"Mwana woyamba ndi chidole chotsiriza" - ndizo zomwe amai ndi agogo anga ankakonda kunena. Koma lingaliro ili limapangidwa kokha ndi anthu omwe sanapereke kuzunzika kwa gehena pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa woyamba kubadwa. Iwo omwe ali nazo zonse anapatsidwa mophweka ndi mophweka omwe sanapereke mayesero ndi matenda a zinyenyeswazi, kuzunzika ndi kuzunzidwa. Pamene simungathe kugona, ndipo mukadzuka, mukuyembekeza kuti ndilo loto loopsa.
Kwa ine zonse zimachitika motero: mwana amene wakhala akudikira kwa nthawi yaitali pomwe analota onse-agogo aakazi, agogo aamuna, ngakhalenso agogo aakazi, komanso, ndithudi, ife ndi mwamuna. Mwana, maloto a bambo ake, omwe "adagwedezeka", adakonzedwa ndikusamala, mwadzidzidzi tsiku lachisanu ndi chiwiri cha moyo wake anayamba kupanga makutu osamveketsa, pafupifupi palibe amene akanakhoza kumva iwo kupatula ine. Koma ndani, monga ngati mayi, amadziwa maselo onse a thupi la chilengedwe chake, kulira kulikonse ndi kulira, osakhala ndi zosayerekezeka ndi wina aliyense m'dziko lino lapansi. Amayendayenda m'njira yapadera, osati zonse, okoma ndi ofatsa kwambiri. Poyamba ndinayamba kuganiza za kubadwa kwa mwana, chifukwa cha ine sanali "chidole".
Tinamuitana dokotala wa ana kunyumba. Mwamuna anabwera, mwachangu - cattley, mu chovala chovekedwa bwino chovala. Kukhala woonamtima, nditakumana naye pamsewu, ndikadaganiza kuti iyi ndi plumber, wojambula mapepala, aliyense, koma osati dokotala wa ana. Anatulutsa phonendoscope, anamvetsera mapapu a mwana wanga, anayang'ana kuzungulira ... Ndipo ndi zimenezo. M'malo mwa zonse: adayamba kukwiya kuti sindinamukhumudwitse, kuti ndine mayi wachilendo, ndikuwopa kuti zonse zili bwino ndi mwanayo, zimangobwera pambuyo pobadwa, pamene katswiri wamagetsi samumenya madzi amniotic. Chilichonse chidzabwera posachedwa - choncho adatsimikizira.
Masabata awiri adadutsa. Koma, wina anganene kuti, wamkulu koma, tsiku lililonse magudumuwo anali amphamvu komanso osiyana kwambiri. Tsopano iwo anamva ndi mwamuna ndi makolo athu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti sindinazindikire molakwa alamu. Timachitcha kuti wapamwamba wapamalanso kachiwiri (izi ndi ine za dokotala). Poyankha, timamva zokhumudwa kwambiri komanso zofanana "zonse zidzatha."
Tsiku lotsatira mwana wanga anavutika kupuma. Kuleza mtima kwathu kunatha, mwamuna wanga anasiya ntchito ndipo tinapita naye kuchipatala. Mwachibadwa, sitinapite kwa dokotala wathu, koma nthawi yomweyo "adathyola" ku ofesi kupita kumutu. Musaganize, sitiri makolo odzudzula, ndipo timayamikira ndi kulemekeza ntchito ya madokotala, ambiri a iwo ndi osangalatsa, odzimana komanso omvera. Panjira yopita ku polyclinic, chinachake chinachitika chomwe sitingathe ngakhale kulingalira. Pakati penipeni, mtima wanga wokondeka kwambiri padziko lonse, mngelo wanga anayamba kuphulika, kenako anasanduka buluu ponseponse. Ndinafuula, mwamuna wanga sanasiye gudumu, koma adakonzekera kuima ndi kuyimitsa galimotoyo. Tinatuluka mumsewu, tinayamba kupuma, tiyang'ane (monga momwe adokotala amandiuza, ngati mwadzidzidzi mwana amamwa mkaka). Imeneyi inali mwezi mu May, koma kunali kozizira, tinkaopa kuti tipeze kuzizira. Sindikudziwa zomwe zathandiza, koma mwana wathu adali kupuma kachiwiri. Ndicho chifukwa, pofika kuchipatala, ife, popanda kupondereza, tinathamangira mpaka ku ofesi kupita ku ofesi ya dokotala.
