ambiri. Simungakhulupirire, ndinali ndi vuto lomwelo, ndikadakhala wolimba pa makilogalamu 20 ndipo sindinathe kupirira. Koma moyo watha mosiyana, ndamvetsetsa, kuti ndifunikira kukula ndikudzikonda nokha tsopano. Ndinayang'aniranso zitsulo zanga zonse pagalasi, ndipo ndinangotenga ndikudandaula ndekha. Iye anajambula zovala zosiyana, anadziyang'ana yekha kuchokera kumbali, poyamba poyang'ana kovuta, ndipo adayamba kudzikonda yekha. Ine tsopano ndine mkazi wokongola kwambiri, ndipo musanafike apo ine ndinali msungwana wokongola chabe. Ndinavala zovala zoyenera, ndipo panthawi yomwe ndimadzikonda ndekha ndi makandulo ochokera ku chikondi ichi. Choncho, anthu onse oyandikana nawo anayamba kundichitira chonchi, kuchokera kwa anthu palibe njira. Zina mwazokwanira zanga, ndinayamba kukhala pansi, ngati kale, anthu ambiri amandiona kuti ndine wotsika, tsopano ndikusangalala ndi mayi wodekha komanso wodekha. Ndipo mawonekedwe anga okhwimitsa amakhala opambana kwambiri kuposa pamene ndinali wochepa thupi. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ndinayamba ntchito yanga yomwe ndimakonda kwambiri, yomwe ndimakondwera nayo. Mkazi aliyense pali chinthu chapadera, chinthu chachikulu ndikuchipeza nokha ndikukula. Palibe amayi oipa, pali akazi omwe samakhulupirira kuti ndi apadera komanso okongola. Khulupirirani nokha ndipo zonse zidzakuyenderani bwino. Tangoganizani mkazi wochulukirapo, uyu ndi mkazi wokhala ndi nthawi yachisanu ndi chiwiri yemwe nthawi zonse amamwetulira, komanso nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi zomwe zimachitika, chifukwa saganizira za zakudya, saganiza kuti lero sayenera kudya. Saganizira za zakudya zomwe amadya, komanso momwe angathere ngati atero. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kuganiza za zinthu zopusa, pali kukongola kwakukulu pa moyo umene mungathe komanso kulingalira. Mafashoni amapatsa mkazi kusangalala ndi moyo mu mawonetseredwe ake onse. Ndipo ndiwoneka bwanji momwe iye amawonera mwachikondi, ndipo akufuna kumakhudza zithumwa zake. Munthu wokondwera adzamuika m'chifuwa chake ndipo adzakondwera ndi zokondweretsa thupi lopweteka. Mafuta okongola - ndi okongola komanso okongola. Mkazi wochuluka nthawi zambiri alibe vuto la khungu, chifukwa zigawo zowonongeka za thupi zimamudyetsa, ndipo khungu limakhala silky, makwinya pamaso amachotsedwa ndi mafuta osakaniza. Kukwanira kwa mkazi kumapangitsa kuti azikongola kwambiri kwa amuna, iye ndi wochenjera mwachangu. Pambuyo pake, mwamuna aliyense ali ndi chidziwitso, mkazi aliyense amayanjana ndi amayi ake, ndi amayi anga - kawirikawiri ndimadontho azimayi, omwe nthawi zonse amawotcha mokoma. Zomwe nthawi iliyonse zidzakhala pafupi ndipo zidzakuthandizani ndi uphungu, kapena zidzatsimikizira mawu okoma. Zonse zomwe mwamuna amakhala nazo, amayi ake nthawi zonse amakhala okondedwa kwambiri ndipo amakhalabe mwana mpaka mapeto a masiku ake. Chofunika kwambiri ndi kungodzikhulupirira nokha, ndizosavuta kunena, koma n'zovuta kwambiri kuchita izi. Timagwedeza pamaso pa galasi ndikuyang'ana mbali iliyonse ya thupi lathu la chic. Choyamba, taganizirani chifuwacho, chokongola komanso chachikongola, ndiye kuti mimba ndi yofewa komanso yosalala, ndipo mukufuna kuigwira. Ndi bulu wako wokongola kwambiri umene ungamvetse, ndipo miyendo ndi cholengedwa chosayerekezeka. Pano pang'onopang'ono mumayamba kukonda thupi lanu - ndilo chic ndi lachigololo. Ndiye mumayenera kumanganso dziko lanu lamkati, kusintha kwa thupi lanu lokongola. Ngakhale mkazi wabwino kwambiri