Mu arsenal of psychology, pali njira zoterezi zolerera ana pangozi, monga masewera ndi chithandizo chamakono. Njirazi "zimasonyezedwa" komanso zochititsa mantha, komanso zosautsa, komanso ana osasamala kwambiri. Kujambula, kusewera, kuvina, kukoka ndizo mankhwala othandiza kwambiri, zipangizo zothandiza pophunzitsa. Kodi sindinu katswiri wa zamaganizo ndipo mulibe njira izi? Zomwe mungathe ndizowonjezera. Mumamvetsetsa ndikumverera bwino mwana wanu kuposa akatswiri odziwa zambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake mudzatha kuthana ndi mavuto ambiri ngati mutaphunzira kusewera ndi mwana wanu mwachidwi.
Nkhani Yopanga
Chinthu choyamba kuchita ndi kukonzekera ma tebulo omwe amafunikira "masewera okhala ndi subtext." Musati muwopsyeze - palibe chovuta mu izi. Ngakhale kuli kofunikira, atakhala ndi mndandanda, atenge nthawi kuti asonkhanitse "props" ndi anthu onse. Mudzafunika:
• banja lachidole - mwana wamwamuna ndi wamkazi, mayi, bambo, mwana, agogo, agogo aamuna, komanso amalume ndi azakhali;
• Anzanga achiwerewere "mwana wamkazi" kapena "mwana" wamwamuna;
• Anthu omwe ali ndi nkhope zoopsya komanso zoipa zomwe zimakhala ngati mnzako wamantha omwe nthawi ina adawopseza, kapena udindo wa mphunzitsi wosakondedwa kwambiri;
• zidole zokhala ndi nkhope zokoma komanso zokondwera - kuti akhale mphunzitsi wabwino, wamatsenga kapena wamatsenga wabwino, mchimake kapena chifanizo;
• zida zankhondo;
• Ojambula achiroma: Kalonga wolimba (kwa atsikana), Hulk, Spiderman (kwa anyamata);
• odana ndi masewera - ziwanda zoipa, robots, alendo;
• kwa anyamata-gulu la asilikali, akasinja, magalimoto, mabasiketi, ziboda kapena sabata;
• kwa atsikana - nyama zamphongo zozizwitsa, zomwe, ngati kuli kofunikira, zingathe kuchita ntchito iliyonse yolembedwa;
• makapu omwe mungamange nyumba ya chidole ndi nsanja;
• pepala lofiira, pulasitiki, maburashi, zojambula, zizindikiro, album yojambula.
Komabe, ngakhale makolo atasonkhanitsa theka la zonsezi, izi zidzakhala zokwanira kuyamba.
Ngati ana ali oipa pamene akudya
Kawirikawiri, ana amanjenjete ochokera ku gulu loopsya ali capricious pa chifukwa chilichonse. Msungwana wanu sangakhoze kudyetsa, samathandiza kulimbikitsa kulikonse? Chabwino, lolani mwanayo lero akhale papa - wophika kapena amayi, yemwe amachitira banja lake. Timapeza zidole za suti yamatsenga. Bweretsani zidole zonse kuzungulira tebulo la chidole, ikani mphika wabwino. Pangani chisangalalo, chikondwerero ndi zosangalatsa. Kwa ichi, liwu liwu la zomwe zikuchitika, chifukwa mwanayo mwiniyo sadziwa momwe angachitire. Koma muyenera kuyesa: "Tikaika mbale zogometsa kwambiri, timayitanira alendo ku nyumba yathu, timakonza zokoma, zopanda pake. Monga aliyense amakonda cutlets, bambo akupempha mankhwala owonjezera. Ndipo m'bale, yang'anani, pakuti masaya onse awiri akuveketsa buckwheat gruel! Mudzamupatsa zakudya zowonjezeramo ndikukondwera kuti aliyense ali ndi chokoma kwambiri! Kodi agogo anu akufuna kumupatsa chidutswa cha nkhuku? Sankhani kuti azikonda kwambiri. Ndi momwe amamwetulira, kumenyana! Ndi bwino kudya chakudya chokoma! "
Nthawi yotsatira, muzisewera ndi mwana pokonzekera chakudya chamadzulo. Pamene ndikumupereka kuti azisangalala ndi kaloti, ndiuzeni momwe ndingapezere chidutswa cha beet, dzipatseni kagawo kakang'ono ka nyama. Perekani banja lachidole ndi mwanayo kuti alawe apulo yowutsa mudyo, yofiira. Ndimasewerawa mumapanga chidwi cha mwana, zosangalatsa zabwino. Mudzawona, posakhalitsa maganizo ake pa chakudya adzasintha.
