"Tsopano ngati ndikanatero ..." - amaganiza kuti pafupifupi mkazi wa ku Russia, akuyang'anitsitsa zojambula zowonongeka kuchokera pa TV kapena momwe mliri umodzi umathetsera mavuto a mnzake. Kapena mzimayi wamkazi wa hamovatuyu, yemwe anatha ndi mawu angapo oposa mzere wa polyclinic ndi kupita kwa wotsogolera poyamba ndi mwakachetoto maloto a kutenga maphunziro kuti aphunzitse maluso a bitch.
Kotero, momwe mungaphunzire kukhala khungu? Kupita ku sitolo iliyonse yamabuku, mungapeze yankho la funsoli, chifukwa masamulowa ali ndi malemba okhwima: "Bukhu Lalikulu la Bitch", "The Encyclopedia of Bitch", "Khalani Bwino - Kusintha kwa Bwino." Chiwerengero cha mabukuwa sichikhoza kuwerengedwa, komabe zowona kuti mabukuwa samapereka chithunzi chonse cha khalidwe la amayi a mtundu uwu ndipo amakhala ndi malangizo omwe angakhale osowa, ovulaza ndi osayenera kwa aliyense popanda kuphwanyidwa ndi mdima wandiweyani komanso Sitipempha kupepesa mukamenyedwa. Kwa amuna, zofalitsa izi zimalimbikitsa kuti onse oimira gawo lolimba laumunthu apitikizedwe ku msomali, kuti apange magalasi owomba. Malangizo amenewa akufanana ndi chidule cha maphunziro a chikazi.
Koma cholinga cha nkhaniyi sikuti chikhale ndi chidani chonse, koma kuthandiza amayi kudziphunzitsa okha.
Kodi chidutswa chanji?
Pofuna kusankha ngati kuti mukhale chidontho kapena ayi, choyamba muyenera kudziwa kuti ndi ndani. Mafotokozedwe ndi odalirika kuposa nkhani yosanthauzira mawu kuchokera kumasulira ofotokozera a Chirasha, osapezekanso. Mu dikishonale ya Dal, kutanthauzira uku kumaperekedwa ku mawu awa: kununkhira ndi mtembo wa nyama kapena ng'ombe zakufa; chitumbuwa, chitumbuwa. Ine ndikukaikira kuti akazi akufuna izi. Mu dikishonale ya Ozhegov, chitsimikizo chamakono, akuti: ntchentche ndi scoundrel, scoundrel. Komanso si chiyembekezo chabwino kwambiri.
Mfundo ndi yakuti tsopano tanthauzo la mawu awa lasintha kwambiri. Sichidziwonetsanso kuti mtundu wosasangalatsa, suli wozunza komanso wozunza, lero mkazi yemwe amadzitcha kuti bitch sichikutanthauza kuti ndi scoundrel ndi scoundrel. M'malo mwake, chiwonetsero cha tsopano ndi munthu yemwe angakhale wachifundo ndi wokoma ndi achibale, abwenzi, ndi abwenzi, akhoza kuthandizira panthawi zovuta, koma m'moyo umenewo, ngati pakufunikira, umakhala wolimba, wolimba, umaphatikizapo chifukwa chozizira. Kuthamanga, monga lamulo, amavala bwino ndi okonzeka bwino. Apo ayi, ndi wosakanikirana.
Kotero, pakali pano, khungu ndi wokongola kwambiri yemwe amadziwa phindu la iye mwini ndi onse omwe amamuzungulira.
Nyumba yamasiye.
Kodi mkazi wamba amachita bwanji kunyumba? Ana - kusamba - kutsuka - kuphika - kachiwiri ana - mwamuna. Ndipo kodi zonsezi zimachitika bwanji ndi chidutswa? Musakhulupirire - mofananamo, chifukwa chitsimikizo chenicheni ndi chodabwitsa kwambiri kuti sangalole kuti akhale panyumba. Pakati pa malire a mbadwa, iye ndi mkazi wamba, komanso ife tonse amene timafunikira thandizo la mwamuna wake, chikondi cha ana, kutentha ndi chitonthozo. Koma pali "koma", ntchentche sichikunyoza. Iye ali ndi nzeru kuti asamire kuti azilira ndi kunyoza, iye amathetsa mafunso mwachindunji, kuphatikizapo chifukwa chozizira.
Kodi ndi koyenera kuti muphunzire kukhala khungu kunyumba? Inde, inde. Pambuyo pake, izi zikhoza kuthandiza kupulumutsa banja, osati kuwuza mwamuna wopitirira muukali, kupeza chisankho chokha chokha. Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji izi? Ndi zophweka kwambiri. Choyamba, sindimabvala chovala chakale kunyumba, koma chinachake chimakhala chokoma, koma sichoncho chokongola. Kenako chotsani tsitsili ndi tsitsi lanu ndipo musamvekanso. Ndipo kuti mukhale nokha, mkazi wachikondi ndi wabwino, yemwe safuna zifukwa zotsutsana, ndipo ngakhale mavuto amayamba kuthetsa mosavuta komanso mwabwino. Pambuyo pake, aliyense wa ife ali basi, moyo wongodziletsa umatilepheretsa kudziulula tokha.
Kuthamanga ku ofesi.
Zambiri zanenedwa za mabadi muofesi. Iwo ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi abambo okondedwa. Awa akuwerengera amayi a bizinesi, omwe amakakamizika kupita pamwamba pa ntchito. Nthawi zina, mwatsoka, pamutu ndipo izi zilibe zofanana. Zowawa zimadziwa zomwe akusowa pamoyo, zimayesa ntchito yake mokwanira, zimafuna zomwezo kuchokera kwa abwana. Komanso amalandira, chifukwa phula silidzalola kuti lichite ntchito pamlingo pansi pa zabwino.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kukhala khungu mu ofesi? Choyamba, onetsetsani kuti ntchitoyo ndiyomwe mukuikonda, ndipo mumatha kuchichita pamlingo wapamwamba kwambiri. Ngati ayi, sintha ntchitoyo. Ngati inde - khulupirirani nokha, yesetsani zotsatira zake, yambani kugwira ntchito molimbika, osayang'ana nthawi mukuyembekeza kutha kwa tsiku logwira ntchito. Ndipo, inu mukuona, oyang'anira adzawona zoyesayesa zanu. Ndipo ichi ndi cholimbikitsanso chowonjezera chokhumba mmwamba, kwa zabwino zonse.
Wotsogolera waluso, momwe mungaphunzire kukhala chidontho.
- Musakonde chilichonse chozungulira, komanso inunso nokha;
- kupeza maluso, luso, luso ndikuwathandiza;
- musazengereze kupempha kuti muyese ntchito yanu;
- phunzirani kukhala moyo osati maganizo okha, nthawi zina kuphatikizapo malingaliro;
- khalani okonzeka kusintha mu moyo;
- zilibe kanthu, khalani nokha, tsatirani ndondomekoyi pokhapokha ngati mukufunadi ndipo sichigwirizana ndi mfundo za moyo wanu.