ndi wokongola sangathe kupambana maso a anthu ndi dziko ngati ali ndi chidwi ndi chisokonezo. Mwachidziwikire, chinthu chofunika kwambiri kwa mkazi ndi maso ake, amamupatsa nkhawa, chikondi chake kwa ena. Maso akuwala a mkazi wokongola, kumwetulira kwake kumakondweretsa ambiri, iye ali wokondwa, iye ali wokondana ndi thupi lake lomwe, mu nkhope yake, mwa iyemwini. Pamene mkazi adzikonda yekha, amayamba kukonda dziko lonse lapansi, choncho dziko lonse limayamba kumukonda. Mitundu yobiriwira imasangalatsa, pali zambiri zomwe sizinachitike. Iwo samawonetsedwa kawirikawiri pa TV, sangapezeke m'magazini a mafashoni. Ndipo momwe mkazi amasangalalira kunyamula zipsera zake, ngati thupi lake lokongola limagwedezeka kuchokera ku gawo lililonse la iye. Zikuwoneka ngati zosangalatsa kwambiri pafupifupi pafupifupi mwamuna aliyense atembenuka pambuyo pa mkazi wokongola uyu. Khungu, nthawi zonse kukhala pamadyerero, kuyang'ana kudzera m'magazini nthawi zonse ndi zakudya zatsopano, mwachidwi mumusamalire mkazi uyu, wodzitama ndi thanzi. Malingana ndi ziwerengero, mkazi yemwe ali ndi mawonekedwe obirira amakhala wathanzi kuposa mkazi yemwe ali woonda. Posankha zovala, musayang'ane zinthu zazikulu, musabise chiwonetsero chanu chogometsa m'malingaliro a munthu, mwinamwake ngati mutayika "hema" ngati limeneli, sangathe kuona mkazi mwa inu. Pogwiritsa ntchito zovala zapamwamba zomwe zingakweze chifuwa, mukhoza kuika pa neckline kuti anthu asayang'ane kutali ndi inu, ndipo amayi ndi zakudya zawo amapenga ndi nsanje. Buluyo imaphimbidwa ndi thalauza lokongola, yotuluka m'chuuno, ndi ichi mudzatsindika ulemu wanu ndi zolephera zina zidzatha mwaokha. Musati muzivala chovala chotalika pansi, ngati muli ochepa, kotero mudzawoneka ngati mbiya. Ndibwino kuvala msuzi waondo, ndiye mutsegula miyendo yanu yokondeka. Posankha zovala kugogomezera zokoma zanu, ndithudi simukuyenera kuyika mutu wachidule ndikuyika zizindikiro zanu zonse, mukuyenera kuvala ndi kulawa komanso moyenera. Mwinamwake ambiri omwe amawerenga nkhaniyi amaganiza kuti wolembayo amapereka mosavuta zonsezi kuti alembe ndikukambirana pa mutu womwe uli wovuta kwambiri kwa amayi ambiri. Simungakhulupirire, ndinali ndi vuto lomwelo, ndikadakhala wolimba pa makilogalamu 20 ndipo sindinathe kupirira. Koma moyo watha mosiyana, ndamvetsetsa, kuti ndifunikira kukula ndikudzikonda nokha tsopano. Ndinayang'aniranso zitsulo zanga zonse pagalasi, ndipo ndinangotenga ndikudandaula ndekha.
Iye anajambula zovala zosiyana, anadziyang'ana yekha kuchokera kumbali, poyamba poyang'ana kovuta, ndipo adayamba kudzikonda yekha. Ine tsopano ndine mkazi wokongola kwambiri, ndipo musanafike apo ine ndinali msungwana wokongola chabe. Ndinavala zovala zoyenera, ndipo panthawi yomwe ndimadzikonda ndekha ndi makandulo ochokera ku chikondi ichi. Choncho, anthu onse oyandikana nawo anayamba kundichitira chonchi, kuchokera kwa anthu palibe njira. Zina mwazokwanira zanga, ndinayamba kukhala pansi, ngati kale, anthu ambiri amandiona kuti ndine wotsika, tsopano ndikusangalala ndi mayi wodekha komanso wodekha. Ndipo mawonekedwe anga okhwimitsa amakhala opambana kwambiri kuposa pamene ndinali wochepa thupi. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ndinayamba ntchito yanga yomwe ndimakonda kwambiri, yomwe ndimakondwera nayo. Mkazi aliyense pali chinthu chapadera, chinthu chachikulu ndikuchipeza nokha ndikukula. Palibe amayi oipa, pali akazi omwe samakhulupirira kuti ndi apadera komanso okongola. Khulupirirani nokha ndipo zonse zidzakuyenderani bwino.