Momwe mungakhalire wofunira nthawi zonse kwa mwamuna

Tikufuna akazi kuti azilambiridwa, okondedwa monga momwe tilili. Sitikugwiritsa ntchito khama lililonse, tayiwala za chiwerengero, maonekedwe, mafilimu, kutaya zest, sichimachita ngati mkazi weniweni, kumakhala chokongoletsa ndi zolengedwa zakuda. Ndipo tikuimba mlandu anthu onse. Koma ngati mumvetsetsa, amunawa alibe cholakwa chilichonse, akufuna kuona mkazi wokondweretsa, wokongola komanso wokondeka pafupi naye, omwe angamupatse modzikuza kwa achibale awo ndi abwenzi ake, omwe sachita manyazi kukhala muresitora, kupita kunja kwa mzinda. Tidzakulangizani zokhudzana ndi momwe mungakhalire ndi chidwi ndi munthu ndipo ndi ameneyo amene adafuna kuti asapindule kwa nthawi yaitali. Momwe tingakhalire okhumba nthawi zonse kwa munthu, timaphunzira kuchokera m'buku lino. 1. Mzimayi muzochitika zonse ayenera kukhala, makamaka, mkazi. Koma za izi, mwatsoka ambirife timaiwala. Chosavuta chachikulu ndikumverera mochulukirapo, komwe kumadziwonetseratu pamene tikutulutsidwa tokha. Nthaŵi zambiri mu ukali wokwiya timanena mawu ambiri, ndiyeno timadandaula pamene mkwiyo ukutha. Timachita zinthu zotere, zomwe timachita manyazi nthawi zambiri. Mulimonsemo, muyenera kudziletsa. Ngati mudaphunzira izi, ndiye kuti maziko a abwenzi anu adzaonekera.

2. Khalani buku losawerengedwa kwa iye, mwambi womwe akufuna kuwathetsa. Ngati wokondedwa wanu samadzimva kwa masiku angapo, musamupatse ma sms olira. Simuyenera kukhala ndi munthu wanu 100%. Mwamuna akazindikira kuti mkazi wake ndi wake, ndiye kuti chikondi chonse chimatha, chifukwa amatha kumuona nthawi iliyonse, mwinamwake mmalo mwa masiku anu, akhoza kukumana ndi anzanu, kuiwala, ngakhale kuwachotsa. Ndipo zonse zimachitika chifukwa amadziwa zomwe zili zoyenera, kuitana, kupempha chikhululuko, pamene mumamumvera ndi kumukhululukira.

3. Musachite mantha kuti mutaya mwamuna, ngati amvetsetsa izi, ndiye kuti posachedwa adzakuimbirani ngati chidole. Sonyezani kuti inu, pambali pake, muli ndi njira zambiri, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito madzulo ano. Ndiyeno zotsatira sizikupangitsani kuti mudikire.

4. Dzilemekezeni nokha, musanyozedwe. Ngati pali chisankho pakati pa kusunga ubale ndi ulemu, sankhani ulemu. Simukusowa munthu yemwe samakulemekezani. Posachedwa mudzapeza munthu yemwe adzakhale woyenera inu.

5. Khalani osamvera, osapezeke. Musakonzekeretse ubale wapamtima, pa tsiku, ngakhale pamene mawondo anu akuwoneka mfupa ndipo mtima ukuyamba kumenyana. Ukapanda kusonyeza chidwi kwa iye, mofulumira adzakhala wachiwawa.

6. Sonyezani mwakamodzi kwa mwamuna kuti simungalole kuti apukuta mapazi anu, kuti ndinu loto la amuna ambiri, osati thumba la nsalu. Ndipo ngati munthu samvetsa izi, ndiye amusiyeni, ndipo posachedwa adzamvetsa zomwe wataya.

7. Musakhale amayi kwa mwamuna. Simukusowa kuti mumupitirize. Izo sizidzatsogolera ku chirichonse chabwino. Mwamuna amafunika kumverera ngati mwamuna, ndipo inu, mwachiwonekere, mumasowa mwamuna wachiwawa, osati chovala chovala. Aloleni apange chisankho chake, ngakhale patapita nthawi, adzalapa. Koma ngati simungathe kuzikumbukira, kumbukirani mawu akuti: "mutu wa mwamuna ndi khosi la mkazi". Yambani munthu wanu kutsogolera, koma chitani kuti asaganizirepo za izo.

8. Kuchokera pamsonkhano woyamba, musalankhule naye za ubale weniweni, izi zimangopseza munthu. Ziwoneke ngati simukufuna ubale wina uliwonse, ngakhale amphaka ayamba kuwonekera pa mawu awa.

9. Kulimbitsa mtima. Musadzifanizire nokha ndi abwenzi ake, ndi zopusa. Pambuyo pake, ngati atasiya iwo, ndiye kuti mumakhala bwino kuposa iwo, ganizirani.

10. Muyenera kuyang'ana wofatsa ndi wachikazi, ngati duwa kuchokera kwa "kalonga wamng'ono", ndiye kalonga wanu akufuna kukutetezani ndikukutetezani, ngati maluwa osalimba. Ndipo izi ndi zomwe mukusowa.

11. Musaiwale kutamanda mwamuna wanu, amamukonda. Ndipo ndithudi, iye sangayimire ngati mutayamba kulankhula mu khutu lake, momwe alili wofatsa, wodabwitsa, wokoma mtima ndi wamphamvu.

12. Muyenera kuyang'ana 100%. Muyenera kukhala ndi mawonekedwe abwino, mawonekedwe abwino, manicure abwino. Ndiyeno palibe mnyamata yemwe angakhoze kuyima pamaso panu.

Musaiwale momwe mungafunire nthawi zonse mwamuna. Dzikondeni nokha ndipo mudzakondedwa. Ngati mkazi amadzichitira yekha ulemu, ndiye kuti amamuchitira. Dziwani nokha: dzipangireni chikho cha tiyi onunkhira pamadyerero okwera mtengo, tengani kusamba kofiira kofiira, sambani chipinda ndi mafuta onunkhira anu. Ndipo komabe, inu nokha mukudziwa zomwe mungachite nokha, kumbukirani zomwe munkafuna nthawi zonse, koma inu nokha simunaloledwe kuchita izi.