Chotsani chiwawa
Kodi mukuda nkhaŵa za kuphulika kwaukali ndi kukwiya komwe kumachitika nthawi zonse kwa ana omwe ali pangozi? Mwanayo akugwedeza nkhonya kwa agogo ake, amayesetsa kukankhira mnansi wake pamchenga wa mchenga, mumalowetsa m'chifuwa. Ndipo aphunzitsi akudandaula za iye. Inu mukunyalanyaza womenya, pofotokoza kuti simungathe kuchita izi, koma khalidwe lake silinasinthe. Mwachiwonekere, mwanayo ali ndi zifukwa zokwiyira ndi mkwiyo, iwe sungakhoze kumvetsa panobe, mwa iye kapena mu chiyani. Ndipo sakudziwa momwe angalankhulire malingaliro ake kotero kuti amamveka, ndipo musapweteke aliyense. Pano kachiwiri, njira yowera yolera ana (osati gulu loopsya) - masewera - akhoza kupulumutsa.
Kodi mwawona momwe mnyamata wakwiya akugwiritsira mfuti ndikukukutsutsani chifukwa inu munakana chinachake kapena mwalanga? Musati mutenge chida, musandiuze kuti mukutsutsa choletsedwa, kuti anthu saloledwa kuwombera. Kuphunzira bwino kumathandiza kuti mwanayo asamvetsetse, koma mawu ophweka: "Mukukwiya." Zivomerezani, kutuluka uku ndi zotsatira zakumverera kuli bwino kuposa kuyesa kugunda kapena kuluma. Sewani ndi mwanayo pankhondo, ndipo perekani chitsanzo kwa mwanayo. Pankhani imeneyi, sutikesi yamatsenga imathandiza. Pezani asilikali. Lolani mwanayo kutaya mkwiyo wake pa mdani wa chidole: kuwukweza ndi matanki, kuwombera, kugwa pansi, koma kungokoka makutu ake bwino. Mabomba otsindikizidwa ku nyuzipepala yakale ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yowonjezeretsa moyo.
Ana a gulu loopseza akhoza kupeza zosangalatsa zambiri ngati mutenga mdani woipa, ndiyeno "muwononge" izo, mochuluka komanso mopanda chifundo ndi pepala lakuda. Sizingakhale zoipitsa kupanga chilombo chochokera ku pulasitiki, kenako nkukhalitsa, kuphulika, kuchiwombera m'magawo osiyana. Ichomwini mumasewerowa owonetsedwa ndi mantha - uwu ndi mwayi wanu kuti mudziwe zomwe zimayambitsa mwanayo kuti azidana naye. Lolani chirombo chipemphere chifundo, kufuula ndikufunseni chifukwa chake akumulanga. Chifukwa chokakamizidwa kumvera ndi kumvera? Kapena kodi nthawi zonse amawombera ndi kuphunzitsa, zidole zikuchotsedwa? Mwanayo, atamva "mawu olondola", adzatsimikizira izo ndi mawu kapena kutulutsa mtima. Ndipo mwamsanga khalani chete. Choncho, simungophunzitsa mwana wanu kuti afotokoze maganizo ake molakwika, komanso amvetse momwe angamuthandizire kuthana ndi mavuto.
Malamulo akuluakulu olerera ana pangozi
Kuti maseŵera anu othandizana nawo athandize mwanayo, makolo ayenera kutsatira malamulo angapo:
- Muzimvetsera mwachidwi ndi zokonda za zinyenyeswazi, musanyoze masewera ake.
- Muzidziganizira nokha. Chidwi chanu ndi chimwemwe chanu zidzaperekedwa kwa mwanayo.
- Zina masewero, kujambula, kuwonetsera - mudzawona mtundu wa mawonedwe a pafupi kwambiri ndi mwana wanu.
- Musamakakamize Karapuza kusewera. Ngati muwona kuti wataya chidwi kapena sakukhutira ndi chinachake, yang'anani ku ntchito ina.
Potsata njira zosavuta zolerera ana pangozi, mukhoza kuwaphunzitsa kuyankha moyenera ndi zovuta ndikuwonetsa bwino maganizo awo. Ngati mutafika pa mulanduyo mobwerezabwereza ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira za maphunziro nthawi zonse, patapita zaka zingapo mudzaiwala kuti mwana wanu ali pangozi. Adzakula ndithu kuti akhale munthu weniweni, kudzilemekeza yekha komanso ena.