Nkhani yomwe anthu abwino amakhalapo, ndipo amalowa m'moyo wanu osati pamene mukuwafuna ndikudikirira, koma pamene chiwonongeko chikufuna kukupatsani mphatso yoyenera.
Moyo wanga wam'tsogolo unali wofanana ndi moyo wa amayi ambiri amakono, ochenjera, okongola komanso osungulumwa. Pafupifupi wophunzira wabwino kwambiri pa sukulu (imodzi-inayi), sukulu yomwe ili ndi diploma yofiira (imodzi yowonjezera), chikondi chopanda chikondi m'chaka choyamba, kukwatira pambuyo pa sukuluyi ndi kugwira ntchito osati padera, chifukwa ndalama zimafunika.
Koma, mosiyana ndi abwenzi anga ambiri okwatirana, ndinalibe nthawi yoti ndikhale ndi ana awiri kapena atatu, kotero panalibe chifukwa choyenera kugwiritsira ntchito mwamuna wanga wolephera. Mu zaka zitatu, pafupifupi malinga ndi Begbeder, ndimangokhalira kumverera kwa mwamuna wanga, mchimwene wosadziwika, wosadziwika bwino. Sizinali zofunikira kugawana malo omwe analandira, chifukwa pafupifupi chirichonse, kuphatikizapo malaya ake atsopano-masokosi, adagulidwa ku malipiro anga. Ndipo nyumbayi idakhala ya agogo anga aakazi, omwe anapita kumudzi wokondeka kupita kumalo ake okondedwa a apulolere omwe ankakonda kwambiri.
Pa mlandu wanga, ndikupita kukayesa kuti ndiwonetsere chinachake, ndikulonjeza kuti amanditengera kuntchito, ndipo chitukuko chake chikanakokera, osati kwa Nobel, ndiye mphoto ya boma, komanso kuti ndikudandaula kwambiri moyo wanga wonse pa chisankho changa chofulumira.
Ndinayenera kudandaula chinthu chimodzi. Pambuyo kuti mwamuna wanga atasiya moyo wanga, abwenzi ake adathenso kuchoka kwa iye, omwe nthawi zina ndimamufunsa kuti akonze chinachake m'nyumba, ngati kuitana mwamsanga kwa mbuyeyo kunalibe ndalama zokwanira /
Panthawi inayake, ndinaganiza zopanga zinthu zing'onozing'ono m'nyumbayi ndekha. Ndinagula zida, chifukwa panalibenso kanthu katsalira m'nyumbayo kupatula nyundo ya agogo aamuna ndi nyota yopota. Ndipo zinawoneka kwa ine kuti kale m'matope munali mitundu yonse ya mtedza, mabotolo, zikopa.
Choyamba, ndinaganiza zokonza ketulo la magetsi a agogo akale. Ndinayenera kuphunzitsa pa chinachake, koma ndinalibe mphaka. Zodabwitsa, koma zoona ndizo - Ndinagwira ndi ketulo popanda khama lalikulu. Ndinauziridwa ndi kupambana, ndinaganiza zosintha mapepala kumsewu. Mwamsanga anang'amba pepala lakale, anachotsa pansi pa bolodi ndipo anazindikira kuti kwa nthawi yaitali ankasintha malo omwe amasinthasintha ndi mabowo. Oyambirira analibe nthawi ya kusintha koteroko, ndipo ine ndekha sindingathe kuchita zonse bwinobwino komanso mosamala.
Monga mwayi ukanakhala nawo, kusamba mashchinka, mobwerezabwereza kukumbukira zaka zake zolemekezeka, anasiya kukwaniritsa ntchito yake yeniyeni. Kukonza izo sizinali zogwira mtima, zikanatha mwakachetechete mu msonkhano, popanda kubwezeretsanso. Ndipo ziwalozo zinavomereza kuti avomereze, nawonso analipira ndalama zochepa. Kuonjezera kuchulukitsa ndalama khumi, ndinagula belu wosalankhula, zomwe ndinayang'ana kwa nthawi yaitali, koma sindinathe kugula, chifukwa ndinali ndi ndalama zokha ndekha ndi mwamuna wanga, koma nthawi zambiri ndi amayi ake.
