Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti atsogoleri samakhala ola limodzi. Ngakhale omwe anabadwa ndi mapangidwe a mtsogoleri ayenera kugwira ntchito okha kuti awonjezere mwayi wawo wopeza zipatso zabwino monga munthu amene akutsogolera gululo. Pali mwayi wolemba makhalidwe ambiri, omwe mosakayikira, ndi ofunikira. Koma akatswiri a zamaganizo, pokhala ataphunzira nkhani za anthu otchuka kwambiri, asonkhanitsa mndandanda wa zinthu khumi zomwe mukufunikira kuti mudziwe nokha mu mzere waukulu, ngati mukufuna kuti mukwanitse kupambana. Kuposa mlingo wotsatira, muyenera kukhala ndi zinthu zotsatirazi zomwe zimakhalapo kwa bwana.
Masomphenya a cholinga. Atsogoleri ali ndi lingaliro lomveka bwino la komwe akufuna kupita ndi zomwe adzakwaniritse. Iwo amaimira chithunzi chowonekera ndikupanga ndondomeko yamakono kuti agonjetse zolinga zawo.
Momwe mungakhazikitsire masomphenya anu a cholinga: funsani nkhani za atsogoleri akulu ndi anthu abwino, werengani mabuku atsopano ndi othandizira kuti achite malonda, alankhulane ndi anthu omwe apanga luso la utsogoleri. Konzani njira zina tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo penyani momwe zakhala zolondola komanso zogwira ntchito ngati njira zomwe zatengedwa kuti zithe kugonjetsedwa zakhala. Pang'onopang'ono perekani patsogolo panu zolinga zakutali kwambiri.
Mphamvu yopanga zisankho. Atsogoleri sali oopa kutenga chisankho chovuta komanso chosasinthika, chifukwa amadzidalira okha ndi mphamvu zawo. Iwo amadziwa kuti kusatsimikizika kumapha chuma ndi zomwe zingatheke.
Momwe mungasinthire luso lanu lopanga malingaliro: yambani kupanga zisankho mmalo momwe kusagwirizana kapena kulephera sikungakhale kovuta kuti mukhale odzidalira. Ngati yankho la vutoli silikhala lolakwika, tenga tanthawuzo la cholakwikacho ndikupitiriza.
Kulandira chiopsezo. Atsogoleri ayenera kukhala olimba mtima kuti achite zinthu zomwe sizidzatsimikizika. Iwo ali pangozi yoopsa.
Momwe mungaphunzire kuika zoopsa: Fufuzani mkhalidwewu polemba mndandanda wa ubwino ndi zovuta za njira iliyonse, ndiyeno muwonetsetse chiwerengero chirichonse cha kuwerengera kwa zoopsa za m'modzi kapena zisanu. Kenaka, dziwani kuti pangakhale kusiyana kulikonse komwe kudzachitike momwe mudakwaniritsira. Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kuti muyankhe pa chiopsezo chimene mukufuna kuti musunthire komanso chomwe mukufuna kusankha.
Malangizo: musamayembekezere ungwiro. Palibe amene adzapambana nthawi zonse. Kuchita zolakwa, atsogoleri akuwuka.
Chilimbikitso cha ena. Atsogoleri akhoza kukhazikitsa malingaliro awo a zolinga ndi njira zogonjera, ndikuwongolera ena za kufunikira kwa malingaliro awo. Iwo akhoza kulimbikitsa anthu kuti achitepo kanthu kuti akwaniritse zolinga ndi zolinga zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa kuzinthu izi, zomwe anthu awa sanakhulupirire kuti angazipeze. Motsogoleredwa ndi atsogoleri a gululo amayesetsa kukonza makhalidwe awo enieni.
Momwe mungalimbikitsire anthu: phunzirani zosowa zomwe zingalimbikitse anthu kuti agwire ntchito. Mvetserani kuti chotsatira chomwecho sichisonkhezera munthu aliyense. Mvetserani mosamala kwa ena kuti mudziwe zomwe zimawachititsa.
Malangizo: Limbikitsani ogwira ntchito pokhapokha atatsimikiza kuti aliyense wa iwo akumvetsa momwe ntchito yake imathandizira kukwaniritsa cholinga chimodzi.
Mphamvu yokonza timu. Atsogoleri amapanga magulu othandiza omwe amapangidwa ndi anthu abwino kwambiri. Gululi linapanga bwino mgwirizano, anthu a gululo amangokhalira kugwirizana ndi kuthetsa kusagwirizana.
Mmene mungakulitsire luso lanu lokonzekera gulu: Pewani mayankho osakondera pafunso lililonse. Ganizirani momwe mungayang'anire zochitika zosiyanasiyana m'makambirano, m'malo moyesera kutsimikizira nokha malingaliro anu. Phunzirani kuona ndi kugwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe abwino a gulu lonselo.
