Nchifukwa chiyani amai ena amakonda kukhala okongola, pamene ena samatero?

Tikachoka panyumba, timatumizira kalata kudziko lonse lapansi, yomwe tikukupemphani kuti mutichitire njira ina. Uthengawu ndi thupi lathu, zovala, nkhope ndi mawu. Amayi ambiri nthawi yomweyo amatsogolera nthawi yomweyo, amasankha mosamala zovala, kuyesa kuyang'ana pamaso pa ena kukhala okongola momwe angathere (nthawi zina, mwachiwonekere kugwedeza ndi njira za "kukongola kokongola"). Ena, mosiyana ndi zimenezo, amavala jeans zosavuta zaka 10 ndi sweti yotambasula, osayesayesa kuwoneka pamaso pa anthu opanda tsitsi loyera komanso opanda chidwi. Kodi tikufuna kunena chiyani za ife motere? Ku Japan, maulendo a madokotala a mano: amayi akufunsa madokotala kuti awapange kukhala kumwetulira kwa ana, komwe maonekedwe akukhudza, koma osati okongola, apitiliza. Kufanana kwa mwana wachinyamatayo kumawononga pafupifupi madola mazana anayi, koma mutatha kulipira mungakhale otsimikiza - kupambana kwa amuna ndi kotsimikizika. Izi zinachitika: chifukwa cha chikondi cha mtundu wa anime, atsikana, ofanana ndi achinyamata, adakopeka ndi amuna. Ndani angaganize kuti ngakhale mano, pafupifupi nthawi zonse amalingalira chimodzi mwa zizindikiro za mkazi wokongola, amachoka mu mafashoni?

Koma, mwinamwake, chowonadi ndikuti asungwana achijeremani sali pambuyo pa kukongola. Malingana ndi akatswiri ambiri a maganizo, kukongola ndi kukhudzidwa sikuli kogwirizanitsa, komanso, ndi mitengo yosiyana. Kukhudza - ndi kokongola, kokongola, kokongola, kokondweretsa. Zonsezi zikukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi ana. Kukongola kumatsimikiziridwa kale, kukwiya, kugonana, khalidwe, kukula ndi malemba a mafashoni. Ndipo iyi ili kale dziko lachikulire.

Inde, ndi. Koma kukhudzidwa mtima kwa amayi a ku Japan, omwe adalengedwa mothandizidwa ndi madokotala a mano, adakali wosakanizidwa ndi gawo la chikhalidwe chokonzekera ndi chinyengo: cholinga chenicheni cha atsikanawa sichiwoneka bwino, koma kukopa ndi kukopa.

Kunja kwa dziko la Japan, mafashoni am'tsogolo asanatulukidwe (ngakhale kuti n'zosatheka kuti asiye), ndipo m'madera ena kukongola kwachikhalidwe kwa malowa kumayendetsedwa: kwinakwake - chiuno chochepa ndi chifuwa chachikulu, kwinakwake - zosachimwa zosatheka ndi cellulite, kwinakwake - mphete pamlomo wapansi. Ndipo wokongola kwambiri kuposa mkaziyo, ndibwino kuti iye, mwachinsinsi, akhale ndi moyo: kukongola kumagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chida, ngati kiyi yomwe imatsegula chitseko kudziko lamatsenga. Sikuti anthu ambiri amakondana komanso amakhala ndi phindu lokwatirana - zofufuza za anthu zimatsimikizira kuti akufuna kukhala ndi abwenzi kapena kuyamba kukondana ndi anthu okongola, amakhala olembedwa, amawakhululukira zambiri.

Timagwiritsa ntchito kukongola kwathu monga chida, timayesetsa kuti izi zitheke: timasankha zovala zomwe zimapita kwa ife, timasaka mizu ya tsitsi, timasewera masewera komanso timakhala pa zakudya kuti tipeze kukongola kwa chiwerengerocho. Komabe, mukhoza kupitiriza kupukuta ndi kukulitsa chidacho mpaka icho chitatha, kapena mukhoza, mmalo mwake, kuziika pakona ndikuchiyang'ana mosasamala ngati chikuphwanyidwa ndi fumbi.

Bust ndi kusintha
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Onse kuti athetse nthawi. Anayamba kukhala mnyamata. Musakhale moyo, osamva kukhala ndi moyo wambiri, wodzaza ndi chimwemwe china, osati chofanana ndi anyamata. Kuti mupeze ndikumva chimwemwe ichi cha theka lachiwiri la moyo, munthu ayenera kukhala ndi nzeru, luntha, kukhudzidwa ndi luso lalikulu lakumverera. Achinyamata amawongolera, koma omwe akuvutika kuti adzichepetse paunyamata, amalephera kuthekera. Kukhala wokhutira pambuyo pa thupi, pamene nkhope ikuyamba kufanana ndi maski - pambuyo pa mapulasitiki, botox ndipo chifukwa chabe mphamvu zimapangitsa maonekedwe a makwinya.