Msonkhano woyamba ndi munthu wanga wabwino
Ndapeza nambala ya foni ya "Mwamuna kwa ola limodzi" ndipo adayitana ku plumber ndi magetsi. Wotumiza makalatayo adanena kuti akhoza kutumiza mbuye yemwe angatseke stylalki, ndikusintha mabowo. Pogwiritsa ntchito zolakwika, iye ankayembekezera kuti amalume omwe ali ndi theka la zaka zosamvetsetseka adzabwera ndi ntchito yamchere. Pamene munthu wovala bwino, atavekedwa bwino, atavala tsitsi lokongola, ali ndi chojambula chokongoletsera m'manja mwake, anachiyang'ana pakhomo, ndinaganiza kuti ndi adiresi yoyipa. Mu malingaliro anga, mbuye wazinyumba zazing'ono sakonza kuti aziwoneka ngati woweruza wabwino kapena mkulu wa kampani yaikulu.
Makina ochapa "mwamuna kwa ola limodzi" okhudzana ndi mphindi zingapo. Ndipo osati kokha kwa chitoliro cha madzi, monga chakale, koma ndi kukhetsa chitoliro. Poyamba, makina anga anangoyamwa madzi m'bafa. Wakale sanafune kuti azivutitsa kugula adapita ku siphon kuchokera kumadzi. Titatha kuchapa zovala, ndinapita ku khitchini.
Pamene mdierekezi anali akutola khofi, ndinali ndikupanga khofi ndipo mwadzidzidzi ndinadzimva ndikuganiza kuti sindikuganiza kuti ndizabwino bwanji kuti ndigwiritse ntchito styaralka yatsopano, kusintha kwatsopano ndi malo ena owonjezera. Ndinaganizira momwe munthu wokongola uyu angatumikire malaya aakazi, kutsegula chitseko cha galimoto yachilendo ndi kapu ya champagne. Ndipo patangotha ora limodzi anandiwonetsa kusinthana kwa ntchito, ndinaganiza zopanga ketulo ya magetsi mumalo atsopano. Pazifukwa zina adadzikuza kuti adatha kukonza yekha.
Mbuyeyo anadabwa kuti ntchito ya munthuyo ikuchitika ndi mkazi wanzeru ndi wofooka. Podziwa kuti ineyo ndi ine tinayamba kukonzanso, tinapempha chithandizo posankha galasi loyenera lagudumu, analimbikitsa mtundu wa pepala losavuta kusunga. Ndinawerenga zonse pa intaneti, koma zomwe zinagwiritsidwa ntchito popindulitsa zinali zokhutiritsa kuposa zitsimikizo za ogulitsa.
Kukambirana yachiwiri
Mwinamwake chilengedwe china pakati pathu chinayambira usiku womwewo, chifukwa mbuyeyo adapereka kugwiritsa ntchito khadi lake kuti asatengeke mu sitolo yogulitsa zipangizo. Kwa ine, kungakhale kupusa kusagwirizana; monga mkazi weniweni, ine ndikudziwa kuti palibe zotsalira zambiri.
Tinasankha mawonekedwe anga atsopano, guluu, spatula, kubweretsa zipangizo zonse ndi zipangizo ku khonde, kubweretsedwa pakhomo lakumaso. Kuchokera kumapemphero kuti ndimwe khofi, wothandizira wanga anakana, akunena za malamulo amasiku ano, koma pobwezera anathandiza kuthandizira mapepala. Kuchokera pamene ine, ndinadabwa, sindinakane.
Kwa masiku atatu ndinapita kuzipinda kudzera muzitsulo, mapepala ndi zowonjezera zowonetsera pakhomo, mabokosi okhala ndi nyali ndi zipangizo zina. Anakwaniritsa mokhulupirika lonjezo la kusayamba chirichonse. Koma Lachisanu madzulo ntchitoyi inayamba kuwira mofulumira kotero kuti ndinalibe nthawi yokonza nthawi, yomwe msewu wanga unasinthidwa. M'malo mwa zitseko zowonongeka za ndunazo komanso zojambulapo zazithunzi za mwamuna, magalasi a galasi ankawoneka mokondwera, masamulo osochera ndi zojambula zowonongeka. Kenaka mbuyeyo anasintha nyali yakaleyo panjira, adakonza makina atsopano.