Tinakumana ndi mayi wokongola wa zaka pafupifupi 45, ndipo poyang'anitsitsa mwanayo ndi kumvetsera ife, anatsimikiza kuti chipatala chikufunikira mwamsanga. Dokotala wina yemwe anatiyesa kawiri kunyumba, adakali bwino, kwenikweni amniotic madzi sankakankhidwira kunja. Koma ayi, mu chirichonse - panali vuto lalikulu lachipatala. Monga madotolo akuchipatala anafotokozera, ndi m'madzi awa kuti matenda aliwonse a tizilombo amatha kukhazikika ndi mofulumira.
Tinalembetsedwa mwamsanga mu chipinda chodzidzimutsa, mwadzidzidzi. Ndinalamulidwa mankhwala opha tizilombo, mwana wanga anali ndi mwezi umodzi panthawiyi (m'zaka zino, mankhwalawa akhoza kuwononga ubongo wa microplora). Koma titatha kukhala maola awiri omalizira, kale tinali tcheru. Ndinachepetsa, chifukwa pali akatswiri pafupi nane, mankhwalawa anali odzaza. Zinali theka la tsiku, koma zinandiwoneka kuti mwanayo akukonzekera.
Madzulo ndimabwera ku chakudya chotsatira, ndipo akugonanso buluu lonse ndikutsekemera, kumayambiriro I, monga momasuka, momasuka. Mu dipatimenti yowonongeka ya anamwino kwambiri - sanayang'ane, koma m'kupita kwanthawi anathamangitsidwa. Ndipo, ngati kudyetsa kunali ola limodzi mtsogolo? Mpaka lero, monga ndikukumbukira, misozi imatuluka pansi ndipo imatenga chimbudzi. Kawirikawiri, mmawa wotsatira ndinadziwitsidwa za kutitumiza ku chipatala chachikulu. Ine ndinayima ndipo ndinakhala pansi pomwepo. Maganizo oyambirira anali kuti magazi anga adakula kwambiri. Ine sindinamuone iye usiku wonse, ine sindikudziwa momwe iye aliri kapena zomwe ziri zolakwika naye. Koma dokotalayo adatsimikizira kuti adasamutsidwa chifukwa chakuti mu chipinda chokwanira mwana aliyense amamangiriridwa kwa wogwira ntchito zachipatala ndi chisamaliro, motero, adzakhala pamlingo wapamwamba kusiyana ndi wamba wamba.
Kuyambira tsiku lomwelo, masiku otalika ndi olemetsa kwambiri adakokera. Ine ndikulemba za izo tsopano, ndipo ine ndikulira ndekha. Anakhala pamenepo yekha, popanda ine! Kamodzi patsiku tinaloledwa kukachezera dzuwa lathu. Mu moyo mutha kukhala wopanda pake, dzuŵa limawala - ndipo ndikuganiza kuti chirichonse chiri imvi, osadya chakudya, osamva kukoma mtima, sindimamva. Kunyumba ndikupita ndikukumbatira ndi njiwa zake, amamva fungo lachisangalalo, koma chimwemwe changa sichili ndi ine tsopano. Sindinawabwezeretsenso kuti azikumbukira fungo la mwana wanga woyamba. Ngati panalibe chithandizo kwa mwamuna wanga ndi makolo athu - sindikudziwa, ndikadakhala nawo, ngakhale kuti ndinkangoganiza kuti ndine wamphamvu komanso wosagwedezeka kale. Mwinamwake, munthu aliyense akhoza kusweka, kutenga kuchokera kwa iye chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu moyo.
