Kwenikweni pang'onopang'ono, mkazi wachigololo akhoza kukopa chidwi cha munthu aliyense. Akazi ogonana safunikira kufotokoza momwe angadzutse chidwi, momwe angapusitsire ndi zomwe angayankhule ndi mwamuna. Koma chochititsa chidwi ndi chakuti kugonana kumaperekedwa kwa mkazi mmodzi mwa chilengedwe, ndipo maluso ena amapangidwa mwayekha. Tiyeni tiyesetse kuganizira zomwe ziri zizindikiro za kugonana.
Zizindikiro zomwe zimatsimikizira za kugonana kwa amayi
Mkazi wachikondi amakonda amuna kwambiri ndipo amawaona kuti ndi mabwenzi ake apamtima. Ngati mkazi ali ndi chifundo chachikulu kwa anthu, ndiye chinsinsi cha kukongola kwa amayi. Mkazi wogonana amangopembedza thupi lake ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala wokhutira ndi maonekedwe ake. Ngati mkazi sakudziwa yekha, ndiye kuti palibe chilankhulo chilichonse chogonana. Chilakolako cha thupi lanu ndicho chisonyezero chachikulu cha chiwerewere.
Mu mafunso okhudzana ndi kugonana, amayi okongola amakhala oyenera komanso amamukonda kwambiri kuposa amayi ena. Kugonana kumatenga malo aakulu mu maloto ndi malingaliro awo. Akazi oterewa nthawi zambiri amagonana, koma nthawi yomweyo amangoona kuti moyo wawo wa kugonana ndi wokhutiritsa. Azimayi omwe amavomereza kugonana, amamva mobwerezabwereza. Zomwe zimawonekera kuti zikhale zowonongeka zimakhudza kudzidzimutsa kwaumunthu komanso momwe amaonera amuna.
Zizindikiro za kukongola kwa amayi kapena kugonana ndizosiyana. Azimayi amene amagonana amakhala otetezeka kwambiri pabedi. Akazi oterewa amasonyeza zochitika zosiyana poyamba, pamene masewera ena achiwerewere amayamba kwambiri.
Mitundu iwiri ya malingaliro imasiyanitsa ndi amayi, izi ndi zachiwerewere ndi zachikondi. Ndizosangalatsa, koma amayi achigololo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi malingaliro a chikondi, osati kugonana. Kugonana sikudalira kukongola kwa mkazi, malinga ndi amuna ambiri. Kawirikawiri amayi okongola amabweretsa zokhumudwitsa kwa amuna muzogonana.
Kufufuza kwa mkazi wolakalaka anali munthu wodandaula nthawi zonse. Asayansi anafufuza zizindikiro zakunja zazimayi zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndipo anafotokoza maonekedwe ena. Mwachitsanzo, amuna ambiri ngati kukula kwa mabere awo monga mkazi, amawona bomba la kugonana patsogolo pawo. Nkhwangwa zovuta za mkazi zimamuchitira umboni zazikulu zogonana.
Kupweteka kwa tsitsi ndi chizindikiro chofunika kwambiri cha kugonana, komwe akazi amayesera kuchotsa, kumatsimikizira kuti testosterone ndi magazi ambiri. Hamu yamphongo iyi imayambitsa kugonana kwa amayi. Kufiira pa nkhope sikukutanthauza kudzichepetsa, koma mosiyana, kumatanthauza ludzu la kupsompsona ndi kukumbatirana. Munthu wodzitetezera nthawi zambiri amapita ku grimaces ndi grimaces, koma kodi mwachibadwa, mwachindunji, osati ndi mtima wosasangalatsa komanso wosasamala. Komabe pali lingaliro lakuti amayi omwe ali ndi tsitsi lofiira, amakhala ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha kugonana.
Momwe mungakhalire mkazi wachigololo
Chokongola kwambiri kuti apange mkazi akhoza kukhala ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe zimapanga pamodzi kugonana ndikupanga chifaniziro chachikazi kukongola kwa amuna ambiri.
Kuti mugonane, muyenera kudzidalira kwambiri. Samalani maonekedwe anu. Kuti tipewe kugonana sikofunika kukhala ndi chiwerengero chabwino. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mwamuna azisamalira mkazi. Yambani ndi khungu lanu, thupi lanu, tsitsi lanu, misomali, etc. Dzigulireni zovala zokongola, chifukwa malaya a masewera ndi mkanjo wamoto sungapange mkazi wokongola pamaso pa mwamuna.
Mbali yofunikira ya kugonana kwa theka lofooka ndi khalidwe la mkazi, liwu lake la mawu. Mayi sayenera kukhala wachiwerewere, koma mosiyana, ayenera kukhala wodzidalira, wochenjera, ngati "nkhandwe" komanso wokonda. Kwa malingaliro a anthu pa inu mwaima, muyenera kuphunzira kukhala "coquette," kuti muphunzire kunena mawu olondola. Mwamuna akhoza kungoyang'anitsitsa pa chinthu chimodzi cha mkazi, ngati ali wokoma mtima. Komanso musaiwale za kumwetulira ndi kukongola kumwetulira. Pambuyo pake, mayi wokongola ayenera kukhala wamanyazi ndi wolimba mtima, wotentha ndi ozizira, wosasamala komanso nthawi yomweyo wosamala. Ndi amayi omwe ali ndi makhalidwe omwe akufuna kuona amuna pambali pawo.