Kotero, muli ndi mnzanu, ndipo mumamukonda ndi mtima wanu wonse, mumalumikiza maselo onse a thupi. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse ndi ubwenzi wapamtima womwe mukufuna kukondweretsa ndikumudodometsa mpaka pamtunda. Chimodzi mwa zigawo zofunika kwambiri mu izi ndi njira yokondweretsa. Ngati izo zikuyenda bwino, ndiye kugonana kumakhala kokongola basi. Ndiyeno funso likubweranso: Kodi mungabweretse bwanji mnyamata ku chisangalalo?
Choyamba - mawonekedwe. Ngati mukufuna kudabwa ndi wosankhidwayo pamsonkhano wotsatira, muyenera kusamala maonekedwe anu mwanjira yochenjera kwambiri: valani monga momwe mungathere ndikugonana. Koma musapitirirepo, ndibwino kuti mutsimikizire kugonana, ndipo osati poyera. Musagwiritse ntchito zinthu zopanda pake ngati khosi lakuya kapena siketi yachifupi kwambiri - monga momwe akatswiri a maganizo amaganizira, kavalidwe kapena msuzi mpaka pamondo ndipo ndi kanyumba kakang'ono kangakhale kosavuta, ndipo decollete ayenera kukhala yaying'ono kuti mfupa ipitirirebe. Khosi likhoza kukongoletsedwa ndi mikanda kapena unyolo. Kukongoletsa kwa msungwana aliyense ndi maso ake, chifukwa chake ayenera kutsindika ndi pensulo kapena mithunzi. Pamilomo, simukusowa kugwiritsa ntchito zida zilizonse zowala, zomwe ziri bwino kuyang'ana mthunzi wosalowerera. Komanso, milomo iyenera kukhala yowonongeka mozungulira - izi zidzawapangitsa kuti azikopa komanso kukopa.
Momwe mungabweretsere munthu kuti azisokoneza Mukamakambirana ndi mnzako, yesetsani kumamuyang'ana ndi chikondi ndi chilakolako, koma musamachite nthawi zonse. Tumizani iye kuyang'ana mwachidwi, ndiye yang'anani mwachizolowezi, patapita kanthawi, chitani kachiwiri, ndi zina. Pansi pa tebulo, mungathe kusewera phazi lanu pang'onopang'ono, mukuyang'ana m'maso mwake, ndikumanena kuti mukusowa, mumalankhula momwe mukuphonyera pafupi, milomo yake yachikondi, manja amphamvu ndi lirime losamalira.
Ponena za ndondomeko yachisangalalo, tikhoza kupereka zowonjezera zowonjezera zowonjezera. Ngati mukusowa chigamu chosakumbukika, musagwidwe ndi chakudya ichi, kapena inu, kapena mnzanuyo. Njira yoyenera ya izi idzakhala masamba ndi zipatso, saladi ya tomato, azitona ndi nkhaka mafuta. Kuchokera ku zakumwa zoledzeretsa, vinyo wofiira ayenera kukondedwa - zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale osangalala, pamene mukupewa kugona. Macheso amathandiza kwambiri pakulimbikitsana. Kukondweretsa mnyamata ndi kuthandizidwa ndi kupsompsana ndi kosavuta - kudzakhala kokwanira kudutsa misozi yopsompsonana kupyolera m'madera ake ovuta.
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zovuta kwambiri ndizo khosi. Pang'onopang'ono mukugwedeza milomo yake, kumpsompsona, pang'onopang'ono kumatsikira ku chifuwa, samalani ndi minofu, kusewera ndi lilime lawo, komanso, musaphonye mphuno. Mwinamwake izo ziwoneka zachilendo kapena zodabwitsa kwa inu, koma amuna ambiri amangopsompsona mimba. Zoonadi, zochitika zofotokozedwa bwino sizongopeka pokhapokha ndipo muyenera kuphatikizapo malingaliro mu bizinesi ili ndi kulingalira zomwe mnzanuyo amakonda.
Mwa njira, simuyenera kumenyana ndi munthu ngati watopa, zomwe zimamveka mosavuta ndi maonekedwe ake. Pankhaniyi, ndibwino kumupatsa mpumulo choyamba. Njira yabwino yothetsera kuyambika ndikum'patsira kupaka minofu. Sambani mitu yake ndi manja ake, muphwanya khosi ndi mapewa, pukutsani msana wake - izi zidzakuthandizira kusintha kwa magazi ndikuthandizira mnzanuyo, ndipo ngati mutachita izi ndi malingaliro, pang'onopang'ono mumakonda kukondana, ndiye kuti akhoza kumangokhalira kukondana.
Kugwiritsa ntchito malangizo onsewa, kumbukirani kuti munthu aliyense ndiyekha ndipo aliyense amafuna njira yapadera. Amuna ena amakonda kumpsompsona kumutu, koma ena kumvetsera, ndi zina zotero. Mukhoza kulemba kwa nthawi yaitali. Njira imodzi yabwino yodziwira zomwe munthuyo akufuna ndikumufunsa. Komabe, musapemphe "pamphumi." Zidzakhala zomveka kuti tipeze izi mozungulira. Mwachitsanzo, pochita chiyanjano, mungathe, mukumukakamiza, ndikunong'oneza bondo kuti mum'funse zomwe angafune. Funso likufunsidwa bwino mu mawonekedwe awa: "Wokondedwa, ndikuyenera kukuchitirani chiyani kuti muzisangalala ndi chikondi changa?". Sizingatheke kuti mutha kupeza munthu yemwe samayankha funsoli mosangalala, chifukwa chimadalira chisangalalo chake, komanso chisangalalo cha wokondedwa wake.