Mmodzi mwa mauthenga, ndinamva nkhani yokhudza mwana wodwala kwambiri yemwe, atabatizidwa, adakonza. Tsiku lotsatira, ine, mwamuna wanga ndi amayi athu, chithandizo chathu chachikulu ndi chithandizo chathu m'moyo, tinagwirizana ndi dokotala, tinabweretsa wansembe ndi ...
Oiwala kwambiri kuti muyenera kutengako ma mulungu. Ndinapempha kuti tikhale ambuye a mulungu ndi mwamuna wanga, koma tchalitchicho sichilola izi. Koma mmodzi mwa agogo aakazi ndi abwino kwambiri pa udindo wa mulungu. Moona mtima, sanaganizire: momwe agogo athu amavomerezana, chifukwa onse awiri adanyoza mdzukulu wawo. Iwo ali anzeru, ndipo iwo adasankha zinthu zonse okha. Chifukwa chake, ine ndi mwana wanga tinali ndi "mayi" wamba, iye anandibereka ine, ndipo anabatizidwa.
Khulupirirani kapena ayi, koma pambuyo pake dziko la lapunchik lathu lidayenda bwino ndi tsiku lililonse. Ndipo patadutsa milungu itatu tinamasulidwa. Urrra!
M'chaka chake choyamba cha moyo, nthawi zambiri ankamupweteka, koma tonse tonse tinagonjetsa ndikumukweza mwanayo. Patadutsa chaka chimodzi ndi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, mngelo wachiwiri anawonekera m'banja lathu. Tinabereka maloto kwa atate wanga - mwana wanga, ndipo potsiriza maloto anga anabadwa - mwana wanga! Zomwe takumana nazozo, tinachita miyezi itatu yoyambirira ya moyo wake ndi matenda oopsa. Palibe wina amene angaticheze kwa nthawi yoyamba, kuti asabweretse matenda. Agogo aakazi ndi agogo ake apatsidwa zovala zoyera komanso masks a zachipatala. Ndi mwana wachiwiri, zonse zinayenda bwino, zonse zenizeni komanso mophiphiritsira.
Kenaka, chirichonse chiri ngati wina aliyense, nursery, kindergarten, sukulu ... Chifukwa ana anga ali ndi zaka zing'onozing'ono kusiyana, amakhala okondana wina ndi mzake. Ngati wina akukhumudwitsa mlongo wake, m'bale - apa pomwe. Masiku ovuta kwambiri m'miyoyo yathu sanalinso obwerezabwereza, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kwambiri kuti sipadzakhalanso. Zimakhala zoopsa pamene ana akuvutika.
Kuchokera pazimenezi ndiri ndi phunziro lalikulu ndipo ndinatsiriza: Nthawi zonse mumayenera kulimbana ndi thanzi lanu ndi thanzi lanu. Musaganize kuti wina angakuthandizeni, azichita nokha, kugogoda pazitseko zatsekedwa, kuteteza ufulu wa ana anu, chifukwa inu-simukusowa aliyense, palibe amene angateteze ndi kuwasunga, kuposa makolo awo. Nkhaniyi imakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi abambo athu, ndiko kuti, atate wa ana anga. Iye ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri za ine ndipo amandilimbikitsa. M'dziko lamakono lino nkosavuta kupeza bambo yemwe ali wachikondi komanso wachikondi kuposa abambo athu okondedwa!
Tsopano ana ali ndi amayi awo, amasiya mapepala awo, amaphunzira bwino kusukulu, amapezeka ku Olympiads ndi misonkhano yofufuza, amalembedwa m'mabuku a ana aluso ku Russia. Okalamba, ozindikira, odziimira okha, koma mtima wa amayi anga sungandipatse mpumulo, "ndikugwedezeka", mofanana ndi makanda. Pano ife tiri - Mumayi Wachilendo!