Kusakhulupirika kungakhale kosiyana. Mwamuna wamasintha ndi mkazi wotsalira kapena Mulungu amaletsa, ndi bwenzi, bwenzi amauza anthu osadziwika zinsinsi zanu zonse, wokondedwa wanu watuluka mwachikhulupiliro. Banja lanu silinakuchitireni chifundo ndipo silinakuthandizeni mutayamba kukhala ndi mavuto. Monga momwe mukuonera, mndandandawu ukhoza kupitilizidwa kosatha komanso osati mndandanda wa zosakhulupirika, komanso mndandanda wa zotsatira zomwe zikukuyembekezerani m'tsogolomu. Mndandandawu ukhoza kuphatikizapo: kuchepa kwa kudzidalira, kuthetsa maubwenzi, kutayika kwa chikhulupiliro mu maubwenzi ambiri, kudandaula kwakukulu, malingaliro oipa, mantha ndi kupsinjika maganizo. Koma pali njira zingapo zomwe mungathe kuthana ndi maganizo oipa komanso kupsinjika maganizo ngati mutaperekedwa.
- Ganizani. Tengani nthawi kuti muzindikire zonse zomwe zachitika ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa ngati kuli koyenera kupulumutsa maubwenzi omwe apitako kale ndipo sakubweretsani inu chisangalalo. Yesetsani kuphunzira zonse kuti muthe kulingalira za zomwe zinakupangitsani kuti mugulitse ndi chifukwa chake mukuyenera. Pamene malingaliro onse omwe ali pamutu mwanu mumayika pamasamulo, mumakhala kosavuta kutenga gawo lotsatira. Kuwonjezera apo, kusonkhanitsa ndi kusakaniza zochitika zonse kudzakutonthozani, kotero mutha kuganiza mofatsa bwino.
- Tchulani zosavutazo. Mungathe kukwiya ndi munthu amene anakuperekani monga momwe mukufunira, koma apa ndikuti muthetse mkwiyo wanu - izi zikuphwanyidwa bwino. Ngati mukufuna kuyamba kumwa mankhwala omwe angakuthandizeni kuiwala ndikupulumuka masautso kapena kuvutika ndi kuphedwa kwa masabata, simungapweteke aliyense koma inu nokha.
- Lekani kupita. Kufikira ndi phindu pa chifukwa: chitani chomwe chimakupangitsani kuti mukhale bwino. Lirani, yendani nthawi yayitali kuzungulira mzindawu, alowe mugalimoto ndikupita kwina popanda cholinga chenicheni. Ziribe kanthu kuti zonsezi zikuwoneka ngati zachilendo bwanji, ngati zimakupangitsani kukhala kosavuta, chitani.
- Khala wolimba mtima. Izi ndi zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri ndipo nthawi yomweyo zimakhala zovuta kupirira. Koma ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili zovuta kuti muzindikire kuti inu munaperekedwa, mwatsoka, izo ziyenera kuti zichitidwe. Kusakhulupirika ndi mbali ya moyo wathu. Ngati mutasankha bwino ndikupeza zogwirizana, izi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsa bwino abwenzi anu, anzanu akuntchito ndi anzanu m'tsogolomu.
- Ulemu. Kupitilira mayesero ndi mutu wanu wokhazikika. Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti mukulondola, musapangire zifukwa kwa wina aliyense. Ndi bwino kupangitsa anthu kusiya kukayikira dzina lanu loyera.
- Pepani. Zomwe zadutsa, simungabwerere, ndipo mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo zomwe zapezeka mkati, zidzasokoneza zambiri tsiku ndi tsiku. Kotero, ziribe kanthu momwe zilili zovuta kwa inu, khululukirani. Nthawi zina chikhululuko ndi chida choopsa kwambiri kwa adani anu komanso olakalaka.
- Ikani zolinga patsogolo panu. Sungani ndi mphamvu ndipo yesetsani kupeza zambiri zomwe mungathe kutero. Izi zidzakupangitsani inu kulimbika maganizo ndi uzimu. Ganizirani zofunikira zanu ndikudzifunsa nokha zatsopano.
