Koma pang'onopang'ono chirichonse chikhoza kugwa. Wokondedwa akhoza kupereka, kapena mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku adzabisa zonse zabwino pakati pa inu. Ndiyeno kusungulumwa kumathamanga. Zikuwoneka kuti simukusowa aliyense, aliyense ndi wachiwawa. Mmene mungagwirire ndi malingaliro awa, omwe amachotsa anthu onse akuyesera kukuthandizani. Kuthamanga mu bwalo sikukulolani kuti muthawe kuvuto ili. Chinthu chokha chomwe dziko lino likutsogolera ndi chisudzulo.
Zikuwoneka kuti izi zikhala zabwino kwa awiri. Pambuyo pazimenezi, madandaulo ambiri awonjezeka zaka zapitazo. Pazifukwa zina, panthawi yochepa chabe, kunyozedwa koipa kumatchulidwa, kapena chinthu chokhumudwitsa. Zonsezi zimabwera patsogolo, mmalo mosiya kukhumudwa, ndipo pamutu wozizira zonse zimayesedwa mosamala. Timathamangira mopitirira malire, ndipo sitingaganize za anthu angati omwe timawapweteka. Makolo omwe amadandaula za moyo wawo umene sunachitike ndi ana awo. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, ndi ana awo, omwe amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chisudzulo cha makolo awo.
Ndizochitika zingati, mwanayo atatha kusudzulana yekha. Ndipo zotsatira zake zinali zovuta. Kuyesera kudzipha, kuthawa kunyumba, kuledzera ku zizolowezi zoipa (kusuta, mowa, kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo). Kodi kusudzulana kungabweretse mavuto oterewa, mumapempha? Kodi malangizo a ana ndi otani popanga chisankho chotero? Chowonadi ndi chakuti mu chisudzulo cha makolo mwanayo amadziimba mlandu yekha poyamba. Amayamba kuganiza ndi kuyeza khalidwe lake. Ndipo kwenikweni zimabwera kumapeto kuti ndi amene ali ndi mlandu. Kenaka malingaliro amalowerera mwa kuti makolo sakondanso naye. Kukhazikika kwa maganizo, moyo wosintha umasweka, ndipo umawopsyeza. Psyche mwanayo sali wokonzeka kuyesedwa kotero, ndipo mwanayo amakhala ngati malo osungira, akuyesera kuti asalole anthu kuti ayandikana nawo kwambiri. Zochita zonyenga ndi njira yokhayo yotetezera. Ana oterewa ndi ovuta kwambiri kubweretsa kukambirana, kukakamiza kutsegula.
Mu moyo, pali zinthu zambiri, ndipo aliyense amafunikira kuthetsa. Koma musanalitenge, ganizirani mozama za mtundu umene mumazunza achibale anu. Ganizirani zabwino ndi zopanikiza, mwinamwake mungathe kupeza njira yotereyi popanda chisudzulo. Njira ina ndi malo osakhalitsa. Izi zidzakupatsani nthawi yopanga chisankho choyenera. Popeza kuti cholakwacho chidzathetsedwa pakapita nthawi, kudzikuza kudzakhala chete, ndipo mu bata, muyenera kusankha bwino.
Pofuna kupewa chochitika ichi, zochepa zimafunika. Lemekezani wina ndi mzake kuti izi zisachitike. Ndipotu, ziribe kanthu momwe zinthu ziliri panthawiyi, m'mbuyomu mumakonda, mudakhala pamodzi kwa nthawi inayake. Ndipo chifukwa cha kulemekeza zaka zakubadwa sizitsika kunyozedwa. Inu munabereka ana, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti nthawi ina munkaganiza kuti ndinu woyenera wina ndi mzake. Phunzirani kumvetsera ndikumvetsetsa moyo wanu. Pambuyo pake, vuto lomwelo silidzatha pokhapokha litakambidwa. Kukhala chete kumachulukitsa mkanganowo. Musadzikundikire kukwiya, ndi bwino kunena nthawi yomweyo za zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi inu. Ndipo kudzitukumula pa mfundo imeneyi kuyenera kubisika mozama. Pambuyo pake, sikuti chilango chanu chili chokha, koma tsogolo la mwanayo.