Botox ndi maganizo akugwirizana. Mankhwalawa amachitira anthu, kuyesa kubisa zotsatira za kusonyeza maganizo awo, ngati kuti awathetse moyo wawo. Kafukufuku wina amasonyeza kuti botox imangolepheretsa kulankhula zakukhosi, komanso imakhudza kuthekera kwawo kuyesa. Ndipo munthu akuyesa mwakukhoza kwake kuti asamadzimvere yekha ndipo asamamve kalikonse, akutsatira njira yolakwika.

Pambuyo pa opaleshoni yambiri ya pulasitiki ndi mantha a ukalamba ndi imfa - mmalo mozindikira kapena kusinkhasinkha za izo, akazi amayembekeza kuti akhale ndi moyo kosatha, pakati pa mafani ndi odyetsa, omwe sasiya. Ndipo kuti musataye mmenemo, muyenera kukhalabe aang'ono nthawi zonse.

Kuchita chidwi kwambiri ndi opaleshoni ya pulasitiki, osagwirizana ndi chikhumbo chokonza chilengedwe chomwe poyamba chinalenga (mwachitsanzo, kuwongolera mphuno pamphuno kapena kupanga makutu a makutu nthawizonse), koma pofuna kuyesa kukhala thupi lokongola ndi nkhope yosamvetsetseka, zingakhalenso yankho kwa makolo omwe ali ochuluka kwambiri ankafuna kuchokera kwa mwana wawo, akulota kuti kukongola kwake ndi luso lake zidzawabweretsere chikondi ndi ulemu.

Makolo akhoza kufotokozera malingaliro abwino, ndipo ziyembekezero zimenezi zimayambidwa poyamba pokhudzana ndi thupi, maonekedwe, ndiyeno zimafalikira ku mbali zonse za moyo waumunthu. Choncho amayesa kuthana ndi mavuto awo, kudziganizira okha, koma zimakhudza mwanayo. Mtsikana akamakula, amavutika moyo wake wonse chifukwa chodzichepetsa, chifukwa cholephera kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Chotsatira chake, kuyesa kudzikweza, choyamba, pa thupi, pogwiritsira ntchito mapulasitiki ambiri, ndizotheka kwambiri.

Thupi lochepa
Pa nkhondo ya kukongola pali otsutsana - omwe samadziyang'ana okha. Pamene chilakolako chokhala wokongola chimatha, zikhoza kutanthauza kuti pakalipano sitifuna kuchita chilichonse - osati kumanga maubwenzi, kapena kuwathandiza, kapena kukonda ena, kusintha chilichonse m'miyoyo yathu, kapena kupambana. Zimakhalapo ngati munthu "ataya" mwiniwake kapena alibe mphamvu ndi thupi. Mphamvu zonse zimapita ku chinthu china, mwachitsanzo, kuthetsa mavuto a maubwenzi a ana kapena abambo. Nthawi zina izi zimachitika mwa awiriwa, pomwe mgwirizano wothandizana nawo umachitika. Pa nthawi yomweyi, mmodzi wa iwo akhoza kuthetsa kwathunthu ndikukhala moyo wake chifukwa cha iyemwini, kudziiwala yekha, kusiya kudziŵa zosowa zake. Kugonana kolakwika ndi amuna, nazonso, kukhoza kuchititsa kuti mkazi yemwe ali ndi maonekedwe ake akuwombera iwo omwe akufuna kuyankhulana naye.

Kusasamala, kusayanjanitsa maonekedwe ake, komanso china chirichonse, kungakhale zizindikiro za kuvutika maganizo kapena matenda oyamba. Pambuyo pa chithandizo, chidwi chake chimabwerera. Koma pali zochitika zina pamene mkazi safuna kuti akhale wokongola, akudzidalira yekha ndi ena kuti amakonda mdima wokha ndi mthumba, ndipo tsitsi losasamba ndi zikopa za kutalika kwake ndi zachilendo. Mkazi wotero ngati akudziwitsa kuti: "Musandiyang'ane, ndipo ngati muyang'ana, patukani!" Akhoza kubisala ndi kuuma, akukangana kuti wina ayenera kukonda moyo, osati thupi, ndi kumbuyo kwawamasewero okondwa kulemba mabasiketi monga: "Mayi wabwino samatuluka ndi manicure." Mkazi wabwino amakhala ndi manicure. Manyowa a manja sali odetsedwa - ndibwino! " Ndipo padzakhala anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo omwe adzasamalira mawu ake ndi kuvomereza kokonda kapena zofuna zina khumi ndi ziwiri.

