Ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri mphambu zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zinayi, akukula mofulumira, kumvetsetsa kwabwino kwa mwanayo komanso nzeru zake: ali ndi zizindikiro zosinthira dziko lapansi akuluakulu komanso njira yowonjezereka pazochita zake. Kuyambira ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri mwanayo ayamba kupita kusukulu. Maphunziro ake amathandizira kuti pazaka zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zinayi mwanayo ayambe kukhala wokonzeka. Pakukula kwa mwana kuyambira zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri mphambu zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zinai, zigawo zingapo zikuluzikulu zikhoza kudziwika: chitukuko cha thupi, chitukuko cha mphamvu zamaganizo (kuphatikizapo kuthetsa mavuto ndi kulingalira), chitukuko cha luso lodziwonetsera nokha ndi chiyanjano. Ndondomeko ya kuzindikira kumatha kufotokozedwa monga kulingalira, kulingalira ndi kuloweza.
Mphamvu ya makolo
Ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, mwanayo amalolabe makolo kutsogolera moyo wake momwe akuonera. Ngakhale mwanayo akukula monga munthu, nthawi zambiri amavomereza kuti makolo amamusankha malo okhala, chakudya, sukulu ndi malo opumula. Pa msinkhu uwu, mwanayo ali ndi njinga, mabuku, kompyuta, zipangizo zamaseŵera, nthawizina kamera yosavuta. Ana a zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, monga lamulo, ali ofanana ndi wina ndi mnzake mu zovala ndi ntchito.
Zofunikira za kukula kwa mwana wa zaka za pakati (6-12):
• chisangalalo chodziwa dziko kunja kwa banja;
• chitukuko;
• kuphulika kwa makhalidwe abwino;
• Kukulitsa luso la kuzindikira malingaliro.
Makhalidwe abwino
Ana a zaka zapakati pa zisanu ndi ziwiri ndi zisanu ndi zinayi ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi zabwino, zoipa, zomwe adzalangidwa, ndi chifukwa chake akutamandidwa. Kukula kwawo kuli pokhapokha pamene makhalidwe abwino amakhala mbali yofunika kwambiri pamoyo. Komabe, ziweruzo zawo za zabwino ndi zoipa ndizochepa: sizimasiyanitsa zowonongeka mwadzidzidzi komanso mwangozi. Mwachitsanzo, mungamufunse mwanayo khalidwe loipa lomwe amalingalira kwambiri:
• Mtsikanayo amanyamula makapu pang'ono, mbale ndi mbale pa tray. Msungwanayo akupita, trayiti imatuluka m'manja mwake, ndipo mbale zonse zapakona zimathyoka. Mwanayo amakwiya ndi amayi ake ndipo amaponya mbale pansi ndi mkwiyo; mbaleyo yathyoledwa. Ana ambiri ang'onoang'ono adzipeza kuti pachiyambi choyamba msungwanayo anachita khalidwe lalikulu kwambiri, chifukwa amathyola zakudya zambiri. Komabe, ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zinayi, ana ayamba kumvetsetsa kuti chinthu chachikulu sizotsatira zotsatirazo, koma cholinga. Ana a zaka zapakati pa zisanu ndi ziwiri ndi zisanu ndi zinayi akufunsidwa kuti achitepo kanthu. Amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mfundo zosavuta, ndipo m'tsogolomu adzakhala ndi malingaliro abwino omwe angathandize kuthetsa mavuto osiyanasiyana a moyo. Ana omwe amapita kumalo amenewa akhoza kuwononga zidole molingana ndi kukula kwawo, malinga ndi maonekedwe awo, koma sangathe kuthetsa, mwachitsanzo, vuto lotsatira: "Ngati chidole A chiri chapamwamba kusiyana ndi chidole B, koma pansi pa chidole B, chidole ndi chikutali kwambiri?" Yankho ndilofunika kuganiza ndi zosaganizira, zomwe, monga lamulo, zimayamba kukula mu zaka 10-11.
Choonadi ndi Fiction
Maonekedwe a makhalidwe abwino ndi chikhumbo chafunafuna choonadi chenicheni chikuchitika mwa ana pamene ayamba kukayikira kukhalapo kwa Santa Claus ndikufunsa anthu mafunso okhudza imfa. Ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi zitatu, ana amatha kunena zoona kuchokera kuzinthu zenizeni ndipo sakhulupirira kuti ana amabweretsedwa ndi timphepete. Ndili ndi zaka eyiti, ana ndi othandiza kwambiri: amakonda nkhani za anthu enieni amene asonyeza kulimba mtima kapena nzeru, kapena za anthu akuluakulu kapena ana omwe apanga luso lapadera. Pazaka izi, ana ambiri amapeza dziko la mabuku ndikusangalala kuwerenga, makamaka m'mabanja omwe makolo amakonda kuŵerenga, ndi kuwonerera TV ili yochepa. Maluso amtundu wa mwanayo akupitiriza kukula mofulumira, ndipo izi, kuphatikizapo mphamvu zopanda mphamvu ndi changu, zimamulola kusangalala kuchita zojambula zosiyanasiyana, kukoka, kusoka ndi kusewera magwiritsidwe, monga njanji.
Kupititsa patsogolo maganizo
Kuphunzira nthawi zonse kumafuna chipiriro ndi chipiriro kuti akwaniritse ntchito. Ana omwe ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zinai nthawi zina amatopa ndikumakhala okhumudwa komanso opsinjika maganizo. Iwo akhoza kukhala odzimva okha, koma kudzipereka ndi kudziletsa pa m'badwo uno akadali ofookabe. Ngati ana atopa kwambiri, amayamba kukhala ochepa. Komabe, kuyambira pa zaka eyiti psyche ya mwanayo imakhala yosasunthika, zimadalira akuluakulu ndipo sizongodzikonda monga ana ambiri. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mwanayo akhale ndi bwenzi lapamtima yemwe angathe kusewera ndi kumayankhula kwa maola popanda kuthandizidwa ndi akuluakulu.
Masewera olimba
Ana a zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri mphambu zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zitatu ali ndi mphamvu zochuluka zomwe amafunikira kuchita, monga tenisi, kusambira, mpira, kuthamanga, kupalasa masewero olimbitsa thupi, kuvina ndi kumenyana kwamtendere (izi zimakhudza anyamata: atsikana amakangana komanso amakangana nthawi zambiri mawu, kuposa kumenyana wina ndi mzake). Masewera a ana ndi olimbikira kwambiri moti nthawi zina amatopa makolo awo ndi aphunzitsi awo. Choncho sizosadabwitsa kuti ana a m'badwo uwu akuyenera kugona maola 70 pa sabata, kutanthauza maola 10 usiku uliwonse. Ana ambiri akugona mochepa, koma madokotala amachenjeza kuti kutopa kosatha chifukwa chosowa tulo kumakhudza kwambiri sukulu ndi chitukuko.
Zomwe zimayendera chakudya
Chakudya cholakwika ndi chifukwa chodera madokotala ndi makolo a ana a m'badwo uwu. Kawirikawiri, ana samadya chakudya cham'mawa kunyumba, amadya chakudya cham'mawa pa sukulu komanso amadya usiku. Odwala ndi aphunzitsi amakhulupirira kuti kuti azigwira ntchito bwino kusukulu komanso zachikhalidwe, ana amafunikira chakudya choyenera kunyumba ndi kusukulu.