Anthu ambiri amadziwa kuti mwana ayenera kugwedezeka, kudwala komanso kuyamikiridwa. Inde, palibe ngakhale chidziwitso cha nkhaniyi, ambiri amafuna kuwonetsa chikondi chawo pa chozizwitsa chaching'onoting'ono ichi. Mayi amafunitsitsa kuti azigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka ndi mwana wake, akhale odekha komanso okondana naye. Ndipo amachichita popanda kukayikira, kukakhudza mwanayo sikungokhala kokondweretsa, komanso kumabweretsa ubwino wodalirika kwa nzeru zake ndi thanzi lake.
Mwanayo anabadwa!
Kodi amayi amachita chiyani? Mwana wamng'ono ali m'mimba mwa mayi ake, amaloledwa kumpsompsona amayi anga. Kusamalira mwanayo mothandizidwa ndi kukhudzidwa kumakulolani kuti mumve chikondi ndi chikondi chanu. Amayi amagwira ndi kuyang'ana m'maso mwa mwana wake, kuyesera kuti awone bwino, kukukumbatira ndi kukwapula. M'chinenero cha sayansi, izi zimatchedwa kugwirizana. Mu malingaliro a mwanayo pali njira yojambula chithunzi cha mayi, mwanayo amakumbukira mmene amawonekera, momwe amavuta, komanso chofunika kwambiri - amadziwa kuti pambuyo pa vuto lobadwa la kubadwa palibe amene anamusiya, pafupi ndi Amayi, ndipo zonse zidzakhala bwino naye. Nchiyani chikuchitika kwa amayi? Kulumikizana kwakukulu pakati pa mwanayo ndi mwanayo. Ubongo wa mayi umalandira chizindikiro kuti "ayambe" kuyamwitsa, chibadwa cha amayi chimayamba kugwira ntchito. Ndipo mfundo ina yofunikira: mwanayo amabadwa kwa wosabala wosabala, pamene mayi amamukhudza nthawi yoyamba, amamupatsa iye mabakiteriya opindulitsa.
Kodi amayi amachita chiyani? Amatsuka, amasintha zovala, amadyetsa, amachita masewero olimbitsa thupi, amasangalala, amaimba nyimbo ... Tsiku lililonse Amayi amachita zomwezo pofuna kusamalira mwanayo. M'chilankhulo cha sayansi, miyezi itatu yoyamba ya moyo wa mwana atatha kubadwa amatchedwa lachinai trimester, ndipo nthawi yonse isanafike tsiku lobadwa la mwanayo ndi nthawi imene mwana amafunika kusamala kwambiri ndi chikondi. Mwana wamwamuna amabadwira mu dziko mwamtheradi osasinthika ndipo popanda mayi sangangokhala ndi moyo. Ndipo popeza kumva ndi masomphenya a mwana akadakali ndi vutoli, thupi lolondola komanso lodalirika loti mudziwe zambiri ndi ... khungu. Mwanayo amamukhudza mogwira mtima pokhudza thupi lake, ngati ali wachikondi ndi wachikondi - mwanayo amaphunzira: amandikonda, zonse ziri bwino. Kukhudza kovuta, monga kusakhala kwawo kwathunthu, tsoka, kukamba za zosiyana ndi zomwe zimakhudza osati psyche ya mwanayo, komanso umoyo wake - mpaka nthawi ikukula m'maganizo. Kusamalira mwanayo mothandizidwa ndi kukhudza kumapangitsa mwana kumverera kuti akutetezedwa.
Kodi mapepala athu ali kuti?
Kodi amayi amachita chiyani? Kuchiza. Zimaperekedwanso ndi mayi wokoma mtima kuyamwa pamwamba pa mwanayo, kusamalira mwanayo ndi chithandizo chokhudza, kumupangitsa kumwetulira. M'chilankhulo cha sayansi, kuyamwitsa ndi mliri wa matenda ambiri. Amathandiza mwanayo kuti aphunzire mwamsanga ndi thupi lake. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti zotchedwa zozizwitsa zamaphunziro abwino (kupopera minozi ya miyendo ing'onoing'ono ndi kugwiritsira ntchito) zimaphatikizidwa mu misala. Mayi akamaponyera zala zachinyamata, maselo a mitsempha amapatsidwa zizindikiro ku mbali ya ubongo yomwe imayambitsa kulankhula kwa mwanayo.
Zofunika ndi zofunika
Ponena za mwana wakhanda, chinthu china chilichonse chimakhala chofunikira. Kwa zinyenyeswazi ndi hypersensitivity yake - chirichonse chiri chofunikira kwambiri. Ndikufuna kuti mwanayo asamve chisoni chifukwa chakuti amamuveka? Perekani zokonda zamtengo wapamwamba. Sipangakhale kusamvana kulikonse, ndi bwino kupulumutsa pazinthu zina, koma "choyamba" - chomwe chimakhudza khungu la mwana - chiyenera kukhala chabwino: zosavuta kukhudza, kulola mpweya, osati kulepheretsa kusuntha, zomwe sizikuvutitsa chifukwa cha makwinya ndi kumangirira, kupereka khungu lachikondi kumverera kwachiyero ndi youma ...