Zosasangalatsa za maonekedwe awo, osati zokhudzana ndi msangamsanga wa thupi lathu kapena maganizo athu, akubisala muubwana. Maso a mayi ndiwo galasi yoyamba pomwe mwanayo amatha kudziwona yekha ndikuwerenga kuti amamvetsetsa komanso amamukonda monga momwe alili, ndi zofooka ndi zolakwa zonse. Umu ndi mmene chithunzi chokhalira chokha chimapangidwira. Ngati mtsikanayo amatsutsana ndi amayi ake, kuvomereza kuti mkaziyo ndi mkazi wake kungakhale kovuta. Mwachitsanzo, kukongola ndi kupambana kwanu kungakuwonetsedwe ndi mkazi ngati chipambano pa amayi, chomwe chimaphatikizapo chilango cholingalira pambali yake kapena chifukwa chodzimva kuti ndi wolakwa chifukwa cha kugonjetsedwa kwake.

Timapereka chizindikiro
Kodi ndi uthenga wotani umene timapereka kwa dziko lapansi, kodi tikufuna chiyani? Kuvala nsapato ndi zidendene ndi siketi yachifupi, tikukonzekera kukopa chidwi cha amuna, ndikusiya nyumbayo ndi thukuta losaoneka, ndikuyesa kubisala anthu ena. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, tingadabwe ngati palibe munthu amene amavomereza kapena kuvala milomo yofiira: Kusakhutira kukhala wokongola nthawi zina kumakhala kovuta kwambiri, kumakhalabe kopanda kanthu, ndipo timadabwa mozama chifukwa chake chida cha kukongola kwathu sichigwira ntchito - imayikidwa ngati n'kofunika. Ndiye vuto ndi chiyani?

Chithunzi chomwe timalenga ndi kusankha zovala, nsapato, zikwama zazing'ono ndi zina zogwiritsira ntchito sizidadziwitsidwa kwa wina ndi mzake, ndipo zimakamba za momwe munthu akufuna kuwonera pamaso pa ena. Ndipo mawonetseredwe a chikhalidwe - maonekedwe, manja, nkhope, kayendetsedwe ka moyo - kutumiza uthenga wokhudza ife moona mtima kwa ena chifukwa ndi zovuta kulamulira. Mwachitsanzo, dera la milomo silikugonjetsedwa ndi munthu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngakhale kusankha "kukhala wokongola" ndi kugwiritsa ntchito khama, sungathe kukopa chidwi popanda mzimu wamkati. Ndipo ngakhale ngati tikuwoneka tokha pagalasi timangokhala okongola - chithumwa, osati mtsikana! - omwe amatiwona mu zovala zokongola komanso mosamala, adzatha kuzindikira kukoma mtima kwathu, koma osamvetsetsa, maganizo ake adapanga chifukwa: "Chinachake chimatsutsa." Kotero chidziwitso chawo chidzawerengera zathu, momwechonso chikhumbo cholimba cha ubale ndi kubwezera kwa wina yemwe watisiya ife, ndi mkwiyo, ndi kuletsa maubwenzi, akhoza kubisala. Chifukwa chidziŵitso sichingatheke kuchitika, kupatula kuti munthu pachibwenzi ichi ali ndi zifukwa zake zokha, komanso sakhudzana makamaka ndi chifundo, ubwenzi ndi chikondi.

Kodi ndi ndani kwenikweni amene timayesetsa kuti tizikhala okongola? Tiyeni titsimikizire lingaliro losaoneka la "dziko", kumene pali uthenga wina, ndi munthu wa konkire amene tikufuna kunena chinachake. Choyamba, ndi nkhani ya zakukhosi ndi zochitika zomwe zimafalitsidwa ndi thupi lomwe amadziwika ndi munthu aliyense kuchokera pa kubadwa. Choyamba choyankhulana choterocho chimayamba kuyambira tili ana, ndipo zizindikiro zomwe zimatumizidwa kudziko mwakukula sizinali zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe mwana amatumiza kwa amayi: "Zimandipweteka, ndikuchita mantha, ndikuona kuti ndikusafunikira" kapena "Ndine wokondwa, ndimakonda , Ndikugwirizana ndi ndekha ndi dziko lapansi. "

Monga mwana, mobwerezabwereza tikuyembekezera yankho, tikufuna kuti timvetsetse ndi kumvedwa. Mwachidziwitso, ndiko kufufuza chikondi chenicheni, chopanda phindu, chomwe, poyamba pakuwona, chiri chovuta kukumana nacho mu dziko loyesa.

Mutha kutsutsa dziko lino posiya nsapato ndikuyeretsa mwachidwi kuti kalonga wokongola adzaona chuma chathu chauzimu. Koma izi ndizoopsa kwambiri: ndi zofanana, pamene manja ali oyera, ndipo manicure ndi abwino, ndipo masowo sangawotche: "Tsopano inu mudzandipatsa achinyamata anga osatha, ziribe kanthu kuti atha nthawi yaitali bwanji." Akalonga, pazinthu zonse zomwe anali kubisala, ndi anthu. Amazikonda pamene zili zokongola. Ndipo nthawi zonse musaiwale mawu anzeru a Leo Tolstoy: "N'zosadabwitsa kuti chithunzi chokwanira ndichoti kukongola kuli bwino."