Ndikufuna kukhala mosangalala nthawi zonse

Maukwati 92% amapangidwa chifukwa cha chikondi. Izi ndi ziwerengero. Mwa izi, m'zaka 10 zotsatira, mphindi iliyonse imalekanitsa. Ndipo izi ndizo mwayi wodzisinkhasinkha. Inde, kukhala mosangalala nthawi zonse pambuyo pake, kumverera nokha sikukwanira. Ziribe kanthu momwe chikondi chanu chiliri wokongola, chimafuna zina. Ndikufuna kukhala mosangalala nthawi zonse - anthu ambiri amanena ndi kuganiza, koma si onse omwe amatha.

Mbiri yakale

"Sindinayambe ulendo umenewo, ndipo malo omwewo tsiku lomwelo ndi ola lomwelo analipo, ndipo adachokera mumzinda wina ndikusokoneza misewu ..." Zoonadi, nkhanizi zikhoza kukhala zosiyana (inu munathawa ndege imodzi , analowa m'gulu limodzi), ali ndi chinthu chimodzi chofanana: Mukutsimikiza kuti msonkhano uwu wakonzedwa kuchokera pamwamba, ndipo tsopano mukuganiza kuti zingakhale zoopsa ngati mutakhala pamalo olakwika komanso ola lomwelo. Sungani mantha awa kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo nkhani yokha, nayenso. Kumbukirani iye mu zochitika zina za chikondi (ngakhale kuti kukumbukira koteroko kumakhala kukondana kale), nthawi zina muziwauza anzanu ndipo kwenikweni - kwa ana anu. Musalole anthu oganiza bwino kuti afunse chinsinsi cha chochitika ichi. Nkhani zoterezi zimateteza chikondi, kuthandizira kupulumuka mavuto ndi kuteteza banja kuti lisagwirizane. Msonkhano wosakhala wosasintha umapangitsa kuti mgwirizano wanu ukhale wapadera komanso muzochitika zonse zimathandiza kuganiza bwino. Zambiri zingathe kukhalapo ngati mukudziwa kuti zonsezi sizingosangalatsa.

Mayeso: mamembala a banja

Dulani peyala ndi malo awiri ozungulira. Onani momwe dera lotseguka limakhala lalikulu. Iyenera kukhala 1 / 4-1 / 3, osati zambiri. Aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi malo ake, zofuna zake, zosangalatsa, anzake. Mwambi wina wa ku Japan umati: "Usamafalikire chikwangwani chimene agulugufe akukhala, ndipo nthawi zonse azibwera kwa iye." Wokongola komanso wolondola kwambiri.

Odala achimwemwe

Ngati banjali likuganiza kuti ubale wawo ndi wokondwa kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye kuti mmodzi mwa okwatirana ali ndi makolo omwewo omwe amakhala osangalala m'banja. Chimwemwe cha banja chimakhala cholowa: pambuyo pa zonse, timaphunzira makhalidwe a ubale kuyambira ali aang'ono, timawona momwe anthu achikondi amakhalira. Mmene mungagwirizanitsire, kukhululukira, kusonyeza kukoma mtima - zonsezi sizingaphunzire kuchokera m'mabuku, zimakhala zamoyo. Osamvetsetsa ndipo amakhala gawo lake. Ndipo munthu yemwe anakulira m'banja losangalala ali wamphamvu kwambiri kuti chimwemwe chake chingakhale chokwanira kwa awiri (ngati wokondedwayo alibe mwayi ngati mwana). Ngati simunaonepo chitsanzo chotere m'banja la makolo, ndiye kuti achibale ena komanso omwe angodziwana nawo angathandize. Pezani pakati pawo awiri (akulu, abwino) omwe mumakonda. Kawirikawiri yang'anani. Ngakhale chitsanzo chimodzi chokwanira kuti mu kuya kwa moyo wathu timatsimikiza: chikondi chingakhale moyo motalika kwambiri.

