Ubwenzi ndi chisoni.
Zimamveka zopusa, koma zimachitika. Zikuoneka kuti kumalo mwa mwamuna wanu mwadzidzidzi panawonekera mkazi yemwe ali chitsanzo cha wolakwiridwa. Mwamuna wake amamusiya, iye yekha ndiye amabereka mwana, kapena ngakhale awiri, samagwirizana ndi ubale wake ndi anzake, amatsutsa abwanamkubwa ake, oyandikana nawo amwano, ndipo nthawi zonse amaba mabanki ndi ndalama zowonongeka mumsewu wapansi. Mkazi wosasangalala yemwe ayenera kumumvera chisoni.
Koma mukuwona kuti mwamuna wake amusiya, chifukwa ali ndi khalidwe losasangalatsa kwambiri, anzake samamukonda poyesera kukhala pansi, akuluakulu samamuzindikira, chifukwa akufuna kumusunthira kumapewa a munthu wina. Ndipo ndalama? Iye samangophunzira konse kuchokera ku zolakwitsa zake zomwe.
Kodi mwamuna wanu amawona chiyani? Maso ake, mkazi wamng'ono, wokhumudwa amene amayesetsa kukhala wolimba mtima ndi wokondwa, ziribe kanthu. Amapeza zifukwa zolemekezeka mmenemo zomwe sizikutanthauza. Chifukwa chake, amavomereza thandizo lake ndipo amayamba kumuitana nthawi iliyonse yopempha malangizo kapena kulira, nthawi zambiri amalowa m'nyumba mwanu, ndipo muyenera kulandira, ndipo ngati mukutsutsana, ndiye kuti mwamuna amatha madzulo.
Koma vuto ili likhoza kuthetsedwa. Taganizirani za izi, mumadzipangira zochuluka motani? Maso a mwamuna wake, mumayang'ana ngati munthu wamphamvu, wokhutira yekha yemwe wakhala akulimbana ndi mavuto onse. Ndipo mmenemo chikhumbo cha chivalrous sichifera, iye amangosowa winawake kuti apulumutse. Kotero mpatseni iye mwayi! Musayesetse kuthetsa zonse nokha, musazengereze kudandaula za zinthu zomwe simunamverepo kale. Kawirikawiri, mupatseni chimene "bwenzi" lake limamupatsa. Zikuwoneka kuti mwamuna wanu sali wolimba kwambiri kuti atenge katundu wochokera kwa akazi awiri osowa. Mwachiwonekere, amasankha yemwe ali ndi mavuto omwe ali pafupi ndi iye ndikukhudza zambiri, ndiko kuti iwe.
Ubwenzi wochokera kukumbukira.
Kuyanjana kokalamba ndi chibwenzi kumayendayenda ndi mwamuna kwa nthawi yaitali - kuchokera kuukwati kupita ku banja, chaka ndi chaka. Zikuchitika kuti pakati pazinthu zina pali bwenzi lakale, yemwe, zikuwoneka kuti si mbuye, koma mzanga chabe, koma samalola mwamuna wanu kupita kwa zaka zambiri.
Zimalumikizidwa ndi kukumbukira, achinyamata, zosangalatsa za ana komanso chikondi cha ana, akhala akudziwana kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo amagwiritsana ntchito kudalirana. Kulimbana ndi mdani woteroyo sikudzakhala kophweka.
Ngati simungathe kumuletsa asanakwatirane, ndiye kuti simungamuvomereze, ndiye chitani mwakachetechete komanso mozizira. Choyamba, musawope kulankhula za iye ndi mwamuna wanu, koma osati mosiyana ndi wotsutsa. Musati mutenge mlandu, koma funsani mafunso abwino. Mwachitsanzo, funsani ngati mtsikana ali wokondwa. Kuwoneka kwakukulu, onaninso kuti nthawi zambiri akazi okondwa amakonda kusakhala ndi abwenzi, koma ndi okondedwa. Musakhale wamanyazi kuti mutsegule maso ake ku makhalidwe ena abwino, mwachitsanzo, ku chiwerewere. Chabwino, kodi sakudziwa kuti mwachikondi mumafuna kukhala nokha kumapeto kwa sabata? Ndipo, chofunikira kwambiri, sungani ubalewu kuti ukhale wolamulira - musachilole pamaso panu, koma musalole kuti ukhale pafupi kwambiri. Zotsatira zake, zowonjezera zowonjezereka zidzathera kwa atsopano, ndipo mwamuna wanu adzaiwala za mpikisanowo. A. mwinamwake, ndipo tsiku lina adzakonza moyo wake waumwini ndikusiya kukuvutitsani.
Ubwenzi pa miyoyo.
Ndizodabwitsa kuti nthawi zina amuna amakhala chete! Koma apa pakubwera mmoyo mkazi wochokera kunja kwathu yemwe dzulo-ngakhale mwamuna watsekedwa ndi wokonzeka kukambirana usana ndi usiku. Chinthu chiri, iye, mosiyana ndi inu, anamuwona mwa iye chinachake chimene chimamukondweretsa iye. Lolani izi zikhale nkhani chabe yopanda pake pa ndale, mpira kapena makompyuta.
Chotsani chibwenzi ichi chiri chosavuta. Mvetserani ku nkhani zomwe akunenazo, kumvetsetsa tanthawuzo ndi kukondweretsa okhulupirika ndi kumvetsetsa kwakukulu. Bweretsani iye ndi iye, khalani bwenzi lake lapamwamba kwa iye. Mukangosonyeza chidwi chenicheni pa zomwe zimamukondweretsa, sipadzakhala kukumbukira kuchokera kwa mlendo wosayitanidwa.
Ubwenzi wosiyana.
Mwinamwake inu munazindikira kumbuyo kwanu kuti inu simungathe kusungidwa mu malingaliro, nthawi zambiri inu mumakwiya ndipo musati mukazengereze kusonyeza izo? Kawirikawiri amuna samawakonda akazi ambiri okhudza maganizo. Kotero musadabwe ngati mwamuna wanu mwadzidzidzi ali ndi bwenzi lomwe liri bata, ngati thanki mulimonse.
Musamafulumizitse kukonza zamatsenga ndikukayikira wokondedwa wanu. Sinthani machitidwe. Khalani osasunthika ndi odekha, musamangokhalira kumenyera kumene mumakonda, phunzirani kusunga maganizo anu m'manja mwanu. Ndipo musokoneze mwamuna wanu ndi chinachake - ngakhale kuyenda limodzi, ngakhale mwana wamba. Mudzawona momwe adzabwerera msanga, ndi momwe adzakuyang'anirani.
Pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi ali abwenzi, nthawi zonse mumakhala malo oganiza ndi kukayikira. Koma izi nthawi zambiri zimangowonjezera mavuto omwe akukula mu ubale wanu ndi mwamuna wanu. Yesani kusintha, ndipo mudzawona kuti panalibe chofunikira chenicheni chokhala ndi chibwenzi ndi mkazi wina. Chinthu chachikulu mu nthawi zoterezi - musapange zolakwa ndipo musapondere pamatenda omwewo.