Izi zikutanthauza kuti anthu 53% otsala omwe ali ndi mtundu wawo ali ndi mavuto ena. Tidzayesa mavuto awa pamasalefu, tipeze chimene chimatilepheretsa kupanga anzathu atsopano komanso, omwe ali ndi ziphuphu, amawachotsa.
Choyamba, zimatilepheretsa kupanga anzathu atsopano kuti asayambe kuyambitsa! Zimatero choncho. Anthu ena amakonda kusungulumwa kapena amakhala ndi moyo wopanda ubwenzi. Kotero mukufunikira kupanga chisankho, mukusowa anzanu atsopano, kodi mumafuna anzanu atsopano kapena mumamva bwino? Mukasankha kuti mukhale anzanu komanso kuti mudziwe bwino, chitanipo kanthu! Musabise! Musaope! Musakhale pakhomo!
Mungathe kumwetulira? Funso limeneli silinayambe mwachangu. Mwinamwake, kupanga anzanu atsopano kwa inu kumasokonezedwa ndi chisoni chodetsa nkhaŵa. Amene akufuna kulankhulana ndi katundu. Mawu osokoneza amatsutsa komanso amawopsya anthu omwe akuzungulirani. Zindikirani kuti abwenzi ambiri ali ndi munthu yemwe akumwetulira, yemwe ali ndi sonorous, kuseka, chifukwa kumwetulira ndiwonetsero za ubwino, chikondi ndi chikondi. Ndi chifukwa cha izi zomwe anthu amakopeka, chifukwa alibe izi. Mu dziko lathu lapansi, ndipo tiri odzaza ndi imvi mitundu. Choncho malangizo: Sungani! Ndipo patsimikizidwe kuti bungweli likugwira bwino ntchito, pali ziganizo zambiri: "Kusangalala sikofunika kanthu, koma kumapangitsa zambiri", "Ndani angatenge, akhale wolemera, amene amapereka-sadzakhala wosauka", "Kuseka ndikumangirira, koma kukumbukira kumakhala kwamuyaya", "Smile kumadzaza nyumba ndi chimwemwe, kumalimbikitsa kukondana ndi kugwirizanitsa bizinesi ndipo ndi chiyanjano cha ubale wabwino "," Chisomo chimapereka mphamvu kwa anthu otopa, kumapangitsa kuti asakhale olimba mtima, kumabweretsa chisangalalo kuchisoni, ndi njira yokonzedwa ndi chirengedwe kuthetsa mavuto onse! ".
Mungathe kulepheretsedwa ndi ntchito yambiri komanso kudzikuza. Malangizo: Sonyezani chidwi mwa anthu! Choyamba mulonjerane, kumwetulira, funsani za chinachake. Kuwonetsa chidwi chenicheni kwa anthu, mudzapeza anzanu pamwezi, kusiyana ndi zaka ziwiri zomwe mukuyesera kuti anthu ena azisangalatsidwa. Anthu osungulumwa amachita zolakwa zofanana pa moyo wawo wonse: amayesa kukakamiza ena kuti awasonyeze chidwi. Ndi amene samusonyeza chidwi ndi anzake, akukumana ndi mavuto aakulu m'moyo ndipo amavulaza ena. Ndi anthu awa omwe palibe chomwe chikuchitika.
Mlanduwu sunathandizenso kupeza mabwenzi. Phunzirani kudalira anthu, kudalira pa iwo, kuwapempha thandizo, zidzakuthandizani kukhazikitsa mauthenga.
Mwinamwake vuto lanu ndilo kuti simukudziwa momwe mungayankhulire? Mukutsutsana nthawizonse? Lemezani maganizo a munthu wina, ndizofunika kwambiri. Ndizosasangalatsa kuti tiyankhulane ndi omutsutsa, zimabweretsera, zimadetsa nkhaŵa komanso zimakhumudwitsa kwambiri. Izi zimatilepheretsanso kuyanjana kwathu.
Kulankhulana mwaubwenzi, tchetechete bata. Ngati mukufuna kupeza mabwenzi, moni anzanu ndi chimwemwe ndi changu. Mukamalankhula pa foni, mugwiritsenso ntchito njirayi. Lolani womulankhulanayo amvetsetse momwe mumasangalalira kulankhula naye. Anthu omwe amayamikira izi adzabwera kwa inu ndipo adzapeza njira yocheza ndi inu, chifukwa chikhalidwe ndi ubale ndizolimba nthawi zonse kuposa ukali ndi mkwiyo.
Ngati mukufuna kudandaula, ichi ndi chifukwa chosowa abwenzi. Anthu amaopa izi, ngati moto! Iwo ali ndi mavuto awo okwanira, koma pano mukukalirira. Ikani izo, ndipo inu muwona momwe dziko lidzasewera ndi mitundu yowala!
Kulephera kumvetsera ndichinthu chotsutsana kwambiri mu ubale. Kumvetsera mwatcheru kumatanthauza kupereka wanu interlocutor wapamwamba kwambiri. Khalani womvetsera bwino! Mvetserani, mvetserani mwatcheru kwa woyimilira ndikumulimbikitseni, chitamando. Ndipotu, "matamando ndi okoma kuposa uchi."
Tamandani, koma musaweruze kapena kutsutsa! Anthu samatsutsa, amawakakamiza kuti apite kumalo otetezera, kudzilungamitsa okha, sangakukhululukire chifukwa cha izi. Kumbukirani chinthu chimodzi, chiri cholondola komanso chothandiza mu moyo: "Anthu amafunitsitsa kutamandidwa pamene akuwopa kutsutsidwa!"
Kuti muyankhulane ndi anthu, gwiritsani ntchito lamulo ili: funsani wopemphedwayo nthawi zambiri momwe angathere ndi dzina. Kukumbukira dzina, mumamupangitsa munthuyo kukhala chonama komanso chothandiza kwambiri. Malingana ndi wamkulu wa America wotsimikiza za 20 Dale Carnegie, phokoso la dzina lake, mulimonse lirilonse lomwe limatchulidwa, ndi lokoma ndi lofunika kwambiri kwa munthu.
Mukamaganizira mfundozi, mudzaphunzira kupewa komanso kusabwereza zolakwika. Kwenikweni, ndi zophweka kumanga maubwenzi, ndipo mumaphunzira mwamsanga izi, chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kuchita mantha komanso kupewa anthu. Anzanu abwino! Chibwenzi chosangalatsa!