Panthawi imeneyo, ndinamuchitira nsanje mkazi wake wokondedwa. Kuti iye aliko, ine pafupifupi ndinali osakayikira. Pambuyo pake, musayese kunyenga mkazi wa munthu wina, mfulu ndi nokha, ndipo ngakhale kukhala naye yekha mnyumba yake, angakhale wokonda moona mtima munthu wina.
Pamene tinayamba kusungira mapepala, ndinayesetsabe kuyambitsa kukambirana za momwe ndimakondwera luso ndi luso la wothandizira wanga komanso momwe mkazi wake analiri ndi mwayi. Kumeneko adayankha kuti mkazi wake wakale anali ndi maganizo osiyana kwambiri ndi iye, adasokonezeka komanso amatsutsidwa, akutsutsa zolakwa zonse zaumunthu ndikulephera kupanga mwana, komanso kuti wasudzulana mosapitirira zaka zisanu.
Ntchitoyi ikamaliza kukonzanso, ndipo chipindacho chikuwawala ndi ukhondo ndi chitonthozo, tinayamba kumwa tiyi. Nditatha kukambirana ndikuyamikira, sindinazindikire pamene anasamuka kuchoka ku mpando kupita ku khitchini. Koma sindinachokepo, monga momwe ndimachitira nthawi zonse pamene mmodzi wa amunawo anali pafupi kwambiri ndi malire a malo okondana. Ndinkafuna kuti andikumbatire ndi manja ake okongola ndi misomali yokonzedwa bwino, iye ankafuna zambiri osati kungotsanzikana. Monga ngati kuwerenga zozizwitsa zanga, anandipsompsona m'makutu, kenaka amafika pamilomo yanga. Kupsompsona kwachitali kunatsatira, kukukula kutentha ndi mphindi iliyonse.
Tidasokonezana wina ndi mzake kale m'chipinda chogona. Chimene chinali chotsatira, ndizochititsa manyazi kunena komanso kukumbukira mokondwera.
Ndikufuna kulemba za msonkhano wachitatu, ndi wachinayi. Koma iwo analibe basi. Mmawa, "mwamuna kwa ola limodzi," anasunthira malamulo ake onse, madalitso awo anali awiri okha. Ndipo kumapeto kwa sabata tonse tinakondana kwambiri. Zinaoneka kuti tinali ndi malingaliro odabwitsa okhudza zinthu zofunika, timaŵerenga mabuku ena ndi kumvetsera nyimbo zina.
Pamene Lamlungu madzulo ankasonkhana, ndinalankhula mowauza kuti sindimusiya kupita kwawo. Iye adatinso kuti sadzachoka, akungoyenera kudyetsa nsombazo.
Tinadyetsa nsomba pamodzi, ndiye anandipatsa chakudya chamadzulo kwambiri, ndipo ndinaganiza kuti popeza sangakhale ndi ana, ndiye kuti ineyo sindiyenera kutetezedwa. Chifukwa cha chisankho ichi, ndinayamba kukonda nkhaka zamchere.
Lero m'nyumba mwanga kuchokera ku dongosolo loyambirira lomwe linalipo, panali zokondweretsa zokhazokha. Koma ndili ndi mwamuna wabwino komanso mapasa awiri abwino, ndi maso a buluu ndi tsitsi la mapiko a khwangwala, ngati madontho awiri a madzi ofanana ndi bambo anga. Amakwera kumakona onse a nyumbayo, ndipo posakhalitsa amayamba kuthamangathamanga pazigawo zitatu za miyendo. Ndizobwino kuti nyamakazi yatsopanoyi ikhale yamphamvu kwambiri, ili ndi nthawi yosamba chilichonse. Mafilimu omwe anali pamsewu anali osauka kwambiri, kuyambira ojambula amkati afika kale. Kukonzekera kwatsopano sikuli patali, makamaka kuchokera m'firiji kumayambanso kukonza nkhaka.