Nyumbayi ikufulumira, koma kukuwa, kufuula, kulira kumveka kuchokera m'chipinda cha ana ... Ndipo ndendende nthawi yomweyo, pamene munaganiza zoyamba nkhani ina yofunika kwambiri. Chabwino, nchifukwa ninji ana sangathe kusewera pamodzi osachepera theka la ora opanda mfuu yambiri ndi misonzi yotentha? Apanso, iwe uyenera kukhala woweruza ndikulekanitsa omenya nkhondo. Kapena mwinamwake ndibwino kuti musamamvetsetse mkangano wotsatira, aloleni kuti azidzikonze okha?
Abale ndi alongo
Tiyeni tiganizire chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri ana amatsutsana ndi kumenyana, chifukwa chake wina amayesa kukupambitsani inu kumbali yanu ndi kupambana chifundo chanu. Mfundo yakuti nsanje yaunyamata ndi yofala kwambiri. Ana ena amatha kuthetsa vutoli ndikupeza njira yamtendere yothetsera mikangano. Zina zimabweretsa mavuto ambiri kumakangano akuluakulu, omwe amadza chifukwa cha zifukwa zosiyanasiyana.
Onani mmene mwana wamkulu amasiyanitsira mwana wamng'ono ndi khalidwe lake. Mkuluyo akufuna kukhala malo apamtima. Pambuyo pa kuonekera kwa mchimwene kapena mlongo wamng'ono, ayenera kugawana chikondi ndi chisamaliro cha makolo amene adamupeza yekha. Ndi choonadi chonse ndi okhulupirira, amayesera kubwezeretsanso udindo wake. Wamng'ono, mosiyana, ndi zovuta kusunga ndi wamkulu. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosiyana. Wamng'ono akuyesetsa kuti akhale wabwino kwambiri pamene wamkulu sakulephera. Osati wofuna kupirira udindo wa ofooka, nthawi zambiri amachititsa mikangano. Maonekedwe a mwana wachitatu nthawi zambiri amasintha zinthu zofunika kwambiri m'banja.
Makolo amatchula mwanayo ngati mwana woyamba. Amakhudzidwa, amasamala kwambiri komanso amalola zambiri kuposa ana okalamba. Pa nthawi yomweyi, osowa kwambiri ndi mwana wamba, yemwe posachedwapa anali wamng'ono kwambiri. Kuchokera kwa mkuluyo akugwedeza nthawi zonse, ndipo chibwenzi chatsopano cha banjachi "chimafika pazitsulo", chifukwa anthu akuluakulu amakhala kumbali yake. Njira yomwe pamakhala nthawi zambiri mikangano ndi mavuto sikudalira kokha chiwerengero cha ana komanso dongosolo la maonekedwe awo. zochepa kusiyana mu m'badwo wa ana, ndi chowawa kwambiri akufuulira adzathandiza pa mapazi ake makolo nkhawa. Chinanso chofunika ndi wranglers pang'ono pansi. pafupipafupi yoopsa mikangano pakati pa ana a amuna okhaokha kapena akazi, koma m'bale ndi mlongo amalowerera zosavuta kupeza chinenero. ca S brawlers wofunitsitsa - ndi ana a amuna okhaokha kapena akazi ndi kusiyana pa zaka chimodzi mpaka zaka ziwiri.
Kawirikawiri makolo okha safuna zimenezo, kuwapangitsa ana kukhala ndi khalidwe losemphana.
Kwa alongo onse pa ndolo. O, mwambi wanzeru! Ndizomvetsa chisoni, sizingatheke kuti mutsatire mwathunthu ... Makolo ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mikangano yambiri ndi zonyansa zingapewe ngati ana apatsidwa toyiranso, ndikupatsani maswiti mofanana. Ndipotu, zonse sizili zophweka. Ana sangawalumbirire mobwerezabwereza, koma pokhapokha mutagawanitsa mphatso, komanso momwe mumamvera. Kutamandidwa ndi kunyozedwa, kulimbikitsana ndi kulanga mwana aliyense muyezo womwewo, pasakhale wokondedwa. Tamandani bwino. Nthawi zina, ndi makolo amene, popanda kuzindikiritsa, amachititsa kuti pakhale mpikisano pakati pa ana. Ndi kangati mumayesezera ana kwa wina ndi mzake, kutamanda ulemu wa wina ndi kutsutsa zolakwitsa za ena? "Tayang'anani pa mlongo wanu wamng'ono, mofulumira iye amadya, chabwino, iye ali wochenjera basi! Ndipo iwe, monga nthawi zonse, umakhala ndi pakamwa pako kutseguka ndipo khwangwala amawerengera, "- atatha kunena choncho, mwanayo amamva kuti ndi woipa kwambiri kuposa mlongo wake komanso amamukonda kwambiri. Yesetsani kupewa mafanizo osamveka, chifukwa wamng'ono kwambiri sangakhale wamkulu , ngakhale kulera komweko.
Mavuto angayambe ngakhale pamene mwana wamkulu ali pangozi poyerekeza ndi wamng'ono. Zikuonekeratu kuti mkuluyo adzakhala ndi maudindo ambiri nthawi zonse. Komabe, onetsetsani kuti kukwaniritsidwa kwawo kunali kovuta kwa mwanayo osati phindu la zomwe amakonda. Musamukakamize mkuluyo kuti azikhala ndi mbale kapena mlongo wamng'ono. Ana okalamba amafuna kusewera ndi anzawo "opanda katundu," kotero amatha kusasangalatsa ndi achinyamata, kuwakwiyitsa. "Karapuzes amabwezera ndi kulira mokweza ndi madandaulo pa firilo lililonse.
Chitani mokwanira
Kodi ndizolondola bwanji kuti muchitapo kanthu pakudzudzulidwa kwachabechabe? Choyamba, musawalimbikitse. Ngati mwanayo atulutsa uthenga woti mbale wamng'onoyo analowetsa foni yam'manja m'nyanja ndi nsomba, muuzeni kuti ndinu wokondwa kumvetsera nkhani ya "zovuta" zake, komanso kuti nkhani za mbale wanu sizikukondani konse. akuvutika, ngati angabweretse mavuto.
Tidzakhala alangizi
Chifukwa cha mikangano? Nthawi yambiri ya banal ndi chidole chomwe sichigawidwa ndi ana. Ana omwe amakwiya kwambiri amachitira chipongwe, kunyodola, kusowa chilungamo kapena chinyengo. Kodi munthu wamkulu ayenera kuchita chiyani ngati zida zing'onozing'ono zimayambanso kukangana? Khalani mwamtendere. Yesetsani kuti musayambe kukangana, penyani ana ochokera kunja, mwinamwake iwo adzathetsa mikanganoyo popanda thandizo lanu. Ndipo musaiwale kutamanda ana atapeza njira yokambirana ndi wina ndi mnzake. Kumbukirani kuti ntchito yanu ndiyomwe, choyamba, yesetsani kusokoneza anawo. Chachiwiri, muyenera kuwaphunzitsa mmene angakhalire bwino pamakangano oterowo, komanso - musachite nawo. Ndipo padzakhala mtendere mnyumba!