- Pezani kudzoza. Yang'anani kanema yomwe mumaikonda ndi ojambula omwe mumawakonda, zomwe zimakupangitsani kusangalatsa kwambiri. Mvetserani nyimbo zomwe zingakulimbikitseni, werengani mabuku othandiza. Pezani chinachake chomwe chingakupatseni mphamvu ndikukupangitsani kusunthira popanda kubwerera.
- Khalani ndi chidaliro mwa inueni. Ngati mutasakhulupirika mumakhala osadzidalira nokha, fufuzani njira yobweretsera zonse, ndipo mwinamwake mungasinthe malo anu. Mukhoza kupeza makhalidwe atsopano omwe simukuwadziwa. Kusokonezeka maganizo, kudabwa, palibe makhalidwe oipa okha.
- Ganizirani mogwira mtima. Ganizirani mosamala za tsogolo lanu, za ubale wakale ndi watsopano. Kodi mukufuna kupereka kachiwiri kuyang'ana kwa anthu kapena zochitika zakale, kupuma pang'ono kapena kusiya chirichonse?
- Yang'anani pa mantha anu pamaso. Chitani zochita zoopsa, yambani ubale watsopano, ngakhale kuti muli ndi mantha chifukwa cha ubale wakale. Palinso njira ina - kunena, zomwe mumaopa anzanu, achibale kapena anzanu okha.
- Kugwirizana. Panthawi imene mukukumana ndi kusokonezeka maganizo komanso kuganizira zolakwika, yesetsani kukhala nokha nokha. Lankhulani zambiri, lankhulani ndi omwe mungakhulupirire, kotero zidzakhala zosavuta kwa inu.
- Chiyembekezo. Chitani ntchito zanu zonse za tsiku ndi tsiku mwachiyembekezo, khalani ndi chisangalalo chabwino. Nthawi zonse muzidzikumbutsa kuti muli ndi chiyembekezo mu moyo, ngati mwadzidzidzi mumaiwala.
- Musabwezere. Kubwezera si njira yabwino kwambiri. Ndithudi izo sizikhala zopindulitsa nthawi ndi mphamvu zanu. Chigamulo chovomerezeka chovomerezeka kuti wolakwirayo sali woyenera kubwezera ndi chizindikiro cha kukula kwako, osati mantha konse, monga momwe mungaganizire.
- Kukula kwaumwini. Ganizirani pa kudzikonda kwanu. Khalani odzipereka, masewera kapena ntchito.
- Musadzipweteke nokha. Ngati muli ndi maganizo oipa tsiku ndi tsiku, yambani kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa, kusiya ntchito yanu, lekani kudziyang'anira nokha, mudzadzivulaza nokha, osati wolakwira. I-chinthu chofunika kwambiri chomwe muli nacho, musalole kuti wina aliyense achoke kwa inu.
- Musadzimvere chisoni. Phunzirani kuchita bwino ndi mawonetseredwe otetezeka. Kumbukirani yemwe inu muli ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita. Lekani kale kudzimvera chisoni. Kotero simungapindule kanthu. Inde, simunachite zabwino, koma muyenera kukhala amphamvu ndikupeza mphamvu kuti mupitirire. Kudzimvera chisoni ndikumangirira komwe kumakhudza thanzi lanu.
- Kawirikawiri amatanthawuza kuwona. Iyenera kukutsogolerani mu moyo ndikuthandizani posankha anzanu.
- Bwerani m'chikondi kachiwiri. Inde, mutatha kusakhulupirika ndi kovuta kuyambitsa ubale watsopano, koma kumbukirani kuti sikuti aliyense ali ngati chibwenzi chako.
- Ganizirani za tsogolo lanu, momwe mudzakhalira ndi zabwino kwambiri.
- Lekani kudandaula. Ganizirani pa zinthu zenizeni. Musalole maganizo oipa kuti akulandeni.
- Khalani oleza mtima. Kusakhulupirika sikudzakusiyani nokha ngati simukutsatira malangizo mu nkhaniyi. Choncho, khalani ololera, musataya mkwiyo wanu kwa ena.
- Pemphani thandizo. Ngati simukudziwa kuti mungathe kupirira maganizo anu, pitani ku msonkhano ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo.