Danish Dictionary

Muyenera kukhala ndi mawu achinsinsi ndi mau omwe palibe wina amadziwa. Izi ndizotanthauza: ngati mutero, palibe koma mungamvetse. Inde, simukusowa kulankhula chinenero ichi konse, koma nthawi zina, nthawi zina, zimathandiza kwambiri, ngakhale mutakhala ndi mawu ambiri. Mwachitsanzo, munganene bwanji pa phwando kwa mnzanu yemwe sakuchita bwino: amamwa mowa kwambiri, zovomerezeka zomwe sizikukondweretsa (chifukwa sizingakhale za inu), zimakhala zosavuta? "Lekani njira iyi yothetsera!" - Mwinamwake, ndipo anthu oyandikana nawo amadziwa nthawi yomweyo: pakati panu chinachake chalakwika. Banja limodzi kwa zaka khumi ndi zinayi m'mayesero awa limati: "Musati muipse." Ndipo inu? Mudzafunikanso mawu omwe amasonyeza chikhumbo chotha msinkhu, kusonyeza kusakhutira kwakukulu ndi mawu ofanana ndi mawu akuti: "Tiyeni tipite kunyumba, kodi mungakhale ndi amayi anu mpaka liti?" Amuna omwe akhala pamodzi zaka zambiri zokondwa, ali ndi mawu awo khumi kapena atatu omwewo, osachepera. Mphatso popanda chifukwa, SMS-ki yopanda tanthauzo, kuyitanira kumisonkhano kumalimbikitsa chikondi ndi kukonda chikondi.

Munthu, mosiyana ndi zinyama, amafunikira kukhudzika kwakukulu ndi malingaliro atsopano. Ndiyeno ^ Tsiku lirilonse liri lofanana. "Ngakhale timakangana, monga momwe zilili m'malemba, ndimadziwa bwino zomwe anganene, ndipo amadziwa zomwe ndikanene." Chikondi chochuluka kwambiri kwa anthu chinalipo chisanakhale chikwati, chokwera chonchi kuti posachedwa iwo adzagawanitsa chifukwa "chibwenzi chakhala chosatha." Kusiyana kwakukulu kwambiri. Bwezerani nthawiyi n'zosatheka, koma kuti ubalewu ukhale wofunikira kwambiri. Malingana ndi mfundo ziwiri za maganizo, chisangalalo chirichonse, kuchokera kulikonse chomwe chimachitika, chimasamutsidwa ku chinthu chomwe chili pafupi ndi nthawi yomweyo chimawonedwa ngati chosangalatsa. Chikhalidwe chilichonse chimene chimachititsa kuti thupi likhale lolimba (ngakhale mantha kapena mkwiyo) limapangitsa kuti munthu azikondana. Choncho, m'pofunika kuchita zinthu pamodzi zomwe zimayambitsa mphamvu. Zodabwitsa zilizonse zothandiza, ngakhale zitakonzedwa. Mawonedwe omwe sagwirizana ndi zochitika (mwachitsanzo, "kuyang'ana" kwa nthawi yayitali pa achibale kapena pamsewu wapansi). Ndikumangika msonkhano wina ndi mnzake. Kodi ndiyotani kuti mupite kumapeto ena a mzinda ndikukhala pa benchi mukakhala ndi nyumba yabwino? Inde, ayi. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kwambiri.

Zikondwerero zonse

Misonkhanoyi nthawi zambiri imakhala yachinsinsi, imakhala ngati zida zamkati ndi malamulo. "Ife sitinasiye konse mwamtendere." Iye ankamufuula mokweza kuti: "Zonse tsopano!", "Ife timapsyopsyona pamene ife timakumana, ngakhale ife titalekanitsa kwa theka la ora." Zikuoneka kuti miyambo yoteroyo imayenera kulepheretsa chiyanjano ndi kuchepetsa. Choyamba, tifunika kukhala otsimikiza poyendetsera moyo wathu, tikusowa kuti chinachake chimakhala chofanana, chosatha. Zomwe zimapereka zimangopereka chidziwitso .Zomwe zimachitika kuzungulira, zilizonse zoyenera ife sitinali nkhawa, chirichonse chiri mu dongosolo, ngati ine ndikanalibe Kuchokera pawindo. Kuwonjezera apo, miyamboyi ndi yamphamvu ndipo salola kulowerera mukumenyana kwakukulu. Ngati inu ndi mwamuna wanu muli ndi lamulo la kupsompsona pamene mukupita kuntchito, mungathe kunena molimba mtima kuti mkangano pakati panu sukhazikika. Kuwonjezera apo, palibe chifukwa choganizira momwe mungapangire Ndipotu, miyambo yamtundu umenewu imapanga mwambo umodzi wokha - kumvetsera ndi kusunga maubwenzi abwino ngakhale zilizonse.