Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pa nkhaniyi sikuti ndiwopsyeze, koma modzichepetsa komanso kumvetsa cholinga chonse cha ubale wanu ndi iye. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi, mukungotaya nthawi yanu mantha, ndipo zatha, osati kuti malingaliro ake pa inu atha. Musamangoganiza mwamsanga musanatsimikizire kuti maziko awo enieni ndi oona. Izi zingapangitse zotsatira zoipa. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe, mwa inu nokha, kuumiriza munthu, mosadzimangirira, kungomuchotsani nokha. Amuna sawakonda pamene akakamizidwa, ndipo mochulukirapo, kuyesera, kuti iye, atsogolere kumverera kwake. Choyamba, dziwani chifukwa chake mukuzizira mwadzidzidzi. Yang'anani pa ubale wanu, ngati kuti kuchokera kunja. Mwinamwake ndi ngozi chabe, ali wotanganidwa ndi ntchito, kapena watopa ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, kapena ali ndi mavuto omwe safuna kugawana nawo ndikukambirana nawo. Yesetsani kusonyeza kulekerera kwa iye ndipo, popanda kukayikira, mwanjira yodalirika, molondola, popanda kunyozedwa ndi kunyozedwa, mumufunseni zomwe zikuchitikadi. Fuulani zonse kumanzere ndi kumanja: "Ndikumverera kuti wokondedwa wanga wasiya kundikonda," - sikoyenera. Mwinamwake sanasiye kukukondani konse, nthawi zambiri timadziwa kusokoneza bwino kwathu komanso chifukwa cha izi, timayamba kupereka zopanda pake. Yesetsani kuchepetsa vutoli ndi malingaliro, monga momwe munkachitira limodzi pamodzi, zokambiranazo zikhale zoyenera, muyenera kuyang'ana chidwi. Ndipo, potero, bweretsani zokambirana zanu kumaganizo. Pa msinkhu uwu, mwamunayo akhoza kukukhulupirirani ndikuuza chifukwa chokha, khalidwe lotere.
Ngati mantha anu akutsimikiziridwa ndipo mfundo yonse ndi yakuti malingaliro ake pa inu amangowonongeka. Apanso, musawope. Kumbukirani kuti ziribe kanthu momwe mumadzimverera nokha, mukuchititsidwa manyazi komanso kuwonongedwa, yesetsani kudzikakamiza pamodzi ndikuyesera kutaya imfa ya wokondedwa wanu. Inde, izi ndizo ngati mukuzifunadi. Ngati, mwangotopa ndipo simukufuna kumenyana ndi maganizo ake. Ingolisiya, simuli chuma cha wina ndi mzake, kupatsidwa chuma chamuyaya, koma anthu amoyo okhala ndi zolinga zawo, maganizo ndi ufulu wa moyo wabwino. Ngati mukudzidalira nokha ndipo kuti simungathe kukhazikitsa, khalani ndi mtendere. Ndipo mudzapeza munthu amene amakukondani. Ndinaganiza zolimbana ndi chikondi chake ndikupita ku mapeto, ndikufika pansi. Apa ndibwino kukumbukira kuti sikuli koyenera kuchedwa. Kotero, monga akadatha, iye mwini sanasankhe kwenikweni, akufunadi kumoyo. Choncho, kuti muthe kusintha mkhalidwewu ndikuwutenga kuti ukhale woyendayenda, ndikofunikira pamene udakali wotentha kwambiri, ndiko kuti, mpaka munthuyo atasankha kupanga chisankho chomwe sichidzakuthandizani konse. Ndikuganiza malangizo othandiza pa momwe mungakhalire, simungasokoneze.
Choyamba, ngati mutakhala limodzi pansi pa denga limodzi, yesetsani kuchoka, zomwe simungathe kuswa nkhunizo. Pambuyo pa zonse, monga tikudziwira, kuchokera ku chikondi kupita ku chidani ndi sitepe imodzi yokha. Choncho musachedwetse vutoli. Yesetsani kumakhala mosiyana, mwinamwake malingaliro anu ayambiranso, ndipo mutha kukhala chete ndikupanga chisankho choyenera.
Pambuyo pake, kuti muyitane ndi maitanidwe nthawi zonse ndi maulendo sizothandiza. Ndipo mochulukirapo, yambani kukwiya komanso kufufuza. Kuti simungamupangitsenso kukukondani. Ndipo ngakhale mosiyana, inu mudzakankhira kutali ngakhale motalika kwambiri. Kupatula, ngati chisoni, iye samverera kanthu kwa inu. Kunyada ndi wanu wamkulu "kavalo". Samalani maonekedwe anu, pitani kukongola salon, woveketsa tsitsi, mwa mawu oti, "pachimake" kwa iye mosasamala kanthu za kukongola kwake konse. Mutha kusintha kwambiri fano lanu. Muloleni iye awone momwe iwe ulili wabwino popanda iye. Ndikhulupirire, zidzamupweteka kwambiri. Amuna onse ali ndi proprietors ndi egoists, ndipo ngakhale pamene akuganiza kuti sakusowa mkazi nkomwe. Koma amamuona wokhala wokhutira, wokonzekeretsedwa komanso wodzidalira komanso wopanda pake, izi zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri. Onetsetsani, adzatchula posachedwa. Inde, kuchokera ku belu yoyamba sikoyenera kutenga malo anu konse. Sewani nawo, onetsani za momwe mumakhalira popanda izo, koma muzichita zokongola komanso zomveka. Onjezerani mafuta pamoto, mulole iwo aganizire za amene adataya. Muwone iye, mukhoza, kale belu lachinayi, lachinayi. Cholinga chachikulu cha msonkhano wanu sichikukhudzani. Ingokumana, kambiranani nthawi zosangalatsa zapitazo. Msonkhanowu uyenera kukhala, mwachindunji, kukhala ndi khalidwe losadziwika pamsonkhano. Inde, kumamatira kwa iwo sikofunikira, monga akunenera, kuti asamawope, koma kumangokhalira kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kudzakhala koyenera. Muyenera kuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti zotsatira za kuyankhulana uku ndizokhazikitsidwa pazotsatira, zomwe zimatchedwa "tsiku." Izo zimachokera kwa iye ndipo zimayamba kuchita ngati seductress weniweni. Psychology ya munthu ndi gawo losadziwika bwino la moyo wake, motero, mosavuta ngati kuti asiye kukonda, akhoza kukukondani. Ndiponso, mphamvu zowonjezera kuposa momwe izi zinalili nthawi yoyamba.
Choncho, dziwani kuti zonse zili m'manja mwanu ndipo zimadalira nokha. Ngati maganizo anu nthawi zambiri amawunika maganizo: "Ndikumverera kuti wokondedwa wanga anasiya kundikonda" - musati mutenge ngati wapatsidwa, koma yesetsani kumvetsa zifukwa ndikusintha nokha. Ndipo potsirizira pake, tenga izo kumvetsa kwako, ngati kumverera kwa munthu, kwakhala chete kwa iwe, tcheru ku khalidwe lako. Mwinamwake zinali mwa khalidwe lake kuti inu mumamukankhira iye kutali. Ndipo, kuti, mochuluka, musayende payekha, kusintha maganizo anu ku zinthu ndi munthu wanu, mwachindunji.