Limbikitsani kudzidziwa. Atsogoleri amadziwa zofooka zawo ndi mphamvu zawo ndikuyesa khalidwe lawo moyenera. Amadziŵa zofooka zawo, amatha kuyankhapo ndipo ali ndi mwayi wokonza zinthu zawo, ngati kuli kofunikira. Bwana wabwino amadzipereka kwambiri. Iye samangochita zogwirizana ndi miyezo yodalirika, koma amalimbikitsanso kwambiri bar kuti akwaniritse zabwino mmadera osiyanasiyana a ntchito yake.
Mmene mungakulitsire kudzidziwa kwanu : yesani zochita zanu ndi zotsatira zawo. Funsani maganizo a anthu pa zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mukhale ndi makhalidwe abwino a mtsogoleriyo.
Malangizo: Khalani ndi ndondomeko ya tsiku ndi tsiku kuti mulembe zochitika ndi zochitika zofunikira kwambiri. Kotero nthawi iliyonse yomwe mungayang'ane mmbuyo ndikuyang'ana zomwe mwachita bwino ndi zomwe zingakhale bwino.
Kusunga umphumphu wa munthu. Atsogoleri ayenera kukhala odalirika, pokhapokha ena adzawatsatira. Ubale ndi woona mtima, malingaliro abwino, zochitika zowonekeratu, kusayendetsa khalidwe laukali komanso kupsa mtima - izi zonse zizindikiro za umphumphu. Umphumphu umalola munthu kutsatira zofuna zake, ngakhale njira ina imene ingawoneke kukhala yopindulitsa kwambiri komanso yodalirika.
Bwana, yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lachikhalidwe, akuwoneka kuti otsatira ake ali odalirika ndi omveka, zomwe zimamupangitsa kukhala omasuka kwa iwo. Komanso, akhoza kukhala chitsanzo choyambirira kwa anthu omwe akufuna kumutsanzira.
Mmene mungayang'anitsire umphumphu wanu: mwakhama kufunafuna mayankho ndi anzanu, ogwira nawo ntchito, kuphatikizapo ogwira ntchito. Izi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa bwino zomwe mumayendera komanso malire a udindo wanu, ndipo mudzatha kutsimikizira momwe malingaliro anu ponena za cholinga ndi udindo wanu pokhala ndi amzawo okondana akugwirizana ndi a anthu ena.
Yesetsani nokha m'moyo wanu wonse. Atsogoleri amayesetsa kuphunzira nthawi zonse, kukula ndi kutsegula maganizo atsopano.
Mmene mungakulitsire zidziwitso zanu: kuonjezerani makhalidwe anu aumwini, kulankhulana ndi anzako kuti mutengere malingaliro atsopano ndi kudzoza, kukopetsani zochitika za atsogoleri odziwa zambiri, werengani zolemba pa chiphunzitso cha anthu.
Malangizo: Atsogoleri anzeru amayang'ana omanga nawo omwe angathe kuwonjezera zofooka zawo.
Kulankhulana bwino. Atsogoleri ali ndi mwayi wopereka malingaliro awo kwa anthu osiyanasiyana, ndipo amatha kuwongolera njira yolankhulirana kuti athe kupeza njira kwa munthu aliyense ndi kumvetsetsa kumodzi ndi munthu aliyense.
Mmene mungalimbikitsire luso loyankhulana: yesetsani kumvetsera mwatcheru ndi kumvetsetsa zizindikiro za thupi. "Werengani pakati pa mizere" pokambirana, makamaka pamene mukugwira ntchito ndi anthu omwe mumadziwa bwino gulu lanu kapena omwe ali ndi mwayi omwe nthawi zina sakufuna kunena chilichonse chomwe akuganiza. Perekani mfundo zofunika kwambiri, ndikudzibwerezerenso zokhazokha, koma nthawi zonse zimaperekedwa m'njira zonse - kuti aliyense athe kumvetsetsa zomwe akukambiranazo. Omvera akufunsidwa kuti abwereze zomwe adanena kuti atsimikizire kuti amamvetsa bwino nkhaniyo.
Thandizo lothandiza kwa ena kuti apambane. Mtsogoleri wodziwa bwino amapereka mwayi kwa ena kuti adziŵe zomwe angathe kuchita, pozindikira kuti izi zimangowonjezera gulu komanso zimabweretsa ubwino wa bungwe.
Mmene mungaperekere ena kuponderezedwa: kutamandani ngakhale kupindula kakang'ono kwa membala aliyense. Perekani maudindo anu ndi maudindo kwa omvera anu, ngati muwona kuti ali ndi luso, yesetsani kukhala ndi udindo.
Ndinakufotokozerani "kutsogolo kwa ntchito", ndiko kuti, anapereka lingaliro la zomwe muyenera kusintha ndikukhala nokha, kuti mukakhale mtsogoleri amene angatsogolere anthu. Inu, ngati mukufuna kuti mukwaniritse zenizeni, mutha kutsatira ndondomeko zondipempha.