Ndili mwana, pamene ndinali kusewera zidole za Barbie, ndinavala Ken ndi Barbie mu zovala zaukwati, ndipo ndinayamba mwambowu. Kuchokera kumadzulo, ndinapanga nsanja, yomwe inali pansi pa guwa la nsembe, ndipo pa guwa ndinalima chimbalangondo, chomwe chinali ngati wansembe. Ndipo kotero, tsiku lirilonse ndinakonza maukwati. Ndinalota kuti ndikule mofulumira, zomwe zikhoza kuvala chovala choyera chofewa, kupita ku guwa ndikumanena kuti "inde". Sindinaganize zomwe zikanati zisanachitike komanso zitatha, ndinaganiza za kavalidwe koyera ndi chophimba. Komanso, mwinamwake ndi msungwana aliyense, saganizira zomwe zidzachitike komanso pambuyo paukwati, tonsefe timadandaula za momwe ndondomeko yachikwatiyi ikuyendera: chovala choyera choyera, keke yayikulu yokoma, maluwa okwatirana, ndipo, ndithudi, mphatso.
Mtsikana aliyense kuyambira ali mwana maloto kuti adzakhala wokongola kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi , wokongoletsedwa kwambiri komanso wokongola kwambiri mkwati, koma palibe wokongola kwambiri ukwati kwa aliyense, palibe njira yosinthika ya ukwati, yomwe imatengedwa yokongola kwambiri. Kwa onse ndi mawu oti "okongola" amatanthauzira mosiyana, ndipo amatanthauziridwa m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Munthu wina amaonedwa bwino maluwa okongola, okonzedwa kumbali zonse za phwando la phwandolo, komwe kumakhala chikondwerero, ndipo wina wokongola ndi maluwa ofiira, pamilingo yambiri, ataima m'mitsuko yayitali yaitali. Aliyense amasankha kulawa kwawo, koma aliyense ali ndi zokonda zosiyana. Wina amakonda kusintha miyambo, ndi kukhazikitsa zida zawo zatsopano, ndipo ena miyambo ndi ofunika kwambiri, ndipo amawalemekeza, ndikutsatira malamulo onse akale.
Zovala zoyera, sitimayi yaitali, chophimba choyera, chovala chokongoletsera, kutsekedwa kwala, daimondi chachikulu pa chala changa, ndipo bambo anga amatsogolera kuguwa, kumene mwamuna wam'tsogolo ndi mkwatibwi akudikirira moleza mtima. Ichi si chikhalidwe? Liwu limodzi "inde" limakhala gawo la moyo watsopano, m'moyo, kumene kuli mwamuna wokondedwa ndi zolinga zatsopano za moyo.
Nsalu yofiira kapena ya buluu yofiira ndi yofiira kwambiri, tsitsi lofiirira kapena lofiirira limasonkhana mumtolo wamba, ndipo pa mtolowu muli chipewa chofiira chakuda, chophimba chowala, ndi kuchoka ku guwa pa njinga yomwe ili kwinakwake pamphepete mwa nyanja. Akukumbutsa chithunzi kuchokera ku fesheni-magazine. Kwa omwe ili ndi nsonga ya kukongola, motsutsana ndi miyambo yonse ndi malamulo, kudziwonetsera nokha kwa anthu apadera omwe sakonda aliyense, chifukwa pali maukwati ochepa okha okonda zachilendo ndi avant-garde.
Ukwati ndi chikondwerero chofunika kwambiri m'moyo, osati tsiku lobadwa komanso osati ambiri, palibe chomwe chingakhale chofanana ndi tsiku lino, kotero ndikufuna kuti zonse zikhale zabwino. Ndipo zilizonse za ukwati, zokhumba zanu zonse ndi zokhumba zanu zidzathandizidwa kuzindikira ndi okonzekera maukwati - awa ndi anthu omwe ali ndi zinthu zonse zoperekedwa ku ukwati, ndipo ukwati wokongola kwambiri ukuperekedwa kwa inu. Adzathandiza kukonza phwando la bachelorette ndi phwando lachilendo, ndipo adzakonzekera chirichonse. Simungayang'ane zovuta zilizonse, koma zindikirani kuti matumba anu achotsedwa, ndipo chisangalalo chikhoza kuperekedwa chaka chimodzi, kapena kuposa, kapena nthawi yachisanu ikhoza kugwera pamlingo wa "madzi, ndi kukoma kwa shuga."
Pofuna kukonzekera ukwati, muyenera kusankha tchalitchi cha holide, komwe mungalole kuti mukhale ndi maganizo oyenera pamaso pa Mulungu. Mpingo wokhala ndi matabwa a matabwa ndi mawindo a galasi lofiira, zomwe zikuwonetsera ofera oyera. Nyimboyi, yomwe inu nonse, mumatanthauza chinachake, osati maulendo odetsa a Mendelssohn. Pa mabenchi khalani pafupi ndi inu anthu, wina akulira, wina akumwetulira mano onse makumi atatu ndi awiri ndipo ali wokondwa. Inu mu kavalidwe ka chizungu choyera mukuyenda mu nyimbo yoimba pamphepete yofiira, mzere ndi mapeyala oyera a rosi, ndipo patsogolo panu muli angelo ang'onoang'ono, akuwaza njira ndi maluwa otuluka. Ndipo patsogolo pake - mu tuxedo wakuda, akudikirira moleza mtima, ndipo tsopano, pofika pa guwa ndikugwira manja, mumatchula mawu a lumbiriro omwe mwalumikizana nokha. Kenaka mumachoka pa limousine yoyera musanapitirizebe holideyi, kumene simungakhalepo komanso mumakhala maboma. Kumeneko amapatsidwa mphatso ndi zofukiza zonse ndipo zimangomveka ku adilesi yanu. Zonse za inu, lero ndi zonse kwa inu awiri. Zonsezi zikuzungulira, ndipo zimatuluka, maluwa amapachikidwa kuzungulira, ndipo makandulo akuyaka, ndikupanga malo amatsenga. Nyimbo zochepetsetsa, kununkha kwa magalasi, mphepo yamagulu, ndi kumangokhalira kusangalatsa komanso kukondweretsa. Wojambula zithunzi akukugwedeza iwe kumbali zonse, ndipo kuchokera pa izi umamverera ngati nyenyezi ya Hollywood, woyendetsa amatenga chilichonse, amalemba mawu onse omwe mumanena. Kodi suli ukwati wokongola kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi, pamene mumamva ngati mulungu wamkazi, mfumukazi yakugonjetsa, choncho ndiwe msungwana wokongola kwambiri usana ndi madzulo, chifukwa palibe ngati mtsikana wa kavalidwe ka chikwati choyera. Kotero panali mwambo.
Ndipo, zikuwoneka kuti, chifukwa cha nthawi zoterezo ndizofunika kukhala ndi moyo, mungakumbukire bwanji zonsezi, ndikukondwera kuti mudakhala ndi nthawi iyi ndi munthu amene akukhala pafupi ndi inu ndikuwerenga nyuzipepalayi. Ndipo iwe mkati mwawekha umakondwere ndi izi tsiku lirilonse, kwa zaka zambiri, ndi zonse, zikuwoneka kuti zinali dzulo.